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i like guys but I think about gurls a lot.. does that make me gay? (link)
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It could make you bisexual which basically means you like guys and girls more over time it will become more clear to you who you like more and then you can decide if your a lesbian or not but ya you need to give it more time and see who you find yourself going towards more.
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okay i like this guy awhole lot! and hes been on vaca for awhile now.. and EVERYDAY he calls or texts messages me. his text messages are like "you just ran through my mind. i just wanted to say hey." and junk like that.. does this mean he likes me back? (link)
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Ya it does because if hes thinking about and then telling you hes thinking about you he obviously has feelings for you otherwise i dont think he would bother texting you while on his vacation.
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i really like this guy alot. And he tells me im gorgous and that he likes me too. Then we went to the movies with me and my best friend. And the next day he ends up liking my best friend instead of me! should i move on? or what should i do? (link)
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Well i mean you cant force him into liking you first guys are just weird like that you cant do anything about it so just move im sure theres a better guy out there for you.
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What color skinny jeans look good with a blue t-shirt? (link)
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dark wash or black or if you can pull it off white.
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is rub on tan bad for u? (link)
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No actually there a lot better and safer then tanning beds they dont harm your skin at all and they tend to last longer if you pick a good one and there cheap so ya there not bad for you.
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I understand your answer but this happens every time i get my period. I cant afford to go to the doctor so what do i need to do (link)
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Well an irregular period usually happens when your under a lot of stress or you have poor nutrition or because you are taking medication while going through your period some other reasons can be over weight or underweight, eating disorders, hormonal imbalance or too much caffeine these are the most common reason try eliminating one of these and see if that helps but if you dont have either then try getting on to birth control it helps keep periods more regulated.
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How do you make a smaller hula hoop using a larger hula hoop? I accidently bought a big hula hoop and it's harder to use. I can't exchange it and I can't buy another one. It's a water one, if that makes any difference. (link)
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A lot of hula hoops have the extending thing to it where you can unhook it and fix it to size that you like but if your doesnt do that there really no other way to make it smaller your just going to have to get a new one or try to talk to store into exchanging it. Go to a dollar or ninty nine cent store they will have hula hoops for like a dollar.
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I'm trying to get pregnant, I skipped my last period but all pregnancy tests i've taken (3) have been negative...if I'm not pregnant, could I still be fertile this month even though I didn't have a period? Basically I'm wanting to know if I should keep "trying" this month even though I didn't get my period last month (and I'm pretty sure I'm not pregnant) (link)
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Just keep trying sometimes periods can just be late or mess up but i suggest talking to a female doctor about this because she will give you options and tips on how to get pregnant and it will save you time and you will be able to get pregnant faster.
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alright so my dad signed me up for this recruiting camp called maximum exposure. i already do club and i only get one week off from lacrosse the entire summer, and that week is the week of the camp. i told him i didnt want to do it but he signed me up anyways. now a couple of months later my friends all planned a beach week. its the week of the camp. i really really really want to go to the beach beacause i dont get a lot of time off from lacrosse. but i cant because my dad alrready signed me up for the fucking camp. apparently the camp isnt refundable, and it cost about $600 so paying him back is out of my reach.
i just need help in getting out of this camp and going to the beach and enjoying my summer. i play lacrosse all year round and i get so burnt out on it. i just need a break. any advice?
thanks in advance (link)
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Well its your life your dad cant make you do something you dont want to do its not right and if he doesnt understand this then you need to make him just straight up tell him that you dont want to go to this camp and that your burnt out from lacrosse and you dont have the energy or the slightest exitement for this camp tell him you will do anything else but this camp and as for the money tell him he should have signed you up without asking you and that its not your fault basically tell him your not going and just go with your friends he will be mad at first but he will get over it eventually and he will understand that he cant just sign you up for anything he has to ask you because your your own person and have to right to decide what activity you want to do.
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so im going to the nickleback concert on friday and i have no idea what to wear. i know i want to wear something cute but comfy. i dont want to wear jeans cuz i know it will get hot. i want to wear my black and white converse but i dont know what with. would a white dress look cute with it? any suggestions would be nice. (link)
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K well i think a white dress would look cute or any other kind of dress that isnt too formal looking and that is just kinda casual yet comfortable and since you dont want to wear jeans wear leggings or tights those are very comfortable and easy to make an outfit out of just wear whatever makes you comfortable.
