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17/f

In my honesty box (an application on facebook), a guy wrote 'HOLLAAA' - can anyone tell me the meaning behind this? What is the point of writing that? Haha thanks. (link)
it means hello...


Background information: I'm a junior in high school and I have a friend who is a freshman, so she is about 14 I'd say.

My friend's mom used to physically abuse her when she was younger. Slap her and what not. My friend claims she doesn't do this anymore..I'm a little skeptical. But, the mother still verbally abuses my friend...badly. I've seen what happens when they even fight on the phone...horrible.

My friend has been fighting me very had because I don't want her to be in that house under those circumstances because no child deserves to be abused in anyway, ever. I want to call social services or the police or something...but what do I say? Obviously, I've never been placed in this situation and I have no proof that the mother does it. I'm not sure that my friend would testify against her mother for what she has done.


So my question is, what can I do? There has to be something.. (link)
i had the same situation and what i did was call a hotline. they will anonomysly go to the persons house and explore the house. I did this and the police talked to teh parents and said they can't tell them who called but they know whats going on . THen the police gave my friend numbers if shes ever in the situation again. hot number--1-800-422-4453


o and all you have to say is "hi i have a freind thats mom used to abuse her and im skepitical its happening again. " then they will ask you a few questions and just answer honestly. :]

hope shes okay!!


okay so in december i'm finally hanging out with this kid who i've wnated to see FOREVER. he is 5 years older then me. (im 14) and he is very popular in my town, so one time hanging out with him, i'll be so popular. and on top of that hes the cutest guy i've ever seen. while me him my 3 good friends are goin to his friends house to burn but anyways now im gross. im ball and hairs a mess and just yuck. i plan on loosing weight, not that i need to just to tone up, then go tanning, get my belly tongue & nose peirced, nails & toes done, new hot clothes, teeth whitend, and TRY and gethair extentions. i dont know where to get them? i love in a suburb in MASS. near salemish. my hair looks like this now. http://z.hubpages.com/u/67398_f260.jpg .. i want it too look like this .. http://www.patricscolorroom.net/sitebuildercontent/sitebuilderpictures/Hair_Extension_Home_Page_After_SBS_900.JPG .. but not that color or curled. is there any place in MA that is CHEAP & looks good?! PLEASE HELP. and (link)
your so fake. its unbelievable. and the person above me is right. you should of given them a five.


i just pressed a buncha keys on my keyboard and everything on my computer screen became big and stretched out, help! how do i fix this (link)
if you have a make press control and then use the scroller thing on your mouse and scross it towards you:] sorry if that dosent make sensse!


im trying to find the artist and song title of this weeks episode of gossip girl. it played at the very end of the episode. some of the lyrics are:

"..it's too late to apologize, it's too late." (link)
apologize.. by one republic featuring timbaland


Ok so i have the GAYEST HAIR IN THE WORLD. i want straight hair, but my parents wont let me get a relaxer. i can straighten it, yeah, but it takes like 2 hours. and it only stays straight for like 30 minutes, then it gets wavy.

so i was wondering if anyone might know of something that could make my hair straight that:

1) doesnt include me straightening it.
2) doesnt include me blow drying it.
3) and costs under like, 20 dollars.

i know it seems kind of impossible, but im just wondering. (link)
first of dont use gay as a derogatory term cause thats just mean.
second of all the truth is that for your kind of hair (same one) ive tried evyerhting and you can only straighten or blowdry it. you could go to a salon and get it japaneezed straightend but thats extremley bad for your hair. Sorry but if you cant take the time to get a straightner under 20 dollars (there are alot ) then there is no other way. im sorry if thats nto the answer you wanted but its the truth.


well their this guy that i really really like and well i like him so much that i think i might be in love with him. But i dont know for sure,how can you tell you really in love with someone. I think about him all the time,i always write poems and stuff about him,there aint one day where i just cant stop thinking about him. And when he dont be at school i get all upset and everything. And when i see him i get all happy and stuff.So what is this that im feeling and why am im feeling this way. by the way im 15 in 9th grade and he is in 10th. (link)
i agree with the person under me. love isnt a question if you really ewre in love you would just know it and none of us on here can tell you how you feel. xo=]


how do you make out?? as in....use your tongue?? thanksss (link)
Okay so my first kiss/ french was a few weeks ago. I FREAKKED out for like 3 years about what was i going to do. I didnt bealive anyone when they said it comes natural but really it does and there is no way to practice because the real thing is way different. The only thing i can suggest is writing the guy your kissings name in script with your tounge .really ou just move your tounge around in there moth and breathing or anthing isnt a problem. GOOD LUCK=D anymore questions feel free to ask.


