I love to play soccer and go horseback riding, and I love watching sports. I give good advice and I've been through a lot in my life so I can relate in some way to most things. I love to listen to music, especially rock. I find myself insane most of the time and I will occasionally say weird things in my advice because it is just stuff that I would do in that situation, just ignore it if it's weird or something like that. Oh yeah, I LOVE to read, especially fantasy books, like books about witches and fairies and stuff like that.
E-mail: nohabloesapnol35@netscape.net
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Location: Bayport, NY
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
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well i've liked this guy for abut hmm 3 years now n we werent friends in 6th grade n we were kinda friends in 7th but now we're super tight anyway today he kept makin me laugh like in studyhall he kept makin eye contact and makin funny faces well it might be because he's bored but like when we were walkin down the hall he'd come up to me and start talkin and then before soccer started we were in the cafeteria and he tried tripping me but lol it didnt work so and he kept makin me laugh there also and then when i had to go to my game he goes LEAVEEE like sarcasticly then he touched my boob..idk if he did it accidentally but it sure didnt seem that way lol then i just left..what is he trying to say? (link)
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He likes you, but sometimes guys are really confusing so he may just want to be you friend, why don't you ask one of his friends or ask your friends to ask him if he likes you.
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Well maybe about 2 - 3 years ago I met this boy, he lives in california and i live in everett washington. Hes in 11th grade and im in 10th. He came up a few months ago and visited me for about 2 weeks and then left. I really love him and we talk online everyday through email because his computers messed up and wont let him download aim or anything. He's always like " Whats up baby " and " I love you too ". Were not going out but I really wanna go out with him. I know he would never cheat on me because hes real. He doesnt make things up If hes busy he'll say " Oh ill email you later im busy ". Hes so sweet to me. But yesterday I went on my sister screen name and she sent him a email that told him that I want to go out with him and that I was scared to ask because he might have a girlfriend or he might say no. And he wrote back saying something like " Tell her I dont have a girl and I would never say no to her and I really love her. " Then she wrote back saying " She wants to know why you love her." And something else. And he said " Tell her to ask me why I love her but she should know." Im not that mad at her for doing to because I kind of knew. But anyways lol my question is should I go out with him? I mean we live far away and probably wouldnt be able to see eachother. But we really love eachother. Drop your thoughts or whatever. (link)
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I say that you should most definatley go out with him, he is one in a trillion, you will most likely not find a guy like that in the near future. I hope it works out if you do go out with him!
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Ive been going out with this one boy for about 2 months. and i like him a lot but we havent kissed! and i do not make the first move. how can i make him kiss me?
14/f (link)
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Play like truth or dare when you're having a party or something and get one of your friends to dare him to kiss you.
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Ok lets see.I have a seven year old sister and a 4 year old brother and they are way out of control!I know kids are wild and everything but these two are beyond wild!They destroy everything and do whatever they want and i mean anything and have completely ruined my life and has turned my mom almost nuts.Shes not the same as she use to be and its been bugging me alot more lately.And im 8 months pregnant and i dont want her around these two kids acting the way they do and everytime i try and talk to my mom about it she gets mad at me and flips out.And no matter how much she yells at them or punishs them they still dont listen and just keep on doing the same shit.Its gotten out of control to where i dont know what to do anymore!Help!! :-( (link)
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Tie them up, gag them, and throw them in a closet?????? Or you could always try and send them to like a mental ward thingymabober.
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My friend told me tht she caught her sister cutting....Can ne1 tell me wht tht is? I asked her wht it wuz and she looked @ me like I wuz crazii...Wht is it?! I need 2 no!! (link)
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Cutting means when a person takes a sharp object and cuts their skin so they bleed.
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OK, I met this guy at the mall and we got to know eachother. He calls me almost everyday and we flirt ALL the time. The thing is, he already has a girlfriend. I think he likes me and all but i don't want him to break up with her for me but i REALLY like him. What should i do?!?! PLease help me!!! (link)
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The best thing you could do is wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend, not over you though, like if the break up because they don't spend that much time together or they don't have feelings for each other, stuff like that.
