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Hey. My names Christina. I go by that or xtina, stina. Whatever :] I love having energy, but I love to sleep. If you make me laugh ill love you.I never stop smiling. You would never know im sad or going through a tough time. Im pretty good at covering it up. I love having fun and just being me. I hate fake people, or people who act like there too good to talk to you. Its annoying. I love shopping for clothes. Im obessed with stripes! I dont have a reason to be a b!tch or to not like you, but once you do than good luck to ya.I could sit on this website all day and answer every question unforntualy , I do have somewhat of a life.Haha.I strongly dislike when people just give you a number rating. I like feedback so i can improve or just know if what i said was good. I will say the truth but I wont be a b!tch about it. I try to say it in the nicest way possible. I love getting inbox's so dont be shyy!
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when you're giving a hand job, don't you pretty much HAVE to use some kind of lube or lotion? i mean, won't it hurt them afterwards or even during it if there's nothing to help the girl move up and down smoothly..... and please don't say use saliva or your mouth!!!!
You don't have to , but i defiantly think it helps a lot. I've never given a hj without lotion, and from my point of view lotion works great and adds creativity to the experience i guess you could say.
Lately I've been gotting really bad anxiety attacks and I don't know what's been causing them. I want to know what I need to do, either to make them stop, or ease down a little. I get really really shakey and I feel like I have to puke, and sometimes my legs even collapse. Is there a pill or soemthing I could take, or a perscription I need or something like that to make them go away?
I have anxiety but not as bad as you. I went to the doctor and got a low dosage of xanax. YOu take it when you feel an anxiety attack coming on. Ive never felt the need to take on , so they're there just in case for me. I also saw a counselor and i learned these breathing techiqnues. There hard to explain but theres one , where you just close your eyes and while breathing in you say "calm" and while breathing out you say "relax" . You do this however many times you think you need. HOpe it works. GOod luck :]
ok i am 5'5" and weigh 225lbs. all my friends don't believe i weigh that much but i do...i want to lose weight and people told me how to eat healtheir but i can't...i think i'm addicted to food...any advice for me to overcome the addiction...HELP
Id say you can eat food, just eat healthy food, like fruits and and healthy food. Once you get into the pattern of eating healthy , junk food will make feel like gross and sick. If its hard for you to eat healthier id see a doctor or something. And another way to break an addiction is to eat like half. Like if you smoke 10 cigarettes a day cut it down to 5 for a while. and than slowy you break your addiction. SO if you want a brownie, take it, cut it in half and have it. Thats the best advice i can give you.
we had a big fight and she wont forgive me i think she hates me WHAT DO I DO?
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My older sister and I havent gotten in some big fights. The good thing is that you apoligized and although shes not ready to forgive you she knows your sorry. The thing with sisters is that you can never stay mad forever. Your family and need to be there for eachother. Just give dont talk to her and let her come around, and when she does dont give her crap like "well its about time" . It'd be a good thing if you didnt even bring it up at all. Hope that helped. And Good Luck :)
my boyfriend and I fooled around last week
and we didnt have sex but he fingered me and we had oral sex.. my question is.. could i be pregnant? we thought his hands were clean and we were careful but lately this past week or so i have been feeling really tired and i have been waking up in the middle of the night and i have been feeling like eating everything and i know im not coming up on my period because i just had it like 2 weeks ago. I'm getting really scared and i cant buy a home pregnancy test because my town is really small and everyone knows my family and i would have no privacy to take it because i have 7 other brothers and sisters.. what are some sure ways to tell if i am? and what are the chances of getting pregnant from fingering?
i rate high.
Sorry not to be rude in my answer but how can you get pregnant from that ? I'm sorry but you just cant get pregnant unless you have sexual intercourse. If your not old enough to know that maybe you shouldnt be having oral sex. You can get other diseases though. There are NO chances of you getting pregnant from getting fingered? i mean how is that possible ? Stop worrying about it. Sorry if that was rude and you can rate me low if you want its just ridiculous how many people ask questions like this.
16/f is there such thing as a song that practically anyone can sing to and sound good at it?
I dont have a good voice whatsoever but i think im kinda good at singing
Miss you love by Maria Mena
Just listen to it and hopefully you;ll see what i mean
my period was supposed to come June 30th.
its been a week.
and it still hasn't come.
i havn't had sex before. the furthest i've ever gone with someone was when i got fingered by my ex. but we broke up two months ago. and it came last time after that.
so wahts going on?
what can i do to make it come?
yes i actually WANT it to come. its making me worried.
