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eleven year olds cannotwork, only in entertainment like as a child actor on TV. Since all child labor laws prohibit anyone under the age of 14 from working

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Does anyone know that song website where you can burn CDS off of it and its free. It's called like "Wind ___" (something) I forget what its called adn I really want to download some songs cuz its totally free.

Does anyone haev any idea what I'm talkinbg about? please help if ya can. Thanks so much.

I think your talking about WinMX. But Limewire is better because its faster. But its your choice just stay away from Kazaa, it ruins your computer

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Hey, does anyone know what stores have Hello Kitty stuff?

Target, Hot Topic and Claires

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is 13 too young to get married. i mean yeah it is but like i mean if you really felt you were ready could someone marry u without a parents consent. or even with one

First your 13 why do you want to get married?? In all states you must be 18 without parental consent. Every state differs on what age you must be to marry with parental consent. Trust me wait another 10 year because there is no point in getting married now. Your parents are going to laugh at you if you ask them to consent

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how do you calculate a grade point average? thanks.

take all your final grades for that term or year and add them together then divide by however many classes you take. Then take that number and find it in this chart. http://cchsstaff.colleton.k12.sc.us/GPAConversionChart.htm And whatever number its next to is your GPA. For example if you get a 85 for a number its a 3.0 but rememeber that might not be your official GPA because each class you take has levels and depending on the level your GPA may go up or down a few points. To be sure go to your Guidence Office and ask them to look it up

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i have a b/f and im fourteen. im so ready to have sex but my parents dont think so. im thinking i shoudl do it behind their back but idk signed- im so cunfuzzled

Your 14, you are not ready to have sex at all. You haven't had enough life experience to have sex.

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I found out yesterday that a good friend of mine was killed at a party. Someone had slipped ecstasy in her drink and then she was brutally raped while she was passed out. I feel like this is all my fault. The reason being is because I always went to parties with her and I would always tell her "Beck, don't drink at parties". She'd always yell at me and tell me that I acted like her mother. But I knew I was right, I don't trust the drinks that people hand out at parties. The guy that raped her was my ex-boyfriend. I still feel like this was all my fault because, had I been there, he wouldn't have done anything to her because he's afraid of me. I'm sure by now you're all probably thinking "This is a load of bull" but believe it. This actually happens to people. She was my best friend. I knew I should have gone with her to that party. I'm completely miserable right now. She was my best friend. I always figured that nothing like that could ever hit so close to home. I'd always see stories like this on the news and I'd think to myself "How could they be so stupid?" Or, "That would never happen where I live." But it has. I don't know how to handle this. My ex boyfriend was arrested and my friends family is waiting to go to court but in the time being, I don't know how to handle myself. I don't even have the courage to go to her funeral tomorrow. I need help getting through this. Please help me... Thank you for those who take this seriously. I would really also like a non-sarcastic answer because this is a touchy subject for me. Thank you.

I apologize for the length.

wow I'm soooo sry for what happended. I wish no one would ever have to go through that. Try and go to her funerel, it will give you some closure and just be there for anyone you see who needs it. It might take a while but you'll start to accept this. You probably will never be fully over it. Also try and go to your x-bf's court dates because when his verdict is called and he is found gulity that will help you cope with your loss. again I'm sry this happended

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the other day, my boyfriend came over and we were sitting on the couch. then we started kissing. he slipped his tounge into my mouth and i did the same. (we were kissing for like 10-15 seconds) is that considered just french kissing or making out?

yea that is both making out and french kissing

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can level 2 moderators see who asks each question?

yes, level 2 and level 3 moderators are the only ones that can see who answers the questions

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How old do you think a girl has to be to sleep over at their boyfriends house, say if their boyfriend was the same age or 1 year older?

Honestly I don't think you should do it until your 17-18 because then the relationship will probably be more serious.

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Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do???

If you have to question yourself if your ready or not then you are not ready. Which is fine because your 14, you have your whole life to have sex why now?

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I have alot of guy friends that are juniors and seniors and i have been asked to prom a few times....but see, im only a sophmore...Do you think its ok to go that young or should i wait and let it be more special?

I don't see anything wrong with it all. Just don't go with someone unless you like them because people take proms seriously

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I would 1st like to say that I have never drank through my pregnancy, I know that is very bad. But my question is If you are 40 weeks pregnant and have a small amount of wine like 2 oz. Will it harm the baby or make you go into labor?

It probably wouldn't hurt the baby because you did it once and 2 oz is like a sip so don't worry about it, but if you are worried ask your doctor about it

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i have a question. if you wear skater clothes but you dont skateboard or you used to but not anymore are you considered a poser?

I don't believe in labels such as poser, preppy, punk, goth etc. Wear whatever you want who cares what others think

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i really like this guy and he likes me...we arent going out, but we flirt alot.. we go to the movies and we hookup alot..all our friends say we we should go out..but we never have..two days ago, my friend had a party and we snuck into her room and stated hooking up...he felt me up and ended up fingering me...yesterday i had my friends come over and i ended up giving him a hang job..is it ok that i have done all this stuff and that we havent gone out yet...

Its fine as long as he's not using you. Next time your with him talk about becoming official and start going out. If he's like no then don't hook up with him anymore. But if he does like you then he will go out with you

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I'm 13 and wondering...

it means to pleasure yourself. you either give yourself a HJ of your a guy and you finger yourself if your a girl

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Does anyone know where I can find a pen pal at?
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www.myspace.com, www.friendster.com and even try going to google and typing in pen pal

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My mom seems to think that only black people wear brands such as Roccawear, Baby Phat and Ecko. I like the clothes and she wont let me wear them because on the websites the people who are modeling them happen to be black. So tell me really, do these brands are truly only worn by Africans?

No those brands are not only worn by African Americans. Your mom is sterotyping people by what they wear. Yes a majority of people who wear for example FUBU and Ecko are black but anyone can wear it.

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what are signs that you are pregnant?

you get morning sickness, your chest will be swollen, you will have weird cravings and the easiest one you won't have your period

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When typing are you supose to use your pinky? i barely do only when i hit enter.. barely then to... am i typing wrong?

it sounds like your doing it right if your hitting the enter key with your pinky. Your left pinky should be on the A key and your right pinky should be on the ; but also use it to hit enter

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