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have a bf but met another guy...
14/f
ok me and this boy have been datin for 7 months and i met another guy a few weeks ago and he really makes me happy.
The more time i spend with him i lose feelings with my current bf and im not sure how 2 end it with him. Tho my current bf is kinda pushin 4 s3x and its really gettin on my nerves.
How do i end it with him?? Oh and btw i cant see my bf im currently in a different state than him.
He doesnt call i have 2 be the one 2 call so im just waitin for him 2 call me he has done it b4 so i know he can. So am just wunderin how 2 tell him its over without bein 2 harsh.
Plz and thanks in advance!!
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I think you just need to be honest with him. Tell him that you don't think this is going to work out and that you would be better off as friends. You're right in the fact that you don't want to burn any bridges with this guy. In the end just tell him how you really feel you don't even need to tell him about the other guy at all. Good luck!
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No need to lie. Just tell him the truth. You no longer have the same feelings for him as you once did, and what not. Lying can only make the situation worse. You could lie, and what if he were to find out the truth? Then of course it's going to get worse for you. Just tell him the truth, you don't like his pushing for intercourse, you met someone else, etc etc. There's no way to "not be harsh" when breaking up with someone. It's always going to hurt either way. So instead of tip toeing around it, just do it. The longer you wait, the chances are the more difficult you'll make it. If he doesn't call you, then you call him. I know this sounds "mean" but I've dated and I know. The longer you wait, the harder it gets, and the worse it may get.
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