If you just got your period like a year a two ago the doctors are just going to tell you its normal. I had mine for 30 days straight and the doctors said it was normal. However i did go on birthcontrol to help regulate my period because it was so off and i never had a regular one. Not getting it for a couple monthes or weeks is normal at the beginning of your period. and i mean (1-2 years). Your obviously not pregnant so relax :) Talk to your mom and see what she says, she can reassure you its normal. Hope i helped
If you are like 13 or 14, isn't it kind of hard to actually fall in love? It kind of gets me annoyed when my friends say like "i would die without ____" or something like that. Very rarely do people get married to the person they went out with when they were that age. Do you think guys at this age just go out with girls for sex and things like that? Or are there some guys who will wait till your older and feel ready and really love you?
I defiantly agree with your first few sentences. Im 15 and i also still havent been "in love" before. At this age we dont know what love is. I do think most guys just go out to do stuff with girls . And some guys try the old " well if you love me youll sleep with me" try well if your in love it wouldnt matter what youve done together. I think its so ridiculous how many kids are age claim to be in love. Its funny though because when there older there going to be in love and look back and be like " and i thought i was in love"
All guys obviously have in the back of there mind sex. whether they can wait till there older and really love you is the maturity.
What would you do with it?
There's this girl who I absolutely hate (with good reason.. a lot of people hate her but don't tell it to her face) and she basically has made her friendships through myspace. It's like her life or something, but I'm so sick of it because she's really fake. Well anyway the point is, I have her password so what are some things I could do to ruin her life? Do you think I should delete it? She has no idea I have it, but still.
Remember I'm trying to ruin her life.. So things like deleting her myspace would probably make her actually HAVE a life. Which I don't want. I want everyone to realize the real her and hate her as much as I do, but I don't know if I can do anything like that on myspace.
(& normally I wouldn't do anything to someone I hate but, if i have the oppotunity like this, i will take it) So.. :]? *will rate 5's
I dont care if i get a bad rating for my answer.
Honesty is it neccarsly to ruin someones life. Life is hard enough has it is, you dont need someone to go and ruin it for you. You dont know how her life really , maybe it completey sucks , and what you just want to back it worse? Thats so low. Also why are you sick of her? I highly doubt she effecting you by being on myspace. Maybe its hard for her to make friends , so myspace is easier for her. Who cares , let her live her life. jeez
Also, everyones myspace is getting hacked lately so i highly doubt thats going to ruin her life , because she can easily be like, just like everyone else " someone got into my myspace"
Its really low of you to make people want to hate her. Listen noones perfect and everyone makes mistakes in life so really just let it go and move on.
Again i dont care if you give me a bad rating because this is truth.What kind of person are you to want to ruin someones life? think about it
im gonna be going back to school
and my mom keeps bugging me about doing something with my side bangs
becasue i have a really small forhead
and my hairs like already straight but i straighten it anyways
and i dont know what to do with them
i admit they do bother me
and im always moving them cause they fall in my face alot
here are some pictures
if anyone can help me with ideas for what i should do
if you can send me pictures if what it looks like that would be great too!
http://i19.tinypic.com/6fi1clu.jpg
im in the middle. ^^
http://i15.tinypic.com/67npcwm.jpg
http://i19.tinypic.com/6fr682t.jpg
i dont know if this one helps.
but yeah. hah
ahhhh
if anyone helps me
ill love you forever!
haha :]
They look really cute on you i have to say! but i know what its like to have bans in the face.
You can clip them back:
http://entimg.msn.com/i/gal/HilaryDuff/Duff_Hilary19538_4001.jpg
In this picture she took her side bangs and did that and its a cute hair style and your hair can be down also.
Also you can get a trim so there not in your face
http://www.vh1.com/sitewide/flipbooks/img/movies/people/o/olsen_ashley/50822807_10.jpg
^See how they look really cute but there not in her face.
Also you can try using a little hair spray or gel to keep them in place. I got so fed up with mine i just always keep them back in a headband or clip.
Hope i helped. Good luck :]
I'm just wondering, does anyone else feel constantly anxious...
Example: Asking a personal question on advicenators, then feeling scared about the answers... so you don't check it for days.
