Heyy, my name is Brittany. I am sixteen years old, and I was born on the 9th of July. I am very different from most people I know, and I love that! I'm a virgin..I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs and I never have. I am selfish, stubborn, and most people would say I am spoiled. I hate not getting my own way. I dislike liars, and I can't stand being in a moving vehicle without any music playing. I love the color pink, and my favorite number is 39. Country music is my favorite, but I like a little bit of everything. My boyfriend's name is Brandon. I have obsessive compulsive disorder, and I am very paranoid most of the time. I worry a lot. I laugh a lot, and smile even more. I'm very insecure, and can be quite ditzy. I like giving people advice, when I can..My best friend's name is Katie. I am extremely lazy, and tend to be very random.
Gender: Female
Age: 16
AIM: BrittanyMichx39
Member Since: June 17, 2005
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i recently meet this guy. hes great and i really like him but i cant stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend...i really wanna get back 2gether with him and at the same time i dont cuz he wuld always blow me off and never see me and the guy i met he likes me alot and i like him 2 and he wuld do anything for me.but everytime im with him i end upp think about muh ex...what should i doo? (link)
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You are going to think about your ex b/f for a long time. But don't let him stop you from being with anyone else. Time heals everything, even though it might not seem like it will rite now. You will have a lot of b/fs and you will always remember your first true love. But you can't let that hold you back. If someday your ex b/f wants to be with you again, and the time is rite, that is what is supposed to happen, and it will. Everything happens for a reason. Just try to be happy with someone else for now. If you can't, then maybe you should just stay single for awhile! Hang out with friends..just have a good time! Don't be tied down if it doesn't feel rite! Good Luck!
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ok i went out with this one guy for like 2 weeks then i broke up with him. Then i went out with him again, then broke up with him again. he got mad both times. well then he was always calling me ugly and stupid and now he acts as if he likes me agian. and my parents dont like him cause of his past. i hate when they do that. wat do i do? (link)
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I think you should be able to figure this one out on your own. He sounds like a typical guy. A jerk, a prick. Don't even think about giving him another chance. Some people deserve a SECOND chance, but this guy doesn't even sound like he deserved that. Don't do this to yourself again, there is no use. I don't see a point, when you know you are just going to end up getting hurt again. Guys can suck sometimes, but I think you should just use your common sense to figure this one out! He's not worth your time, or your tears. Don't even give him the time of day. And I am sure you are not ugly or stupid. You are probably a beautiful young lady who deserve a guy who is going to respect you and treat you the way you should be treated. Good Luck!
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my best friend is like fading away from me. she just never calls me anymore. she used to call me every day. now whenever she calls she asks for my sister. i dont know why shes mad at me but i thnk it may be because im not a vegetarian. as stupid as it sounds i think so. any way she is a vegetarian and she believes in it very strongly and i told her that i wasnt a vegetarian any more and she was like "WHAT!" and hasnt really called me and actually talked to me since. and in her profile it used to say my name is Sarah (not real name) but my best friend Anna (me, not real name) calls me spanky. but now it says my name is Sarah but my friends call me Ess. she doesnt talk to me when my sister invites her over. i dont know what happened shes just mad at me all of the sudden. what an i do to get her back (link)
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First of all, i don't think you should worry about it. people change. your best friend just might want to be friends with other people, and that happens! I think, just to find out what's going on, you should comfront her and tell her that you want to talk about everything. find out the real reason why she is mad at you, and don't be scared to ask her questions! she is the one that is mad at you, so you shouldn't act like you don't care b/c it is obvious that you do!! another thing you could do is talk to your sister about it. ask her if your friend has sed anything to her about you. give your friend a call, or write her a note. she should atleast talk to you, but if not..she isn't worth the time and struggle. don't dwell on it for too long, when you could be out making new..better best friends!
