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my family lives with my aunt and a lot of my stuff is in storage. tht stuff was in there for about three years and now we r mmoving and im gonna get a lot of new stuff. i kno tht im gonna need a bed set and a dresser and stuff like tht but i dont kno wat things i might need for my bathroom and other cool accessories to put in my room and for a pretty cheap price, like maybe 100-250 0r something like tht. and i need an answer soon. (link)
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Is this cost not including your bed set and dresser? Is so, you can always just go with your likes. What are things you really enjoy? Personally, my boyfriend and I really enjoy Halloween and pirate type things. So our apartment is decorated as such. Just get and do what you want and that suits your tastes. And if you don't have enough for everything, save up and get them later. You don't need to have everything you want right away, so take your time in deciding and shopping, all the while comparing prices to other places or sites. This way you know you are/will be getting the best deal.
Edit add: Also, do consider the things you WILL need, such as toiletries, you never stated whether you were male or female, so as for toiletries, go by your gender. If this is your own personal bathroom, get things you will need. Male- Shaving gel, razors, body wash, shampoo, conditioner,toilet paper.. (unless that stuff is going to be paid for by someone else), then focus on what you like in terms of decoration.
Female - same thing, plus female hygienic products. Unless, like previously stated, someone else is paying for that.. then yeah, focus on your likes and interests, and decorate accordingly.
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18/F
I can't sleep because I'm extremely paranoid. Every night before I go to bed, and I put off going to bed until five in the morning, I have to check my entire room for any spiders or bugs. I can't sleep in the dark because I'm terrified of what's on the floor or in the bed with me. I leave my computer monitor on, facing in the other direction. I check the big teddy bear I sleep with. I check the mattress and even the one above me (bunk bed). I can't sleep with my door closed because I'm afraid I won't have time to get out in case something happens. I can't sleep with it all the way open either because I don't want something coming in without my noticing.
I need a fan on when I sleep because if it's dead silent, every little creak in my old house scares the hell out of me. If I hear a noise, even over the fan, I stop and listen and try to find out what's making the noise. I'm a light sleeper, so I wake up at the smallest intrusions. For example, if my dog walks into my room and stares at me, I wake up up instantly. My bed is in the corner of my room and I can't sleep facing the wall with my back exposed. I feel like something is behind me, so I've slept away from the wall ever since I can remember. Even my teddy bear at my back doesn't ease the feeling.
What I'm asking is if there's anyway to calm myself down. I can't get a decent night's sleep because I'm so scared that I might wake up with a spider on my face or someone trying to get into my room (locking my window won't work because my window does not shut properly, leaving it about an inch open all the time. I cannot afford a new one either). I'm not sure where there's a line drawn at severe. Should I tell my doctor about all this? (link)
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It sounds like something you NEED to speak with your doctor about. Not getting enough or any sleep can damage your health, physically and mentally. You need 4 hours to "recharge" your mind, and 6 hours to "recharge" your body. But 8 hours a night is what is recommended now. But when you can, call your doctor or psychiatrist, and schedule an appointment as soon as they are able, and go to it and get help. Chances are they will be able to find the root of the problem and help you, as well as possibly giving you medicine to help calm you.
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Tracphone went throught washing machine. Dried it 2 days in dry rice. Can make and receive calls, but display screen does not light up. what can I do? (link)
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You either have a bad LCD or bad back light board. I would suggest having it looked at by a professional. Chances are you are going to have to have it repaired, or get a new one. Same thing happened to my cars cd player. It got wet, and bam.. Screen no longer worked -.-; It was awful, so take it to your phone dealer, and get it looked at, chances are they will be able to fix it. If not, then they can replace it, it may cost something, or it may still be under warranty and all will be good.
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I'd like to know how to get rid of negative thoughts.I'm thinking all the time about dying,I'm young and healthy,but I'm not happy,I don't know what to do.Any help?I've tried therapy but it didn't work. (link)
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Therapy can vary from person to person. For some it works, for others.. not so much. If you truly wish to get rid of these negative thoughts, try and locate the source of them. What is the reason you feel this way? Find it, and find a solution to either destroy the source, or come to terms with it, or forget about it and live for the future, and not in the past. Remember, life isn't going to always be easy. There will be good and bad times, but it's up to you on how you choose to deal with it.
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I'm an 18 female and I'm a virgin. I wanna start taking birth control pills but I just wanna know if they have certain side effects and how long does it have to kick in to actually work? (link)
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In order for your BCP's to be effective, you must take them everyday, for at least 7 days. As for side effects, everyone is different. Some people get some if not all the side effects such as Headache, dizziness, breast tenderness, nausea, Breakthrough bleeding, decreased libido, mood swings. Then there are women who don't get ANY of the side effects. If anything, monitor yourself while taking it. If you do get some of the side effects, and they don't in time go away, and you cannot handle them anymore, then speak with your doctor about a different form, or brand.