Or, even reading your feedback, your heart starts thumping.
Or, commenting or messaging someone on myspace or email and being unsure whether or not you'll get a reply, so you just don't check it for as long as you can handle.
I'm also anxious that when I IM someone, they won't respond.
I don't know why, but I'm always scared.
Am I just weird or is this normal? What should I do?
I have an anxiety and I expeiernce wierd things like that too. Not excalty that because people are different but I go through stuff like that. I hate showing up to places alone because im afriad no one will know who i am. I just get anxiety over the wierdest things. Its not wierd or anything it just happens.
I wanna know EXACTLY what happens when you go to get birthcontrol pills. Do they make you have a test for diseases? what do they do questions they ask..?
I agree with the person below me . Its like nothing. I had to get an ultrasound on my ovaries because my period was so screwed up, but once they decided to put me on birthcontrol all i needed was a prespription. My gyno just asked me questions such as have you had sex before, do you smoke or drink. Normal stuff like that. And they dont tell your parents. You dont get tested for diseases or anything. In some cases its different but really its not a big deal
Hope i helped!
Ok so I've seen a couple people wearing like kinda dressy shirts that are longer than a regular shirt but shorter than a dress and they wear leggings under it and it looks soo cute! I was wondering if anybody knows where I can get shirts like that? And I don't want them to look too dressy, but not too plain. Just something thats cute and stylish. Thanks so much!
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im 15 and been with my girlfriend for about 5 months and i really like her we are getting close
im a bit worried to take things further because my penis is quite small im worried what she'll think will it matter?
Put it this way. If she really likes you , shes not going to care. I dont think it even really matters how big or small you are. You cant help it,so it shouldnt matter . In relationships you like the person for who they are not how big something is.
I mean shes probably going to make a judgement about how big or small it is, but I really dont think that will effect her liking you or anything.
Dont worry, and if your not ready yet dont go further until you've dated for longer.
Hope i helped, sorry if i didnt.
xoxo
14/F- I have my life pretty much planned out at this point. I want to become a cardiac surgeon and once I get at that point I want to open a over night spa and i want it to be big ( while Im still a cardiac surgeon)do you think my dream is to much or do you think I should go for it-Thanks
Im not trying to be cheesy or anything, but really you can do anything you set your mind to. Its going to take hard work and patience but you could defiantly do it. You will need some help but you can do whatever you set your mind to!
alllright so my parents will be gone this weekend and my bf is gonna sleep over. im trying to think of some exciting things we could do. we havnt had sex so not that, but anything else is defff possible. so what are some fun ideas that he would like?? id like as many ideas as possible. thanks so much!
I think it would be wicked cute to act like your married. Go out to eat, watch movies, cuddle, make him breakfast. you knoww. cute stuff like that
im a 16 male and i really like another guy we become very close and he seems to like me a lot
im not sure if i should make a move i dont want to freak him out what should i do its not weird to like another guy?
You should talk to him about it and make sure he defiantly does like you, and than when he does , than make a move. Not something big, just something little and cute, but not until you know for sure that he likes you. Good luck :]
my bf came over to my place and couple of my friends were there we watched a dvd and after awhile we were kissing and feeling each other
and when he stood up he had an erection we all noticed and then he got really embarrassed
and ran off home id try to talk to him the next day he still seemed embarrassed about it what can i do to reassure him? do all guys get embarrssed this?
Some guys do get embarrassed and some dont. Id say dont bring it up or anything because hes probably just trying to forget about it. ITs really normal for some guys to be embarrassed, but i wouldnt bring it up . Just let it go :]
im 16/f and i need tips for fighting other people like i mean fighting other girls.
Simple : dont its trashy and gives you a bad reputation. Be classy :] and dont give girls the time of day
I am 13 years of age. I have been put in a situation where I could have sex. I really like the guy and I think he likes me. I am not sure if I should have sex with him or not. I really want to. I need advice. HELPPP!!
Noone can really tell you what to do its all your desison, but your only 13. Im 15 and still havent had sex. Are you mature enough to deal with the consequences? Like accidentally getting pregnant or getting a disease. Also sex should be with someone you love and you know when you're ready. I dont think your even close to ready because you have to ask for advice. Not trying to be mean. Also, chances are hes not going to like you forever , and that is going to break your hurt especailly if you have sex with him because you will be so emotionally attached. I dont really think you should, but its your life.