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My boyfriend has had his half chihuahuah, half shih-tzu mix for 7 years. They recently found out that his dog is A)Is blind in one eye B)Is going blind in the other and C)Is diabetic. Their dog is very sick, and the cost of medications is becoming overwhelming for them. They decided that they would try out the medications for a little while, but they eventually would put the dog to sleep. They don't want him to suffer. His birthday is coming up in September and I wanted to get him a puppy. Not something to replace his other dog, but he's just so used to having a dog, that maybe by getting him another would bring a new joy in his life. I am extremely low on budget for his birthday, so I'm not even sure I'll be able to get him a dog but I have it in mind for Christmas if I can't for his birthday. I was thinking of adopting a puppy or rescuing one from a local shelter. My only thing is, I know if I am to adopt one, the dog will be in MY name, so ultimately the dog is MY responsibility. But aside from that, exactly how much is it to adopt a dog or rescue one from a shelter? I was thinking of a small breed, a chihuahuah, shih-tzu, lasa apso or maybe a maltese. Something small though. Anyone know? Thanks in advance! (link)
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Sometimes if you look in the newspaper, they had dogs or puppies for free. But if you are interested in buying one from an adoption center, i would say anywhere from $20-$100. But some dogs such a pure bred chihuahua's can cost up to $400. It just all depends on the type of dog you want, and where you get it from. If you don't have enough money rite now, I would definitely suggest waiting til Christmas. However, if your b/f still lives at home with his family you might want to make sure that they know about what you plan on doing, to assure that it's okay if you get him a puppy!
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i have a problem thats been getting to me for the past couple months. i cant be alone. like if im home by myself and not talking to any1, i have problems like i get worked up and upset and im not exactly sure what to do about it. i have asthma and do get panic attacks so thats basically why its a problem. my bf has been trying to help me, and when he talks to me i feel 1000x better, but he cant talk to me all the time and i totally understand that. any advice id greatly appreciate and i'll definately rate you.
thanks (link)
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Awe, this has to be really hard. Are you alone very often? Why exactly is it that you can't be alone? Are you worried that something might happen to you, or your family who isn't with you rite now? I think that being alone every once in a while is a good thing. I think the best thing for you is to just be alone sometimes, b/c once you get used to it I'm sure you won't mind it as much. but if you are totally and completely against that idea, have the people (your family) who are away from you carry a cell phone, in case of emergencies (such as you having a panick attack), or just in case you have a question, or any type of problem. i'm sure you could also call one of your friends, or have them over while your family isn't there. get a job babysitting! that way you have someone to be around (if it happens to be at the right time) i think you might have a phobia, but it also could just be a phase..b/c i was like that before! Good Luck!
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hey.. i have been talking to this guy who lives kind of far awaay like 45 minutes away and i am starting to mike himn alot and he told me he liked me he is so cute ytoo but i had a boyfriend when i told him this and now he has a girlfriend and i broke up with my boyfriend cause i liked him and i dont know what to do! help =/ (link)
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it seems to me that this guy could not have liked you as much as he claimed. otherwise, why would he have a g/f? you don't need to waste your time on people like that. but, if your ex b/f is still willing to go back out with you, and you still like him..maybe you should give him another shot. if not, don't waste your time, and hurt yourself even more. just try to move on and know that there are plenty of other guys out there. you will find someone someday! until then, don't worry..be happy! Good Luck!
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well i lyk this guy, he lyks me too..and now we're going out.and now..i feel lyk im not free..i want to b free..i want to be single again..but i dunno wat to do, i really lyk him..should i break up w/ him? (link)
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if you have any doubts about the relationship, you should definitely call it quits. you are young, there is no reason you should be tied down! be friends with this guy, and just see what happens later on when you are ready for a serious relationship. most likely he won't even be around anymore. you will have gotten over him, and moved on to someone else. you are going to like a lot of different people while you are young..and believe me, some work out better than others, but it is very rare that any will last forever. if you are the kind of person who likes to flirt, or just have the kind of fun, of which you know would cause problems if you had a boyfriend, break up with him. but if you really want to be with him, and give it a chance just to see what happens..stay with him. follow your heart! Good Luck!
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ok tomorrow me and my friend want to do something really random...we already thought of spending the day at walmart...and going bowling...and things like that but i need someting really mental and weird
got any ideas (link)
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i love being random. so i might be able to give you a few good ideas! you could try any of the following:
paintballing
make a scrapbook. take funny pictures
sit on the corner of a street (preferably in town) and hold up a sign that says "honk.....[anything you want, such as "if you love me" or "if you want my number" or "if you have a pool"]"
swim with floaties, and life jacket on.
go to the store and buy sidewalk chalk and trace each other on the sidewalk
wear clothes that don't match, and walk around the mall just to see the looks that you get.
paint each other's face, and walk around town.
