So I'm 13 and so is this guy I like he is also 13.he touches me every where my boobs my pussy and my butt.he says that he would fuck me any time any where and any place.he does this all in class. He has also gotten hard right in front of my face in front of class.he said that he wants to fuck me and that if I don't have sex with him that he would rape me in the end of the school year before we go to high school.Well he just makes me so horny that I just wanna have sex with him ?what should I do,he makes me get wet and makes me get on top of his body.whatshould I do ? Should I just lose it already?
You really should not be letting a guy touch you like that. It's honestly harassment. And guys like to take advantage of vulnerable guys. And of course you would get wet, because it's your body's natural response to feelings like that. Clearly, you get turned on by dirty-talk. 13 is a very young age to lose your virginity and you are clearly having doubts about it since you turned to this website for someone's opinion. And trust me, it doesn't take much for a guy to get hard. You need to realize that there is the possibility that after he does have sex with you, he may not want to do it with you anymore, or look down on you. Also, since you are a virgin, you can surely count on the fact that you might not have such a good time when you first try it. If he has deep feelings for you, then he should understand that he might not get the enjoyment of sex out of your first few times. Will he be there for you through that time? Can he emotionally comfort you through this? I'm not trying to sound like a prick but honestly, these are very vulnerable moments to any girl and these memories do not leave you. So please, I'm not saying not to, but I'm asking you to be smart about it and think about yourself in the long run.
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How do you stay positive and happy when you're injured? I used to be a very happy person, but I currently have carpal tunnel and tendonitis (and a related neck problem). I'm unable to really work (they have me standing greeting people), can't do anything involving repetitive motion, and am in a lot of pain all the time. I'm in physical therapy, so hopefully it'll get better, but how do I stay happy and positive in the meantime? A lot of people think I'm faking it and I just feel so useless all the time. I'm getting really angry and bitter (especially at the way I'm treated by people at work) and it's no good.
-21/f
I think you should seek a professional psychologist or therapist for this type of issue. It's not easy to decide what you can/cannot should/should not do, especially for me since I'm not well versed with this I really do not feel that you have a good position where you work because of the expectations it demands on you, physically and emotionally. Now, I'm not trying to say that you should shun yourself from the public, but until you get better physically and emotionally, I think you should try to separate yourself from what makes you angry and bitter.
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Ok so about a week ago I broke up with a guy because he isolated me from my friends, but I still love him so much. He told me last night that he wants to kiss me one last time on Monday when we see each other at school. I want to kiss him more than anything in the world, Im scared though. We've kissed before but we arent dating now and I dont want people to think we're back together. He told me early this morning that he loves my best friend. I was so hurt. I mean, your not supposed to go for your ex's bestie. Like seriously I was pretty pissed off. I told him I love him and he said he loves my best friend. Well isnt this great. Then, he appologized for everything and I dont know what to say. I love him and I want to kiss him on Monday. Should I?
What kind of guy leaves you for your best friend? Any guy knows that boundary and honestly, if you kiss him, then you're just submitting yourself to him. He probably apologized to you because of how pissed off you were since he told you he was 'in love' with your best friend. Look, any guy who tells their ex they're in love with their best friend is a guy who doesn't deserve to be with a decent girl. And you should not tolerate him. How does your friend feel about this issue? Will she go out with him? I think you need to give your relationship some space before you decide to make a decision because no guy in his right mind should have even told you such words.
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I had unprotected sex the 17th of March and was due to get my period a couple of days ago so i got a pregnancy test. I took two clear blue ones and they both appeared with a distinct bold horizintal line and a faint thin vertical line. Than I took a first response test and it came up negative right away. First response also comes with a digital test to confirm it and it came back no.The past two days Ive been feeling weirdly nausea and have stomach cramps Do you think I could be pregnant?
19/f
Your nerves could be getting to you. You need to try to relax and your pregnancy symptoms will go away. Take another test in a few weeks.