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Hey there(: I was just wondering what some good scary, but not to scary movies are? I want one enough to make me scared cuz im going to watch one with my boyfriend at my house, but not to scary because I get scared way to easy and if i see or read one scary thing, when I go to bed ill start to not be able to breth and get really scared and not be able to sleep. I want something pretty scary tho. Please help(: Thanks(: (link)
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I'm a horror fanatic, so I can give you some advice here xD. You want to watch a scary movie that isn't too scary... I've gotten to the point to where things do not scare me anymore, but I am capable of distinguishing the levels in movies.
The Ring, The Grudge, Sleepy Hollow, Friday the 13th, One Missed Call, Nightmare on Elm Street, Zombieland, Return of the Living Dead... It all really depends on what genre you would prefer watching honestly. Do you want monsters, living dead types, slasher, ghosts, english, or foreign, with comedy, or all serious.
For comedy horror (I feel you'll be able to get a bit scared, but the comedy breaks the ice nicely) Return of the Living Dead series, ZombieLand, Night of the Creeps, BioZombie, Zombie Dearest.
Slasher flicks - Nightmare on Elm, Friday the 13th.
Ghosts - The Ring, The Grudge, missed call. Also, Dead End is pretty good.
Monster type flicks - You could go for The Mist, Alien, Alone in the Dark, The Host.
Hope this list was helpful enough, and big enough to help you choose something.
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I've been sick all week with my tonsils infected so bad my temp has been over 103 everyday this week Sunday-Thursday I went to hospital got somewhat better but that whole time I couldn't eat or drink around Tuesday my gums started to hurt and dry up and bleed and now they all hurt now I brushed and scrubbed them and they are killin more. Also my tounge and mouth are all bumps and scabs..is it possible to get infected like that from my tonsils? I hope it goes away I had good teeth. (link)
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If I were you, I would go see a different doctor. Get a different opinion from what your first doctor told you, and get proper treatment, before it gets any worse. Here is a site, see if this matches any of your symptoms.
http://www.webmd.com/oral-health/peritonsillar-abcess
I hope this helps, and be sure to see your doctor, or a different doctor and get yourself taken care of as soon as possible.
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What is a nice, simple,, free program for beginners that I could use to make PNG files. Thank you. (link)
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The paint program on your computer, assuming you use windows, but who doesn't now a days right? But on Microsoft paint, you can make your picture and save it as a png, jpg, gif, tiff, or bmp. It's free, since it's already on your computer, it's simple that even my little girl uses it for fun, and it saves the files in whatever format you wish. Hope that this was helpful.
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About how much would a Gamestop or a gamestore give me for a 120 GB slim PS3 with about 8 ps3 games and about 5 ps2 games? (link)
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The Gamestop tends to give you a bit less than half the selling price for used games and gaming consoles. If you want a better pricing, you could always call and ask them, if you wish for more money, your best bet is to sell it on ebay or craigslist. As for the games, they would half to check the pricing and what not. Just bring it in and have them give you your price, and you can decide whether or not you wish to sell it to them.
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how can i call my boyfriend by nick name? (link)
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Just start calling him his nickname. If you are trying to choose one for him, go by his personality. It all really depends on what kind of guy he is really. The only one who knows him well enough to choose a nick name for him is you. It may take time, but you'll be able to figure one out.
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Hey everyone! Im 14/f and i got my period exactly 26 hours ago. I usually get mine around the 20ths so last time it was about on time. This time its almost 2 weeks early. I have had heavy flow all day today, literally. Every 2 hours i had to change my pad instead of my usual 3 or 4 hours. Every time the pad was almost leaking. (at only 2 hours) As i went about my business today, i felt the blood coming out in long spurts, id say about 10 times an hour. This has never happened before. My heavy flow days have never been this heavy for this long. So my question is: How long is too long for a heavy flow and is this normal? Thanks to everyone who answers! (link)
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I usually hear that changing your pad every 2-3 hours is a bad sign, mainly after you have had a miscarriage or had given birth.. But considering you are only 14, I don't believe that is the cause.
I would suggest speaking with your mother or father and have them take you to the physician and get looked at. Because that is not normal, nor can it be healthy. Here is a site to read up on.
http://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/blooddisorders/women/menorrhagia.html
Be sure to talk to your parent(s) and get a doctors appointment and make sure it's normal, or otherwise.