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Okay so I like this guy and he used to be my b/f but now we're just friends. We went out for almost a year and I still like and I think he still likes me. I want to go out with him again what should I do? (link)
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Ask him out its better to be straight forward then to just go around the bush confusing him ask him to dinner or a movie and hang out with him more often and who knows maybe he will start to get feelings for you too just tell him you like him though and see how it goes.
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I met this girl last year, we started being friends and we hug eachother a lot, I was attracted to her and she has a nice personality, and right when i found out she experimented with girls back then and she's bisexual i got my hopes up and i really dont know why, now im having thoughts about me kissing her at times and i really want to try it.I feel nervous and butterfly in my stomach when she's near me.Everytime she compliments other people about their looks, I get jealous but I don't know if I like her that way or I want her.Do I have a crush on this girl? I'm a straight girl and never felt like this to any girl and it's weird. (link)
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I think if your getting jelous of the things she says or does with other girls it means you have crush on her and you dont have to be a lesbian you could like both guys and girls and be bisexual and its normal for someone who is just starting to understand there sexuality to feel this way its a confusing time just go with what your heart tells you and you will be fine :)
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17/f. My relationship with my best friend is just getting worse and worse. Last year she did something most people would consider unforgivable and never look back. I however, forgave her. Ever since then our friendship has deterioated. I mean I don't know maybe not... Do best friends call eachother everyday or no? Because we hardly ever talk on the phone. In the past 6 months things had gotten worse, when she developed an eating disorder that almost killed her and I hated the boy she liked(whom also is largely responsible for the eating disorder) now, even though she had an eating disorder, our friendship was getting better. We went on some trips together and had a lot of fun. However, now she has recently been put in rehab and cam no longer attend
school. ..I thought this would make things better, honestly. I assumed she'd be lonely and call me more frequently. That is not the case however. We really rarely even text constantly anymore. Since she is gone, I have become much closer with other friends and do tend to forget about her sometimes. It's weird though.. Because I don't get who she is talking to because she literally only has one other friend besides me. I just don't know what to do or how to handle the situation. I don't necessarily want to lose her as a friend.. But I'm just not sure I don't know :/ (link)
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Well sometime when you don't stay in contact with a good friend for awhile the friendship starts to sink and you tend to just break away from each other its natural and it happens a lot so your not a lone you two have definitely been through a lot but i mean if you dont talk anymore or hang and youve moved on to different friends i guess your friendship has kinda ended and i dont think you have to worry about just like you she will make new friends and meet new people and move on and who knows maybe you will become friends again but then again you might not you just never know so just go with the floe concentrate and hang out with your friends today dont worry or think about her until she actually comes to you and talks to you or calls you or w.e until she does just live your life.
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guys are always like "I LOVE P***Y" but like .. why? they dont get anything from it. but then again they like it. i doont get it (link)
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Guys like having sex and sex involves P***Y so therefore they obviously love it and its just in a guys nature to love it anything to do with sex guys like i hope that is a good enough answer.
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Why do my period goes off for a day then come back on? (link)
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Sometimes periods can just be messed up but dont worry this wont happen every time it will just happen once in awhile dont worry about it too much and just stay prepared just incase it happens again.
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I think I'm in love. what should I do? He has a girlfriend! Maybe even 2! Whenever I see him my heart starts to race. I just want to run up to him and kiss his gorgeus face. How does he feel about me? I will never know. I am a shy girl, all the way from head to toe. When I'm with him I feel as if I could fly. Fly Fly high up into the sky!!!!
What should I do? (link)
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Well i really dont suggest getting involved with him if he has a gf because thats not right i mean you would feel awful too if someone was trying to snatch your bf from you so just think of it that way think of how you would feel if he was your bf and some other girl was dreaming about him and wanting him its not right and should never be done you need to move on you cant date a guy thats already taken and besides you said he has a gf maybe even 2 do you really want a guy dating other girls to be your bf i mean i dont think you would be his only gf and i dont know about you but i think thats the wrong guy to be dating or wanting to date there are plenty of other guys out there who are single please go date on of them.
