alright so my dad signed me up for this recruiting camp called maximum exposure. i already do club and i only get one week off from lacrosse the entire summer, and that week is the week of the camp. i told him i didnt want to do it but he signed me up anyways. now a couple of months later my friends all planned a beach week. its the week of the camp. i really really really want to go to the beach beacause i dont get a lot of time off from lacrosse. but i cant because my dad alrready signed me up for the fucking camp. apparently the camp isnt refundable, and it cost about $600 so paying him back is out of my reach.
i just need help in getting out of this camp and going to the beach and enjoying my summer. i play lacrosse all year round and i get so burnt out on it. i just need a break. any advice?
Additional info, added Sunday May 9 2010, 9:42 am: BTW my dad is not a pushover and he can be pretty strict. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? Katlyn answered Tuesday May 11 2010, 4:31 am: Well its your life your dad cant make you do something you dont want to do its not right and if he doesnt understand this then you need to make him just straight up tell him that you dont want to go to this camp and that your burnt out from lacrosse and you dont have the energy or the slightest exitement for this camp tell him you will do anything else but this camp and as for the money tell him he should have signed you up without asking you and that its not your fault basically tell him your not going and just go with your friends he will be mad at first but he will get over it eventually and he will understand that he cant just sign you up for anything he has to ask you because your your own person and have to right to decide what activity you want to do. [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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