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I'm really not trying to be disgusting in any way but what is the best sitting position on the toilet to make sure that everything that needs to come out comes out? (link)
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It's usually best to sit there and relax. Forcing things make end up hurting you. If you have difficulties in getting everything out, then I would suggest purchasing some stool softeners. They are not laxatives, so you won't have to worry about running to the restroom and plowing down anyone in your way. They are just exactly as it sounds. Also, if you don't wish to take the medicine, try putting more fiber into your diet. Fiber helps to "get things moving", and in a healthy way as well. Here's a site with a list of foods with fiber in them. I hope this helps.
http://www.todaysdietitian.com/newarchives/063008p28.shtml
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Okay so to start off I am 20 years old, I am 5 ft 8in tall and I weigh 117lbs. I know I am slightly underweight with a BMI of 17.7
I am a model so I am at an ideal weight for the industry (sadly I know) however I also exercise and do not look unhealthy. I have muscles and fat on my legs.
I have a tall, lean figure by genetics, however in the past 6 months I have lost about 15 lbs. I used to weigh 130 and dropped to 115 through no specific action of my own. I do not eat a lot but I eat the same as I have all my life and I grew up at a normal weight my whole life. I've never felt hungry and when I did I ate. The only thing that has changed in the past six months that could account for my weight loss is the fact that I started exercising.
I drink a lot of energy drinks and protein shakes.
Now my question is in the past month I've noticed that I have started to ALWAYS be hungry. I will eat a meal and two hours later I will crave another type of food, or sugar, or fruit or a snack. I am alwayss thinking about food and I always satisfy my hunger but I am starting to worry that I am eating too much because I constantly crave food. At the same time, I get dizzy spells when getting up too fast, have trouble with digestion, and I don't really know why this is happening.
I'm not really sure what this is, I couldn't find an eating disorder to match my symptoms and I'm thinking I might just be getting the wrong kind of nutrition. If anyone has any information on what the problem may be please respond. If it is malnutrition how can I improve on it without gaining weight.
thanks! (link)
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How often do you exercise? Also know that energy drinks speed up your metabolism, so that could be explaining why you are getting hungrier. Also, it's not uncommon for models to eat more during certain periods. Mainly because they are made to watch their weight, and it can sometimes lead to a bad eating disorder. If it starts to become a problem, even before it starts to, I would suggest making an appointment with your physician. Tell him/her how often you drink your energy supplements, any changes in activities, diet, etc. It can be stressful being a model, but remember, your health is more important than that.
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I think this song came out in 1999 or 2000 and I remember watching the music video on Nickelodean, I don't exactly remember the lyrics, but I remember the music video featured two girls (one blonde and one brunette- the brunette girl looks similar to the band the corrs) anyways they were both wearing blue clothing and I think singing in the rain. I remember at one point there is a scene where the camera is at a bird's eye angle looking down at the brunette girl when it is raining and she's singing about the rain I think.
Can anyone help me out?
Sorry these are the only details that I can remember since it was so long ago :/ I'm pretty sure it was in the pop genre as well. (link)
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8mGBaXPlri8
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Hi.
I'm a terrible sleep walker. I remember one day, I was sleep walking. I was sweating terribly. My mother and grandmother came into my room, and they said I was speaking fluently in the language that my family originally speak.
The thing is, I don't really know any of the language. I've been bought up listening to family speaking, and I get by, but I cannot have a conversation speaking it. I struggle, and I only really know the basics.
My mother told me I was speaking really fluently, in a dialect, speaking really fast and shouting.
So what could be the explanation for this? Could it be possible that my subconscious remembered the language whilst hearing people speak, and that I'm holding it in my brain?
It's always something that has made me think, so any help would be great.
Cheers :) (link)
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It is entirely possible. You heard the language growing up, correct? My family is the same way on both counts. My fathers side spoke German, my mothers side spoke Japanese. I could never speak it, but I knew what they were saying. In time, I decided to learn both.Chances are, the reason for this, is because you grow up hearing more of English than you do of the other language. I'm sure like me, you know the languages, just incapable of "bringing it out". So do what I did, find teaching programs online, and "learn" it. Considering you know it subconsciously, you'll learn it in no time.
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Well i liked my cousin and i got in contact with him we started talking and we got into that conversation that he liked me.the next time we talked he said would i be brave enough to kiss him and i said depends if you want to and he said he would . What can i do? (link)
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First of all, how close of a cousin are you speaking of? Your uncles child? Great uncles child? a cousins child? Was this cousin married in? Second, you should also consider any state laws that may be in act within your area. In the U.S. many, if not all, states state that it is illegal to be with your cousin. But each state is different with this law. I know in many states, it is illegal to date your first cousin. (IE, your uncles/aunts child) And some are even more so strict than that. So ensure you know your states legality about dating relatives and such, so that you and/or your cousin do not get into trouble.