call people and ask for someone that you know doesn't live there.
call the radio station and dedicate a song to someone you don't even know, and make up a stupid, pointless reason for dedicating it to them. and explain how much they mean to you. (make up a fake name if you want to avoid feeling stupid, haha)
make play-dough! you can probably find the recipe on google or something.
rearrange your bedrooms. (takes up time, and it can be fun)
wow..well if you want any more ideas, you can IM me on AIM..my s/n is UrSoGorgeOusx
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i think im bi polar does anyone kno the symptoms of that and liek on min im happi then out of no where im crying! is something wrong with me pleaseee helpp!!1 ill rate 5's for any advice (link)
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the following information was used from this website: http://www.dbsalliance.org/info/bipolar.html
(which i found by searching google for "bipolar")
Bipolar disorder differs significantly from clinical depression, although the symptoms for the depressive phase of the illness are similar. Most people who have bipolar disorder talk about experiencing "highs" and "lows" – the highs are periods of mania, the lows periods of depression. These swings can be severe, ranging from extreme energy to deep despair. The severity of the mood swings and the way they disrupt normal life activities distinguish bipolar mood episodes from ordinary mood changes.
Symptoms of mania - the "highs" of bipolar disorder
Increased physical and mental activity and energy
Heightened mood, exaggerated optimism and self-confidence
Excessive irritability, aggressive behavior
Decreased need for sleep without experiencing fatigue
Grandiose delusions, inflated sense of self-importance
Racing speech, racing thoughts, flight of ideas
Impulsiveness, poor judgment, distractibility
Reckless behavior
In the most severe cases, delusions and hallucinations
Symptoms of depression - the "lows" of bipolar disorder
Prolonged sadness or unexplained crying spells
Significant changes in appetite and sleep patterns
Irritability, anger, worry, agitation, anxiety
Pessimism, indifference
Loss of energy, persistent lethargy
Feelings of guilt, worthlessness
Inability to concentrate, indecisiveness
Inability to take pleasure in former interests, social withdrawal
Unexplained aches and pains
Recurring thoughts of death or suicide
i know people like this. it's a tough thing to go through, but i am sure there is help out there! Good Luck!
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hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
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Well first of all, guys mature a lot slower than girls do. Atleast that is the conclusion I have come to. If he treats you the way you feel you should be treated, and makes you happy..there is absolutely no reason you would need to break up. Especially if he is almost 13, or you just turned 15. If you really like him, and he really likes you, I think you should stay together!
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okay, so me and my ex split a couple of days ago. it was over MSN - which was a shame but there was legit reasons for it - anyway. I ended it with him, he just tried to wind me up in the process - and said he didn't give a fuck ect. I got fed up said bye and signed off. Pissed off and I wanted to try and as least be civil. I had reasons for dumping him - he was a slob didn't brush his teeth - ew. never bothered to call me all that. Anyway tonight I've got a planned party. Him, and two of his mates were invited, I never technically uninvited them but presumed they were all crossed off the list after that. I found out a few hours ago they were all still intending to come! Well - my ex hasn't even BOTHERED to contact me since we split and he acted like a jerk - apparently he intended to come sort it all out tonight - at my party!! Well I'm deff NOT getting with him again - and I'm even too mad at him for not bothering to contact me - and allt he reasons we split for bothered to even be his friend right now... well... I cancelled all their invites - but do you think I should tell them it's okay to come or did I do the right thing? They were all upset and wanted to come...
Anyway answers tonight please! Thanks so much =)
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If you don't mind being friends with this kid, it's absolutely fine to let them come to your party. It would be kind of rude to "uninvite" someone, unless you have a good enough reason to. You don't have to give him another chance either, so if he is going to try and get you back, make sure you can say no. Don't be pressured into anything. If you don't want to talk to him about everything at a party, just invite him over alone so you two can talk.
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what do you need to do to get attention from a guy that youve liked for like ever?
im 13/f and i like a 15 yr old guy
thankz
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Well first of all, you shouldn't have to try and get someone's attention. A person should like you for who you are. But if it's really important to you, to get this guy to notice you, just try to be his friend. Get his s/n or his phone number and talk to him sometime. Don't be afraid to ask him to hang out sometime. Flirt with him. Wear a cute outfit when you two hang out, or even when you are just going to see him somewhere. Just be yourself! Good Luck!
