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Not much to say about me...But here is a site for those of you that need some advice :) It is anonymous so don't be shy, if you have a problem, tell me about it! If you want to know more about me or who i am, check my xanga site!

My friend is rather cool fyi, heck, but he's definitely not as cool as me.

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OK, I am 15 and I like this guy who is yonger then and he is only 13, do you think it is right to go out with a guy that is 2 years yonger then you. O, and by the way he looks like he is 16, but he isnt.

As they say...age is just a number. If you eally like him then go for it. And if people say anything about it tell them to screw off. Hope i helped and have fun ;)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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hey i just got fake nails and they are starting to eat my fingers, i ripped them off but i woke uo the next morning to see those nasty buggars still on my hands!! what do i do? just rip them off cut um up and burn them or leave them on and lose my fiiijersnnerrssffdssss....oh no...my figners!

Lol, just leave them on. And when they grow out Im pretty sure your nails will be back to normal. Hope i helped. :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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Ok, i was at sonic and a really hot girl brought the food out to me. Ive never seen her before in my life, but i got the nerve to ask he for her number. and she actually gave it to me. Ok now im stumped. What do i do? Should i call her n ask her out, or what? help plz.

Aw :) Of course you should call her. If she gave you her number then that means she is interested. So give her a ring and ask her to the movies ;) Hope I helped and good luck!

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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sorry! ook..here it is.. i sweat alot under the arms.. ( im a girl . 13 years.) if i try to wear a color shirt besides black or white..you always see sweat spots around the arm pits..even when its winter.. what should i do so i can wear any color shirts? .. (by the way. i wear non-presperant deodorent)

Wear a cute jean jacket over top, my friend has the same problem. I dont know exactly what you should do, but jackets are perfect for this time of year ;) Hope i helped.

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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How do u get rid of stage fright? please help! I rate high! I have a play comming up soon and Im fine doing it with my class but im scared to do the play in front of the whole school and then in front of ever1's parents! PLEASE HELP

I feel your pain sweetie. Im an actress, and i get those pre-performance jitters too. Heres what you do...take you nervousness and turn it into energy and use that energy. I know what you are thinking, easier said that done, right? Well, just focus on all of the hard work you have done and how much you have looked forward to this moment. You'll do great! Break a leg hun ;) Hope i helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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ok just started wrestling and im a grl. .but umm i get body slammded all the time and my neck hurts soo bad does anyone no how i can get the pain to go away faster??

Heat packs feel sooooooooo great. Oh! and the forever favorites...advil and motrin :) Hope i helped and good luck!

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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Hey look this year has been so hard bettween tryin to be most popualr and all taht and tryin to beat tha skools biggest hotties and all i have totayl gotten lost u see last year i was Queen bee! this year im not and i wouod do tha world to be that again and i dont kno whut to do to win it back
So whut should i do plz help me!
Clueless

Hun, being "Queen Bee" isnt everything. In a few years no one is going to give a crap about your social rank. Sorry. What you should be doing is worrying about how your friends feel. there is nothing wrong with being liked by people. But stepping on other people to get your way is no good. Im sorry but its the truth. better to be liked then pretend to be liked. I hope i helped and good luck. :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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Okay my friend always is setting me up with people well last night she did that to my best guy friend but the thing is i do want to go out with him but i kept saying i didn't want to! But how can i tell him this? I feel kinda strange telling him I like him cuz I mean hez my best friend! so what should i do?

awwwwww! thats so sweet! Well, just tell him that you really do like him and that you were just afraid of telling him. And before he says anything say that if he doesnt like you too then you dont want it to be weird between you too, because i assume that is the last thing you want. Hope i helped, and good luck! :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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ok when do guys like really start getting perverted(sex,makeing out)..like do the start at 12,13,14 b/c i kno some guys that are perverted that are like 12 but i dont kno if others are or if its just those guys!!! help i rate good!

They usually get REALLY bad at the end of 8th grade. But it starts in 7th grade. Not to bd though. Hope i helped ;)

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I really wanna get a cell phone for christmas but i dunno if my parents will get me one...what are some ways to get them to buy me one? and what type are the best and has a great deal and aren't expensive?

Just tell your parentals that it would be good because if there is an emergency then you are going to need one. My excuse was that i would be doing more stuff when i got into high school so i would need a cell phone to tell them where i am and when to come get me. As far as prices and stuff, some places have this thing where you can get the phoen plan and get the phone free. Just research it online. Hope i helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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ok wut exacally do people means when they say friends with benefits??? my coach and my this girl on my teams brother say there friend with benefits but it's bugging me cuz i dont kno wut they mean by that!! help!!

Friends with benifits are basically two people who arent into the whole relationship so they just hold hands and cuddle and make out etc etc etc. basically all of the good things about relationship without the commitment. Hope i helped :)

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i want to like some1 rlly bad. i just started goin to junior high with all of these new ppl but i don like any o the guys that r in my classes! its rlly sad n sumtimes it rly depresses me cuz i want a bf. so how can i get myself to like som1? this question mite b kinda impossible to answer but plz try to. thnx

