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Location: St. Louis, MO
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Member Since: August 21, 2007
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EVERYTIME i eat chocolate, i get pimples. What causes this? (link)
sorry but what foods you eat actually have abosolutly NOTHING to do with the amount of pimples you have. pimples are formed ONLY from bacteria and oils that are naturaly in your skin and hair.im not sure what the person below is talking about but she is very mistaken. Although drinking tons of water can help flush your system of excess oil.


In the Mall, do you think they have Cameras in the Elevator? and if they did could you get in trouble for making out in there, i did, but i'm just curious if they have cameras in them.


and, in the dressing rooms, do they have cameras in there too? or around them? or does it just depend..and also what if you got caught making out in a dressing room, JUST MAKING OUT, what would happen? would they notify your parents?

thanks a bunch=] (link)
some elevators do have cameras but dressing rooms NEVER do. that is illegal. anyway even if you got caught, as long as you were ONLY making out, they probably wouldnt do anything. they might kick you out of the mall for that day or something but thats it.


Is it true that you can get stretch marks around your mouth from giving a guy a blow job? (link)
it is impossible to get stretch marks from a blow job. stretch marks come when you are pregnant and your skin is stretching really fast.dont listen when people tell you stupid things like this.


my mom will usually get on to me for picking out high inch heels, and no strappless shirts, i keep telling her no, im in the 6th grade, but i cant get through to her that i am not 2 anymore. what should i do? (link)
first off, no 6th grader should be wearing strapless shirts and high heels. quit trying to grow up so fast girl. trust me, life only gets harder the older you get. and once your older, alls you will say is damn i wish i was a little kid again.


say you've had about a year of experience with sex. and then you dont have sex for a year later. do you get tighter, like as if you were a vrigin? or would you still feel loose? (link)
being "loose" is just some word guys made up. after the first couple times you have sex you get "looser" because your hmen has been broken. but no matter how much you have sex you wont stretch or change.


wat should i be?
13/f
im no good girl
but im not a slut to jus wear fish nexts & a bra

like any good ideas that arent kiddish or slutty? (link)
depending where you live, try finding a Jonnie Brocks Dungeon store. maybe search online to see if there is one in your area. they have entire wherehouses full of all types of costumes and decorations. i went to get my costume last night and found a really cute/sexy graveyard fairy costume. its laces up in the front but doesnt show anything or look slutty.


Ok, i tried putting in a tampon and i wasnt tense or anything because i really want to be able to use them! anyway i cant get mine to go all the way in. actually i cant really get it to go in at all. i know where its supposed to go but it feels really uncomfortable when im trying to put it in. does it just do that the first couple times? and once i get it in i will get used to it and all that? thansk for your help and i will rate all helpful advice! :D (link)
it may feel uncomfortable the first couple times and even hurt a bit putting it in. but once your body gets used to it you wont even notice that its there. try standing up and putting foot on the bathtub or toilet.aim the tampon toward your lower back and just push it in slowly.


Can anyone help me with a list of alcohols?
Like
-Scotch
-Vodka
-Tequila
You know, all that? What are the differences between those...and are there any other types?
(NOT THAT I'm GOING TO DRINK ANY!! I just don't understandd) (link)
Vodka and Tequila are claer liqour. things like scotch or brandy are dark liqour. dark liquor usually is a bit stronger but it all depends on the brand and alcohol content. some alcohols are usually meant to be put in mixed drinks like margaritas and some are usually drank striaght.


Whats a good eyeliner (that I can get at Target) in a dark brown??

links pleaseeee! (link)
try using ColorTrend eyeliner. i had a problem with my make-up wiping off after and hour or two unitl i found this. they have lots of colors and it really works good for staying on for long periods of time.


Does diet affect the amount of zits you have? Because it seems whenever I eat a lot of junk food I break out...=[ (link)
contrary to poplular belief, acne is not caused by the amount of sugar or junk food you eat. zits and pimples are caused only by the bacteria on your face which comes from sweat and oils that are naturaly in your skin.


i cannot concentrate in school , i put things off till the last mintue and i feel lose....what should i do? (link)
try asking to sit in the hall and work or go to the library or a quieter room. this will help you concentrate better and not be distracted by everyone else in the room. also just plan out a time to do your homework eveyrday and get it out of the way so you dont have to worry about it later.


I hate that after I cry, my eye get puffy and swells up, even after a while when it's not red anymore!

Is there a quick way to fix it so I don't have a blimp head when I go out? (link)
this may sound weird but put a sponn in the freezer for a couple of minutes and then hold it over your eyes. you can also just use a cold ice pack. it will reduce the swelling around your eyes.


I met this guy who is exactly like me, we've been going out for about 2 weeks, and every day he tells met that he loves me.

He is always complimenting me, and we are ALWAYS together.

Do you think we'll last long as a couple? Or would same interests drive us away from each other?

Btw, he isn't a player type, not über outgoing or anything like that. He is the nicest guy i've met in my life :) (link)
it all depends on the two people. some opposites attract and some with same intrests work well together. but dont rush into anything. i mean think about it, if youve only been going out for 2 weeks, do you think he REALLY loves you?


Is there ANY way I can lose a few pounds before friday or saturday?

I'm hanging with a old friend and I want to wear these jeans but they make my butt look big.
I plan on walking 1 hour in the afternooon, don't eat high calorie stuff and drink ALOT of water, (only)


do you think I'll lose a few pounds if I do this?
HELPPPPPPP! (link)
you could also jog or jump rope. do lots of push-ups to tone the arms, and sit-ups for the ab's.


does anyone know if the vitamin water power-c, i think it is, it's red.. is vegan? it has taurine, but does anyone know if the taurine source is fruit rather than ox-bile? (link)
it is an organic acid but it does come from animals.


what does trippin balls mean? (link)
if someone were talking about drugs then it means that they are REALLY feeling the drug a lot. if they were just talking then it means 'your wrong' 'over-reacting' 'thats not right'.


ok well my boobs are starting to grow, though im not an A cup or w/e. probably an AA. Not sure. anyways, i got hair down there, i dont have pit hair. Though my pit does smell. I got discharge, though its not gooey. its more dry and looks clumpy, but its wet before it drys. :P I guess i'm an average height. 5'3 for 13/f.Average foot size too(about 8 1/2 for puma shoes). Will I get my period sooner or later? I don't really get the concept of "cramping". is it just like a normal stomache ache? Is it near the middle? does it make you feel like you need to go #2? (poo).

Thanks. (link)
well the skinnier you are can make a small difference on when your period will come but much. cramps come when you have your period because your uterus is contracting to move all the extra blood and tissue out of your system. a lot of times cramps will feel like a dull ache in your lower back or in your lower stomach area. most girls have their period around the ages of 12-15.


I'm kind of confused cause people keep telling me different things i was wondering

When it comes to kissing in a relationship as in your first kiss in the relationship who's ment to make the move first ? (link)
your first kiss should happen when both of you are ready to take the relationship to the next level. it doesnt have to be one person or the other, everything in a good relationship should be mutual. including the moves.


what is Adderall used for? (link)
its a prescription drug used to calm people down that have a disorder called ADHD. which stands for attention defisite* hyperactivity disorder. basically lets them consentrate better and slow their mind down a little bit.


i was wondering what people thought about student and teacher in a relationship. what do you think about it? (link)
read the book Impulse, by Ellen Hopkins. it shows a lot of the consequences of this situation.




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