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okie so heres my question
my brothers girlfriend allie
is gonna be 18 on sept 30
and me and her are like bestfriends
and in our school like everyone decorates
lockers when u turn 16 and 18 and i want
to do hers as a surprise but im not sure
how to decorate it and i need some ideas
on what to do so if yas could help id really
like it (link)
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Well everyone in my school always decorates lockers for peoples birthdays. They usually put like ribbons hanging from the lockers and signs that say Happy Birthday and sometimes they even put balloons on them and they make it all wonderful and colorful and stuff like that, so you could try those things. Hope I helped
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This isnt a question..just saying that Today is my 18th Birthday and I appreciate everyones ratings and answering all the questions that Ive asked...Im really glad that I joined this advice column...You all are the greatest. Thanks!! (link)
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Happy Birthday!!!!!!! And Congrats, you are now officially not a minor!!!!!
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My friend has been married for 3 years. She and her husband are expecting their first child in December. (It's a boy.) They are trying to pick a name. Her husband really likes the name Jonathan, but he doesn't know that she has an ex-boyfriend named Jonathan. Do you think she should tell him about her ex or just go ahead and name the baby Jonathan anyway? (link)
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Congrats to your friend! There are millions of people on the world named Jonathan so it really would be considered as naming it after her ex, because it could just as well be named after this 76 year old guy who live in Mississippi or something like that, so I think that she should name the baby that because it's a good name.
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I want to dye my hair a crazy color like blue or purple, and I want to know some good hair products that work for *ahem* ethnic hair ( I'm Black if you haven't figured that out yet) I want something that will be semi-permanent. I also don't want to bleach my hair, I don't want to put too many chemicals in it. So if anyone has any ideas, let me know. (link)
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Red could be a good color, it would come out darker though, or maybe blue would work, i wouldn't suggest green though because green isn't the greatest color to have in your hair. One of my friends actually had green tips and it didn't look too good. Herbal essence works good although I don't think they have it in blue or red, you could try going to Hot Topic and find dye there, I know they have it, you could go to www.hottopic.com and look at the different kinds of dye that they have.
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i was thinking of babysitting for people..(most likely people i dont know) with a friend of mine..this way the job is easier. Is this a good idea? Do you think i`ll be successful? How should i get perfect strangers to trust me to babysit their kids...any tips? thank you :) (link)
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It is a good idea to baby-sit with your friend, especially if there is more than one kid, or if you run out of things to do and your friend has another idea. It would be kind of hard to convince the parents to baby-sit their kids with your friend, so just present yourself in a respectable manner, tell them good things about yourself and you friend, and the parents will most likely want you to baby-sit their children.
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ok....theres this kid that is going out w/ the girl i love...and he knows that i still love her...(she's my ex)....and he makes fun of me b cuz he's going out w/ her and im not....he makes up all these lies saying that she said them...but she didnt just to piss me off. i want to kick his ass...but then she'll hate me forever....every one else says to forget what she thinks about it and just do it....but i dont know what to do.....HELP ME!! (link)
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Get one of your friends to beat the s*** out of him, he deserves it. And she can't get nad at you because you aren't the one that beat him up, and he still gets beat up because he deserves it.
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okay so i was at my cottage and this guy was like chillin with me and my sis and my cuzins and so we were chillin and my sis was beggin 4 his sn!! i wasn't even really interested but he gave it 2 me secretly!! doe sthis mean he likes me?? or does it mean he wants to be friends?? (link)
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That might just mean he likes you, he probably does, but who knows?? Guys are soooo confusing.
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one of my friends can never stay single for more than a week! when i first met her she had this boyfriend then they broke up and in a few days she went out with someone else then they broke up (but she swore she loved him) and then she goes out with another guy the next day. then when they broke up shes already planning to hook up with her friend. ugh! it pisses me off that she can never stay single while all my other friends don't care about guys! how can i explain this to her that she does not always need a boyfriend!!!!!! (link)
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Tell her that boys aren't everything and there are a lot more things in life that just BOYS BOYS and more BOYS. Or you could just go out for a girls only night and show her that she doesn't need boys when she has such great friends.