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if there is any chance of pregnancy, can she abort easily
The longer you take to abort, the riskier it becomes. You need to find out asap because as the fetus grows, the more you need to do to abort. Abortion is not easy. You also need to have some money to do so.
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yes she has taken a contraceptive pill after 25 hrs of sex but she missed her periods this month her last menstural date is 2 march and she had
a sex 0n 13 march
You might want to take a test just incase. It should be detectable within a month.
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Okay, I'm 16/f and straight and things have been happening lately with a guy and I think we may lose our virginity because to be quite honest all we've been doing is 'sexting' for weeks and he seriously asked what contraception we should use. We've been really mature about it and we know we' re ready. Thing is I am a bit worried about my cherry popping and it bleeding all over the sheets, especially at his house! Any advice? (I know I can't stop it from happening obviously)
If your body is new to being streched down there, then yes it might hurt and you might have a burning sensation, which might ruin your mood for further intercourse. It is not 100% true that this is the case for you or that it will happen. But, it is likely. You probably won't bleed so much, but there will be some spotting, if this is the first time he's ever entering you. I honestly feel that the best way to go about it, without pain, is to start small. Have him finger you and get your body used to being open a little. As things progress, and as your body becomes comfortable to the feeling, he can improve on size. When you think you are ready to take it up a notch, then I feel you should go ahead and have sex. This is only to help minimize the pain on you.
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can girl become pregnant ihf she has sex not during period but after 10 days of period
You can become pregnant anytime. Women have reported to have gotten pregnant during their period. It's possible. And no condoms do not protect against STI's. You have to know your cycle and know when you're most fertile. If you are unsure, use an emergency contraceptive after sex.
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I have an injury to my chest (not sure what yet, am awaiting test results). It's keeping me off work and then because I'm off work I don't want to go to college, so I'm off that too. Have been off for 5 days now. I am desperate to go back to work but it is such a physical job I dont know when I can.
My test results should be about 10 days. The main suspicion is a fracture to my sternum or a muscle tear.
How can I make myself less depressed about not being able to go to work? How can I help myself get better?
Thanks.
Why not take on a project that you've always wanted to do but never could have because you were to busy to work. Do something that doesn't involve rigorous physical activity. It's only 10 days but you need to be careful with your fracture. Man, if I were you, I'd take the time to rest up though and maybe catch a few movies. Time like that is hard to come by when you're always busy with classes and work.
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As true as this may be, or NOT!!!! It's my brothers business if he wqants to end it all. And mine as well. I think about ending it all the time, Life sucks then you die. Why NOT make it sooner than later. After all nothing is going to change, and I wil still be alone unhappy, and still wont be able to pay my bills. There is no solution except death! The only way to leave all the problems I have is death. SO my friend, unless your willing to pay my bills, bring my family back to me, bring love back into my life, and give me a normal life tha FO
If that's how you really felt then telling people to FO doesn't even make sense. You seem like you need someone to actually talk to, rather than reading advice from someone. Get yourself a shrink. If you can't pay your bills because of some unforsaken reason, there are ways to get help, I'm sure of it. Death is the ultimate way to escape all misery. You need to learn how to live for yourself and fend for yourself. Talk to someone.
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i m from khurja its a very small town befor one year i was decieded to cum mumbai n become a dacer in sm dance company i paid aroud fifteen thousand per mounth to stay , food n dance classe now i belong very middle class family bt my parents always spourt me bt today i know their all r fake its just for making fool us all are dance instructer are so old in dance company n u have to need contacts than u become instructer now my parent say please cum back coz they cant aford any more n its right bt i cant l
Wanting to die because your family cannot support you doesn't make sense. If you really like what you do in Mumbai, then I'm sure you can find a way to make things work. I hear Mumbai is definitely a hotspot for young talent and if you are very good in your dance class, then try to audution for other places and let them know of your money situation. If you are from a middle class family, I'm sure you can find a part-time job to help pay for some of the classes.