You dont have to truly like someone. Just go on several dates with people and see if any of them fit with your personality or if you can see yourself being with them. Hope i helped and good luck :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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i posted a question a couple weeks ago... and thanx to everybody that answered it... ok so here's another one for ya'll... so my last question was about me kissing another guy and do u think my boyfriend would break up with me... and how do i talk to him about it... well we talked and we are still together (yay!) so ne way... another boy problem question.... about ben... ok, i really really really like ben and he is the first boyfriend that i have had that i really truly like... but for some reason i cant get this paranoid idea outta my head that he is going to dump me... i think it's because this is my first real boyfriend and i am worried im gonna mess it up but i dont kno... this is really unusual for me because i am really a live by the moment-dont over think it kinda person... so i guess the question is... how can i stop worrying? i dont kno y this happening tho... he is really sweet to me and always says happy 1 week annaversary! and just stupid cutsie stuff like that... he treats my really well... and i mean... he told me i was the first girlfriend he really truly liked since his first.... i really dont want to get hurt... so i guess if u understand this at all... please help... lol...
...claire

Aw!!! Dont worry, you are just thinking that because you really do care a lot about him. And the idea of loosing him is worrying you. As far as getting rid of that feeling, either talk it out with him and tell him how much your really like him and how glad you are that you are going out and how you hope to stay together awhile. Or just chill out, because its all in your head. Hope i helped and good luck :)

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What should I ask first?

a)screen name
b)cell number

Shes kinda, quiet. How do I get her to open up a bit? We both play guitar... I dont know if that owuld hlpe at all.

awwwww...well in order to get one of them just start a convo about guitars and stuff like that and what songs you can play or w/e. Then when you/she has to leave, ask for her screen name AND her cell number. Thats what most people do. Hope i helped, and good luck! ;)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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why is it that every time you are realy in love with someone they go and break your heart?

I know exactly what you mean. And it can hurt, but trust me, it will be ok. Good luck and i hope everything works out for the best.

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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Okay, I'm friends with my best friend's ex boyfriend.We've always been friends. But I've also always hada little bitty crush on him. He lives in PA and we live in DE though, so boy me and my friend never get to see him. Lastngith he said he missed me and he wanted to come visit me. I asked him why he didn't ever call, and he said he didn't have any minutes, but if he did, I would be the first person he would call. Is that just me or does he sound like he likes me just a little bit? Help me! I rate good!

xoxo

Yea, he likes ya ;) And keep in mind DE and PA arent very far apart if ya catch what im saying *wink wink* Hope i helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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hey i went out wit this kid tom and we went out for almost 2 months and i really liked him but i broke up wit him twice and we havent gne out since n now wen i think about it i didnt realy like him like that i didnt even make out wit him it felt wrong because i saw him making out wit my friends for no reason before at parties bu that was before we went out and anyways i went out wit this kid matt after him for 3 weeks and i really eally like him like i think it might even be love i cant stop thinking about him i broke up wit him though because i had no time to see him and he understands and we still hang out and he messages me on his phone calls me flirts wit me in school anything u kno i never seen him wit a girl an maybe thats why i htink mor of him i dunno i need ur help i didnt make out wit him yet either well our tongues touched but it was for a sec he was wasted so i didnt want to do anything so help me if u can thanks i rate really good but i wanna know do i feel this way about him cause i didnt se him wit a girl b4 or becuase i really like him and should i make a move on him and if yes then wat???

thanks for reading i rate good xoxo toodles

No, you dont like him because you didnt see him making out before. and if you want to make a move kiss him like you normally do then just take it from there. Simple logic. Good luck and i hope i helped :)

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Agh... I'm so agitated and confused and depressed at the same time I can barely type this...! Anyways... my gf and I have been going out for about 10 days. My friends and I and her hang out all the time. Well it started last night. My friend was just joking around and he said "I'm like a star in the sky!" (Yeah we're pretty weird sometimes.) And my gf said "If you are then I will love you haha" and this kind of got me down, even though she said she was just kidding. Also, the same day, my friend was just like "My butt hurts." Then she says "Haha let me check that out for you then", and she touched it lightly... In a joking way, but it still didn't feel right.Another thing is, today, when my friend and I were walking towards her, she was like "Hey (friends name)!" And I was thinking to myself... "Eh? :( She didn't even say hi to me..." But... my gf said that she is crazy about me and she really loves me and everything like that, and she said that like the 7th night we were going out... but on msn. =\ Anyways, my question is, does she still like me? Or could she be liking my friend, and not me? I mean, she says she's worried that I will like another girl and dump her in the near future, and she also says that she's afraid to get hurt again, so maybe she will hurt me, and everything will be fine for her? I don't know, but we still held hands and hugged and all the normal stuff we do like that, but it still made me sad... please help... and thanks for reading...

Yes, guys normally make the first move. And my advice to you would be just talk to her about it. Thats the great thing about relationships, you have the right to confront your partner about problems with the relationship. Im sure she doesnt realize what shes doing. So just talk to her and it should be fine. Hope I helped :)

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i recently dumped my boyf amd still had feeling 4 him yestaday uptown he was flirting with me and we ended up going out again but he got this otha girl pregnant and now he ses he has a daughter but they've split and we luv eachother but sumtimes I don't believe what he ses about having a daughter and he seems pretty desperate if he has a daughter cause uptown we were cuddling on the grass and he kept getting erections and trying to show me luv but wen i tryed 2 kiss him he turned his face away and sed i dont know if I'm ready yet what does this mean?

Maybe he just doesnt want to make the same mistake twice. Im not saying that him getting someone pregnant was a mistake, but maybe he doesnt want to go through the same thing with you. Maybe he just wants to take it easy this time and not rush it too much. keep in mind he probably went through a lot, so be sensative of him. Hope i helped! :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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Okay, I like this girl. We have one class together. I know shes a little hesitant about a relationship, but how do i casually get to know her (bear in mind i want to make a move later on)

Just talk to her more often. And ask if she wants to hang out sometime, not technically a date, but you will be with her. And if you want to make a move take her to the movies and sit in the back row. Hope i helped! :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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