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Okay so I have a little problem,, I ejaculate too early during sex. I haven't lasted longer that 3 minutes which becomes irritating after a while. I've tried several techniques to last longer but none of them worked at all... What can I do to last longer and satisfy my girlfriend more?? (link)
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I've had problems like this with my partner, and together we looked at possibilities to help his performance. Here's some sites that were actually able to help and I hope they help you :)
1- http://thebestlist.menshealth.com/list/10-ways-last-longer-bed
2- https://www.mistermanpower.net/ejaculation_control.php/
Also, there are certain types of lubricants that you can get at adult shops or even your local pharmacy, that also help performance. They contain small amounts of benzocaine, (a generic form of novacaine) to also help a males performance. It slightly numbs your genitalia allowing you to last longer. There are many other things to help enhance your performance, just look around and read about them. Hope this was of some assistance, and good luck.
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14/f
ok me and this boy have been datin for 7 months and i met another guy a few weeks ago and he really makes me happy.
The more time i spend with him i lose feelings with my current bf and im not sure how 2 end it with him. Tho my current bf is kinda pushin 4 s3x and its really gettin on my nerves.
How do i end it with him?? Oh and btw i cant see my bf im currently in a different state than him.
He doesnt call i have 2 be the one 2 call so im just waitin for him 2 call me he has done it b4 so i know he can. So am just wunderin how 2 tell him its over without bein 2 harsh.
Plz and thanks in advance!! (link)
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No need to lie. Just tell him the truth. You no longer have the same feelings for him as you once did, and what not. Lying can only make the situation worse. You could lie, and what if he were to find out the truth? Then of course it's going to get worse for you. Just tell him the truth, you don't like his pushing for intercourse, you met someone else, etc etc. There's no way to "not be harsh" when breaking up with someone. It's always going to hurt either way. So instead of tip toeing around it, just do it. The longer you wait, the chances are the more difficult you'll make it. If he doesn't call you, then you call him. I know this sounds "mean" but I've dated and I know. The longer you wait, the harder it gets, and the worse it may get.
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hi there,
i am swapna 2 years ago i got married since then never tried for children last month we've planned for pregnency, this month i had a peroids a week late otherwise periods were normal, this time i noticed a small piece of flesh in the pad pls let me know is this normal or abnormal.
and am i pregnent or not
thanks and regards,
swapna (link)
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It's quite natural to see small bits of "flesh" on your pads during your menstrual period. It's actually the old lining of your uterus leaving your body. This will happen every month. New lining grows, and holds the egg, if you don't get pregnant, you shed that lining. Which is why we bleed. The blood washes away the old lining, making room for new lining. As for being pregnant, it doesn't sound like you may be yet. If you are trying, keep trying. Most women typically get the pregnancy symptoms, which include but are not limited to, Nausea, tender breasts/nipples, different cravings for food, even repulsion of food. There are many symptoms, and every woman is different, but those are typically the more common ones. If you would like to know a better time to conceive a child, here are some ovulation calculators (when you are ovulating, that is the best time to try getting pregnant). I hope this helps in some way, and if you are trying to get pregnant, good luck :)
1- www.babycenter.com/ovulation-calculator
2- www.webmd.com/baby/healthtool-ovulation-calculator
3- www.americanpregnancy.org/gettingpregnant/ovulationcalendar.html
I never hurts to know more about your body, there are ways of tracking, and figuring out when you ovulate. As well as knowing that sperm can live inside of a womans uterus for up to 5-7 days at a time. So having intercourse at least once or twice a week can greatly improve chances of getting pregnant.
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So I want a total redo of my wardrobe! I have $100 and then $50 for aero. Im looking for great deals on like camis, tight skinnys, tanks, LOTS of layers, and cute fall-winter type clothings. Since where I live its not hot till summer I am used to wearing more long sleeves than short. I like good deals and cute patters like the type of flowers that put on shirts at aero and I like plain stuff too. Something simple I can use for anything. So any good cheap sorta frilly, hippie type laid back websites? Or stores. Thanks! (link)
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With how expensive clothing is in general, you wouldn't really have much luck in shops. For cheap clothing, your best bet would be to go to your local thrift shop/salvation army. The clothing they're always cheap. But with 100 dollars, it's not enough to do a whole wardrobe, unless you went to the places I previously mentioned, because the cheapest you'll find pants for at stores or sites will be 10 dollars, as for shirts, same thing, the cheapest (unless you get REALLY lucky and a store is having a sale) would be 5+ dollars as well.
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