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Q: Ok, So I am 13 years old and since May 2005, I have found myself madly in love with no other than a 20 year old McDonalds worker. He has started to open up a little more in the past couple of months, and he gives me lots of hugs, flirts, and shows all the "signs" of love back. Yet he has never told me. This week we are supposed to go to the movies. My question is, Should I open up and tell him I love him or should I just wait until he does?
haha this one got alot of advice in such a short time

but thats illegal.. and i dont think you should go to the movies with him cause if you do anything sexual with him (which he may try cause older guys do that) then he will get arrested.. so thats not gonna be a good idea

Q: Ok well I have a friend who is 12 and she wants me to ask a question on here. (Not old enough to register yet.) Well she wants a BF and she wants to know if she is old enough to have one. Answers?
yah shes old enough to.. there really isnt a age where you have a boyfriend but the relationship might not last that long cause theyre young and all

Q: ok so im a freshman in high school (15 yrs old) and like every weeekend someone in our grade has a party at their house.. and of course there's drinking. a lottt of people go.. and it's always the thing that everyone is talking about the week after that in school.. i havent gone to any yet.. but i really want to. what are some tips to like "fake drink" or only drink a little?
i really wouldnt suggest going because just last night i went to a party and we ALL got busted.. the cops came and everything.. i mean its not really worth getting caught ..but to fake drink or whatever.. you can hold a beer and bring it where ever you walk and it might seem like your drinking it.. but if theres alot of people they really wouldnt notice..

Q: when parent's ask you a question you don't know the answer to what do you say. They hate it when you say i don't know.
"umm.. im not really sure but ill find out"

Q: Hey guys..I just wanted to know what you think is better..Being single over the summer or having a boyfriend?
well i think it would be cute if you had a boyfriend over the summer cause usually you get to see them and its always nice out . idont know but it would be nice to have a boyfriend over the summer ..but if you like to party and hookup with guys then i guess being single would be better

Q: k, i know if 13 but i WANT bigger boobs, i hate waiting! i'm always being called 'flat' and i hate it, can i eat something or do something to make them bigger without stuffing or implants?!
well well. you can try pushup bras. they really work i mean i wore one today and i got so many compliments. ahaha okay. well try those and they definetly make your boobs look bigger!

Q: When you shave are you supposed to shave the upper part of your leg too? I never have because the hairs are so light you can notice...but are you supposed to?
since your hair is light, you dont have to but if you want to so ur legs look nice and smooth then you could shave them all off

Q: i heard that lemons can help make ur hair lighter...does that really work?
and if it does, what do u do with the lemons?
yah lemons do make your hair lighter. what you do is squeeze the juice out of the lemon and put them in your hair. like if you want hilites then put it on some strands and if you want your whole head lighter, then youll have to have a lot of lemons. and then you sit out in the sun for a long time

Q: Is it safe to ride roller coasters when you are pregnant? I know it's probably not towards to end of pregnancy, but what about the first few months?
well it would probably be better not to go on the roller coaster just in case something might happen to the baby

Q: Okay. This is kinda gross. My feet smell and it's a disgusting odor. It's really embarressing if you go to someone's house and have to take your shoes off. Is there a way I can control the odor? Please help!!
sometimes you can put baby powder in the shoe and most of the smell will not be there.. but you can try washing the inside of the shoes or put perfume in it so it wont smell as much. also try changing your socks ..maybe that will work too. good luck!

Q: Under the "send" button on an AIM screen theres a little bar with 3 red, 2 yellow and a bunch of green squares. Does it do anything & why is it there?
it shows you how much you send to people. like its hard to explain but green shows that you can keep on sending IMs and yellow means that you are close to stop IMing people because you are typing too fast. and if its red it sometimes stops you because you are sending IM's too fast.

Q: On myspace, when you press "view more pictures", some people have other pictures as their captions!!! HOW do you do that! PLEASE help..i rate
1. logon to your myspace account
2. go to upload/change photos
3. under each picture it should say
-set as default- -add caption- -add to ranking- and -delete-
4. click on add caption and it should have a something you can write in and type in whatever you wnt and click update caption!

Q: i need some good creams or something to get rid of zits!!! i broke out today adn my forehead has like tiny little zits allllllll over it. i hate it. the only kind i know that works is proactiv...which is on the expensive side..and i only want to buy that as a last resort!


thanks
okay this may sound really wierd and stuff but i acutally use toothpaste. i have used some other acne stuff and they dont work as well as this toothpaste. it may sound wierd but to me it works GREAT. its colgate total advanced fresh. you may not believe me but give it a try, it may work for you too. it makes my pimple less red and more smaller and if you use it before you go to sleep for like 2-3 days, it will be gone.

if you dont want to use toothpaste, i guess you can try acnefree, i use that and it works pretty good. good luck!

Q: I spilled soda on my phone yesterday and it broke and now I'm afraid to tell my parents. It was an accident, the soda leaked in my purse, it wasnt out of carelessness or anything, but I dont know how to approach telling my parents!!
tell them your really sorry and you will pay the cost of the damage

something i heard was that you could blow dry your phone without the sim card and stuff and it may work. but im not sure.. you can try though since it may be worth a chance. good luck!

Q: I was wondering if anyone knew some places (expensive or cheap) that have cute boho clothes and accessories. I always wear clothes from American Eagle, Hollister, and abercrombie, but im tired of looking like everyone else.
you can try forever21, charlotte-russe, old navy or anystores around your area. good luck!

Q: ok im a and i want to know how to shave your....ya know...thing lol. like my hair right now is like and 1 inch long and if i just shave it with a razor it will hurt. how do i get rid of it? please help ill rate 5's!
well im assuming you are a girl. so what you do first is try to cut most of the hair off down there with scissors. and the remaining, just shave it with your razor. and be sure to use shaving cream ..good luck!

Q: is fingering or sticking things up there bad for you? does it affect your health in any way at all?
fingering isnt bad for you, just make sure the fingers are clean so bacteria doesnt get into you. and if you were to stick things up there, be sure that its like not bad ..and masterbating isnt bad for you, its acutally healthy

Q: Can you shave your arms? Cuz my friend said that it looks bad if you shave your arms,is that true? Or should I take a chance and shave them?
yah you can shave your arms. but im just letting you know, when you shave your arm.. the hair will grow back thicker and darker just like your legs. and plus you would have to constantly shave your arms alot

Q: I got a bad test grade and I promised my mom this wouldn't happen again this school year. If I get it signed, then I get extra credit and an A. Because of that, I want and need it sighed. Any good ideas on how to tell her without her being like super mad? 13/f
first off, tell her that you are really sorry and you tried your best and this wont happen again. then tell her that if she signs it, then you will get extra credit and an A. so even if you did get a bad test grade, you will still get an A.

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