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I want a new look for my room on a LOOWWWW budget. I'm 14/f and My walls are white. My carpet is like pink dots and blue dots and white dots... and I have a pegboard border around my room. I just want a new look! (link)
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A quick and easy way to add a little something to your room would be to put posters up on the walls. You could always get those glow in the dark stars to hang on your ceiling, door, walls, etc. You could put together a collage of pictures of you and your friends and put that on your wall or something. You could buy some cheap, but cute paint to paint your walls. I printed out lyrics, laminated them, and put them on my wall as well. I have a dry erase board on the back of my door, where friends can write or draw on when they come over. I have a karaoke machine in my bedroom too, which is awesome. Just having a tv, computer, stereo, etc. to your room adds to it. You can get a cute comforter for your bed, and cute curtains to hang at wal-mart, or the mall. Good Luck!
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sometimes i feel like i really annoy my boyfriend by asking so many questions at once and send him some text messages and by calling him every now and then but i have to check b/c he is always sore and stuff b/c he plays football and he be hurting but i feel like i be annoying him and when i asked him he said naw babe you good and i miss u so what should i do? (link)
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I don't think you should worry about it. I ask a million questions to everyone, and I probably do get annoying but I don't care. If he tells you to stop asking him questions, or worrying about him, just lay off a little bit. I don't think it should bother him if you text message him every now and then, or call to check up on him! But is he calling you as well? Because that isn't right if you are the only one doing the dialing! His phone works just as good as yours does, so let him call you every once in a while! If he is the kind of guy who would say something just so it doesn't hurt your feelings, he might be lying about you getting annoying. Otherwise, you have nothing to worry about. Ask away!
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i have this problem where i cant stay in a realashion ship for a long time or else i get sick of the guy how do i change that (link)
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I'm like that too! I think I like a guy a lot, and then we start going out and I get bored with him. I mean I don't do anything sexual or anything along those lines, I just mean in general.. Maybe you are the kind of girl who doesn't need a b/f. Flirting is so much fun! But if you want a guy you aren't going to get bored with, look for someone who likes to do the same things as you. Otherwise, if you would like to stay with the person you are with right now..if anyone, suggest new things to try! I mean you can always try something once, and if you don't like it, don't do it again! Good Luck!
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what are some nonmaterialistic things i can say/do for my boyfriend of 11 months? (link)
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Heyy, there are a lot of things you could do for your boyfriend without spending any money. If you have time, you can do a lot for him. You could write him a song, and sing it to him..if you aren't afraid to. (even if you sound bad, he'd still think it was cute) You could write him a letter, or a poem telling him how much he means to you. You could go for a walk through the park and talk to him. You could draw him a picture. You could record his favorite tv show when he isn't home so he wouldn't be missing it. You could burn him a cd with songs that mean something to you on it.. You could make a collage of you and his pictures. You could make him a card that explains how much you adore him. You could also just watch a movie with him. kiss him or give him a long hug..and remember don't be the first one to let go!! Good Luck!
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my best friend and i are goin to different high schools next year. i had the choice to go to her high school, but i decided not to because i didn't want to be unhappy at that high school. a month ago she left to go to another country with her family and she's comin home soon. while she was on vacation she called everyone else, but me. durin the school year we only saw each other 3 times and we haven't seen since. she only calls me when she has no one to talk to. we call each other wifey because that was how tight we were b4. she's changed a lot and i just dont know if i want to be her friend anymore. i've been through everything with her and now she's kinda leavin me for her little slutty friends. she's always sayin how she's goin to make it all up. when she makes plans she'll tell me about it, but wont invite me. i just feel like we aren't friends anymore and i've talked to her about this already, but i guess she doesnt get it. what do you guys think i should do?
sorry that this is sooo long, but its just killin me to keep thinkin about this inside. i'm givin advice to other people and i can't help myself (link)
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that just goes to show how much people change..i can relate to situations like that. i think you are making a good choice to go to the other school. there, you can make new friends because your "best friend" doesn't seem so great anymore. some people are very easily influenced by other people, so the reason for your best friend changing so much might be because of the people she hangs out with. i think you should just either talk to her, or even better yet write her a looong email, or letter that explains exactly how you feel. tell her you don't even feel like her best friend anymore, and ask her what she thinks about everything. maybe she is trying to tell you that she doesn't want to be friends anymore, but whether or not she does..you will make new friends, and have good times with them! i know it might be hard, but don't try to let it get to you so much. surround yourself with people who really care, who actually notice you are there, and who honestly want to spend time with you. if someone thinks you are not good enough for them, which your "best friend" might, chances are you are too good for them. (not in a mean way..i mean i'm not suggesting you say that you are better than ANYONE because nobody is better than anyone else) but if she doesn't need you, you don't need her!