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I like this guy like alot. His best friend is like a big brother to me. I hangout with his best friend like everyday because we're neighbors and we're really close. Everytime I talk about the guy I like which is his best friend , he always says negative things about him. Whenever something comes up in a conversation that reminds him of the guy I like, he always talks about the same thing happening to the guy I like but he makes him look bad and says negative things about him. My friend thinks that he does this just because he likes me but I don't think that's true because we are like brother and sister. So, what does this mean?
I agree with your friend. If that's his best friend, and he's putting him down for you, that's definitely a sign. It's hard to see these things when you are the one in the actual situation. When you look it in in the perspective of where I am and where your friend is, you can start to see why we feel this way about the guy and you. Now, I'm not saying that this is the case and that his friend does like you, but from what's been told, I can see why it was logical for your friend to make this assumption. Why not ask your friend why he puts his friend down so much when they're friends. I know it can be hard to go directly to the source for information because you at least want to make sure you're heading in the right direction. Start by asking little questions to make things a little easier for you.
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i am from india,kindly tell me whether someone can get hiv infection if some one ejaculate semen into ur faeces hole...
Yes you can.
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what is the ripening process of bananas
starch converts to sugar
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I'm getting spacers this morning so i am wondering if they hurt... most of my friends say they do so i am a little scared. please help, do they hurt, pinch of pull.. ahhhhh i'm scared :s
They do hurt, but they don't pinch or pull. It creates a gap in your teeth so that way, your orthodontist can put bands around your back teeth. It hurts for a week and it will make your teeth very sensitive but take some pain medication and make sure you eat soft foods for the time.
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i am 12yrS old from india..i am a female..i have really good friends in school and even boys with whom i have been since 9 yrs or so..dey too are very friendly with me and i even call dem on my birthday parties nd ya dey come
also!!..but because i am fat dey make fun of me ...but ya dey noe that i am very intelligent nd and
apple in all the teachers eye...i wasnt naughty before bt wen i met dem dey made me naughty( mischiefs in scul)...dey even talk abt sex and all..as there are very less girls in my class i have only frnds which are boys...nd d odr girls r nt frnds with dem ...dey feel jealous dat boys r my frnds nd dey tont meh also..we certainly hav a grup of 4 nd dey always hit meh...dey noe dat i wudnt tell mam..i need nd advice abt how to gain dere attentn
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Just try talking to them and tell them that they are only your friends. They probably like some of your guy friends and are probably jealous of you.
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Hey there(: well Ive got myself into a big mess! Two guys like me and I like them BOTH back! Btw I'm 14/f anyway I don't know which one to chose! I've done pros and cons, and their equal plus I asked my friends half say one the others say the other, and I like them both equally what should i do? This is so confusing please help thanks!!(:
Go for the second, cuz if you really liked the first, then you wouldn't have looked at the second.
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How to you tell when a guy is actually into you and flirting or if it's just his personality to be nice to everyone? Examples would be awesome! Thanks!
check to see if he pays special attention to you. if he texts you, try drying the conversation a little and see if he makes an effort to pick it back up
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Do they check on your grades to see if your failing even though they accept you?
Would it matter to them if I failed an elective that I don't need to graduate because you I have enough credits?
I have enough credits but my highs school won't allow me to drop classes and my gpa is 3.8. Would colleges care if I failed an elective like Jrotc?
Yes they do look at it because they still want your final transcript even after they accept you. You wouldn't be able to enroll in classes at your college if they don't have your transcript. Yes it would matter if you failed an elective because they would automatically think you are lazy. Jrotc is a very good elective and might be looked down upon if its failed. I personally haven't been in it but it makes students disciplined. It is a very good elective to have and is probably one of the best. Don't fail it.
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WHENEVER i give my kitty food he immediatly hisses at me, not only me but everyone that tries to feed him, we dont do anything to bother him, he purs on us and loves to play with us and everything! but when it comes to food he snatches it away and starts hissing us soo much, :( why is he doing this?
kittens are like that when they are younger, especially when they weren't born around you. be patient, you'll miss it lol
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