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Me and my bf were going out for about 3 months until he broke up with me but he didnt tell me why and i want him back real bad. What should I tell him to get him back or what should i do? (link)
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Well being his own person gives him the right to break up with whoever he wishes and he doesnt have to tell you why but if its bothering you that he didnt tell you why then just call him and ask him but i think its over for good he has his reasons and his entitled to them so i think you should move on and i know its easier said then done but your going to have to do it because he broke up with you so its done you cant do anything about it just move on and find someone new im sure there are pleanty of guys out there that are right for you and will love you more.
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Well...my best friend and I have been bests for years but lately things have changed. Since she has gone out with this weird emo guy and I found out she hadn't been a virgin for the last few years I have been a bit twitchy towards it.
But now, I have found that I don't want to be around her. When she comes up to me...I feel annoyed. When she tries to talk to me all the time, i don't want to say anything. Can somebody explain why this is happening because I have no idea why i don't want anything to do with her.
I thought it might be because she is clingy. Rings up every weekend and tries to wait for me after every class in school. Could this be the reason but it doesn't seem big enough to inflict what i feel on our relationship..
HELP!!!!! (link)
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Maybe you just dont feel comfortable around her anymore because you feel she's changed as a person and isnt the same person you were friends with before and thats a big enough reason to affect your friendship i think if you dont like being around her and dont like talking to her you should tell her in a nice honest way that you just cant be friends with her because you just dont feel comfortable around her and you just dont think you have anything in common or that shes just not the same i think if you tell her nicely she will understand and who knows maybe you can go from being best friends to just school peer type friends who just say hi and talk once in awhile.
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Alright well a about a year ago i expieremented with a girl and ended up dating her then we broke up and i hooked up with a few other girls and i actually love it haha but im not super open about it like i try to hide it as much as possible cause im in highschool and you know how people like to judge. And then there is the whole my mom thing. My sister is a striaght up lesbo and my mom knows and is cool about it but if im gay too she is gonna shit herself and feel like a bad mom. she even told me like jokingly that i wasnt aloud to be gay or she would kick me out. So know i have to date boys and not let my mom know. But im pretty sure ill im intrested in is girls. what do i do? (link)
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You cant just date guys if your not interested in them because in the long run thats gonna do nothing for you or the guy your just wasting yours and his time you need to just tell your mom and let her handle it the best way you can and tell her that you are a lesbian and thats just who you are and you dont have any control over it because its just who you were meant to be and besides your sister is a lesbian so it seems fair enough for you to be one to if thats who you are your mom cant live your life for you or tell you what to do if she accepted your sister eventually she will accept you too for who you are just give it time eventually she will understand but you have to tell her its better she finds out from you personally rather than someone else later on because that will break her heart more.
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So I've been dating this guy for like two months now. I really really like him we've been friends since I was in eigth and he was in ninth we're now a jr and a senior. Well friday night he went to a concert. His ex was there too and they dated for a year and a half. Well she got punched in the face and like any gentlemen would he helped her out. But maybe too much? He told me he picked her up and carried her out of the crowd. He said he held her until she felt better then they talked all night. It really bugged me because it feels like he left some things out. Well all weekend I just worried. I talked to him about it and he said that nothing happened. But at school today he came late and showed up at lunch. He came up and gave me a hug. And then his ex walked up and started talking to him. He completely shut me out and they walked away from our friends. They talked half of lunch. Naturally I was already bugged by what happened over the weekend. Well, I was really upset because she always tells him she still loves him, and he unblocked her number. Well so I decided I was gonna go get something to eat with my friend because I was tired of standing there being ignored by my boyfriend while he talked to his ex. So I went and got food and he texted me asking where I went about ten minutes later. He didn't even noticed I left he was so busy talking to her. Well I think he knew it bugged me. My eyes were watering. I know that I need to talk to him or something. What should I do? How should I approach this, I don't wanna sound like a paranoid girlfriend. (link)
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You have a right to be worried and sound like a paranoid girlfriend this is your bf and in a case like this any girlfriend would be worried or paranoid its just natural i think you should call him over sit him down and just talk about it tell him how you feel and tell him to just truthfully tell you if he still likes her or is starting to develop feelings for her again. I know it will be hard to talk about this but you need to know where your relationship stands and if it has a future you cant spend your time worrying about him and his ex if he still likes her then let him go hes not worth it and there will be plenty of other guys who will love you.
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