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im gonna be a junior in high school and my boyfriends gonna be a freshman in college.. everyone breaks up before college because its supposed to be some big party n all that bs..i really love him and i really trust him. he says he would never cheat on me and he wants to be serious about school instead of partying all the time.. i wanna believe him, because if i dont we'll break up and i could lose him forever..any ideas or advice? :/ thanks (link)
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Okay well first of all, in order for me to tell you what i think is going to happen i need some more information. well, as a matter of fact..you don't need to tell me anything else, just ask yourself these questions and that should help you out a little to be prepared for what might happen with you and your boyfriend's relationship..
how long have you known him?
(the longer the better, because you know more of what kind of guy he is)
how long have you been with him?
(if you have only been dating for a short time, chances are he could cheat on you and not care)
is he the "partying type"?
(partiers tend to be typical guys who just want a piece of ass)
does he have a past of cheating on his g/fs?
(if so, NOT a good sign)
has he ever lied to you before?
(i don't know why you would give him a second chance if he lied once, but yeah if he has lied to you..not a good sign either)
does he lie a lot?
(typical guy, just going to break your heart)
is he the "i want a serious relationship type" or the "just wanna get laid, and have a good time type"?
(if he is a more serious guy you have a better chance of your relationship lasting)
how much do you trust him?
(this question can be answered by how many times he has lied/cheated/and/or hurt you)
how much will you see him?
(if you aren't going to see him a lot, he might think he can cheat on you, without you knowing)
will you get to talk to him a lot?
(as well as not seeing him, if you don't talk to him a lot, the chances of you two staying together..is NOT very good at all.)
just talk to him, and tell him how you feel. tell him how much it would hurt you if he cheated on you (don't assume he knows).. just let him know how much he means to you. when you ask him questions look into his eyes, if he looks left when he is thinking of an answer, he might be lying. people who are telling the truth tend to look to the right. (i saw that on a talk show once.) Good Luck!
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My brother is forced to move to Hawaii on tuesday for 3 years cause of military orders. he isn't able to take the dog with him because of the rabie policy in Hawaii and the money issue of getting the dog tested(my parents won't let my brother borrow money.). He asked everyone he knew to take care of the dog but they all said no. I wanted to take care of the dog but my parents told me and my brother that they hate animals and that I won't be able to concentrate in school and that school is my top priority. I've tried talking to my parents about it but they always get pissed off and yell at me. So my brother has no choice but to send him to the animal shelter. How can I persuade my parents to let me keep the dog? (link)
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Well hun, i'm sorry to say this but if your parents are really that against having a pet then there might not be anything you can do it about it. Do you have any friends whose parents wouldn't mind letting them watch the dog, or keep the dog for the few years that your brother will be in Hawaii? You could try doing chores around the house, and keeping your grades up..and doing what your parents tell you, and then talk to them about it. And then when they see that you've been helping out around the house and doing well in school, maybe they will realize that you are responsible enough to take care of the dog. Is it an inside dog or an outside dog? if it's an outside dog, they shouldn't have as much of a problem with it. and is it a big dog, or little? again, if it's little they shouldn't mind it as much! you could also get a job, if you don't already have one, maybe at a near-by fast food restaurant (if you are old enough), to make some money, and you can tell them that you will buy the food for it. Tell them that you will feed it, walk it, keep it clean..bathe it when needed. Good Luck!
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Does anyone know any good sites with love quotes? besides firehotquotes.com...
will rate high for good answers (link)
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http://www.blurty.com/users/emolyrics
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=aLl__QuOtEz_xO
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=All_x_Quotes
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=alluring_lyrics
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=BackSeatLove_qu0tes
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=qu0tez__x3
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=My_FaVoRiTe_QuoTeS
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=quotes_arethe_sex
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=lovelyquotes_x3
i have a lot more. so just ask me if you need anymore! hope you like 'em!
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