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I just started school, and I'm a sophmore. Last year I had a boyfriend all year and I was with him every day during lunch and when we changed classes. Now we're broken up and I feel so out of place. I mean I still have my friends and stuff...just bieng with them makes me feel so out of place and I don't know how to act. I know I should just be myself...but I don't know. I feel so uncomfortable, what should I do? (link)
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Find another boyfriend??? Or you could sit in the middle of the lunch room floor, and just eat lunch while everybody falls over you??? (That would be something I would do, don't listen to that, I'm just a wee bit insane) You could always just up to a random table and just sit down???
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ok.. one of my best friends uncle died last nite we were all really close with him but they were like really close n shes talkin about killing herself wut do i say to her to help her try n stop trying to kill herself? help i rate high (link)
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Tell her to try and not htink about it and talk to someone about it and hopefully then she will cry, crying makes everyone feel a lot better, and if she stills wants to kill herself tell her to put a robberband on her wrist and flick it so it hurts, but not too much that always made me feel better. I hope I helped
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im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl.... (link)
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Who the hell cares what everyone else thinks??? if you really like him then tell everyone to go f*** themselves 'cause you like him and there is nothing wrong with it, it's only a year difference. One of my "friends" went out with a sixth grader when she was in 8th grade so it's really no big deal.
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ok this gurl is botherin me shes my bffs friend she hates me (KATIE, bffs friend) but my bff always says katie hates me and crap like that it really botherin me!!!!i need help!!! (link)
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Punch Katie in her face, and tell her to shut up and leave you alone and tell your friend that you don't appreciate it when she tells you that Katie hates you.
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Wellllll.......I have a boyfriend, and I love him with ALLLLLLLLL my heart, and trust me, I do...I'm not just some girl saying 'i love you' and not meaning it, he's everything to me. But...I'm 15, and I have never had a serious relationship until now...I'm the type of girl who goes out and does spontaneous stuff.....well ok a few weeks ago I started feeling REALLY tied down. It got to be the end of summer ya know and I just wanted to be FREEEE....and i ended up telling him i wanted to go on a break...while we were 'on a break' i kissed another guy. well that's what made me realize how much he REALLY meant to me, and the next day i talked to him and told him how much i really loved him and everything....but i left the part about kissing another guy out. i have a guilty conscious about it, and i really want to tell him, but at the same time i have this feeling it would only break us up.... n that's the LAST thing i want.... even if it didn't break us up he would totally lose my trust for obvious reasons, but we go to different schools and that's one of the things we HAVE to have....I dono what to do......there's no way he could find out but i dono if i should tell him or not...I know everyone would say 'just tell him it's better' and all that...but put urself in my position and think about what u'd really do, cuz it's a lot harder then to just tell him because it's the right thing to do...thanks in advance! (link)
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My best advice is don't tell him, I am a really great liar (I know that sounds weird) and the best tactic for lying is making yourself actually believe that you never kissed the guy and forget that you ever kissed him at all. That way you won't feel guilty because you think that you never kissed the other guy in the first place.
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i recently moved to a new town and dont know any kids here im going to a new highschool starting 9th grade in 2 weeks but im scared i wont make any friends...is it easy to make friends and meet people there???thanks (link)
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I had this exact same problem because I'm going to a new school and I know no one, but since I play soccer, they had a summer soccer league and I met alot of new friends, basically the whole team is really nice and cool, and they are now my friends. Just be nice and friendly and have an open mind, be outgoing and go up to random people in the hallway and be like "Hi, I'm new and I just moved here do you mind showing me around?" or go up to someone and pretend that your lost and say "I excuse me but I am new and I don't know where I am going do you no where room 5987639876 is?" (I just made up a random number)
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