I'm just looking for some good songs. Mainly soft, kind of indie genre. Something kind of like Colbie Caillat, Death Cab for Cutie, Bright Eyes, ect. Anything would be appreciated. I'm just lacking musical motivation right now. (link)
I'm not really sure but I listen to BUbbly by Colbie Caillat like every second and I love that song. It just makes you feel good


Is there any way to change your name on facebook? How do i do that? (link)
go to account and the first thing it says is real name click change and thereya go


15/f
im about to start high school soon. any tips on boys, school, friends, anything about school??
please and thank you. :] (link)
uhm the person under me ROSE is very rude. Its perfectly fine to be nervous=] Boys will always be boys so dont let them get to you there not worth it. You can just be nice and be yourself and I can almost guarentee at leasst one guy will love you. Do your homework before hanging because if you don't your going to fall behind.Do what YOU WANNA DO not what anyone else wants you to do.*its nice to be important but its more important to be nice*any more tips just ask.hope i helped=]

ps btw that idiot girl rose and whoever else answered WHY R U SCARED or that girl who said highschool will be a breeze with those steps. there just being stupid and there not cool. Just be yourself and be nice and everything will fall into place=]


I want to know if I have problems. Well I will like go a week without eating. But then on like Sunday I will sit and eat alot. I've lost like 7 pounds in like 2 weeks. Do I need to start eating reguarly? Do I need to start eating more? Everyone in my family thinks im pregnant. So should I eat alot more just incase? (link)
yes you should definatly be eating regulary it can start eating disorders if you don't.You should at least eat 3 meals a day. If you don't eat regulary it will screw up your whole metabolism and make it harder to loose weight when you need to nad its not healthy. If you are pregnant its twice as important to eat at least 3 times a day becaues if you dont your baby can be unhealthy or you could even have a miscarrage. PLEASE EATT!!! hope i helped


well, I've been seeing questions concerning online relationships here...and so I wanted to ask mine.

I'm 15/f and a lot of friends that I have, I have indeed, met online. Other than them, of course, I do have real friends. A couple good ones, actually. But for some reason, the people that I know from online, I can kind of relate to more, and it's fun chatting with them and stuff. Most of them I've known on and off for about a year now. I have about 10 of them. I met all of them through forums.
So, I was just wondering. Should I be ashamed of having so many online friends? Also - if we are very good friends and we both have intentions on meeting....what's the best way to go about meeting them? Like if I were to travel out of state with my parents. Where should we meet up? (I might only meet 4 or 3 of them for real). Because I know my dad would think it weird if we're in another state, and I come up to a weird stranger that he's never seen. Haha.

Thank you! (link)
No I actually think its good you can relate and talk to these people well=] But the only thing is alot of people will stand you up or lie about there gender and/or age.so make sure an adult goes with you. Also talk to them on the fone so you can here them before you go. BEST OF LUCK!


how do you become a moderator (link)
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=11


press make me a moderator at the bottom.hpoe this helps


Here are 2 pictures of me i wanted to get caramel streaks do you think it would suit me ?
And can you tell more hair coloured streaks that would look good thanks much! (link)
hey ill answer your question again but you need to post the pics!! you never posted them lol. But you can post them by oging to your question and adding addictional info.


I have a month before school starts, and came up with a little diet plan to lose a few pounds. Is this okay? Any suggestions?

Breakfast-Egg white omlette with peppers and onions, orange juice, coffee.

Walk puppy

Lunch- Slimfast or protein shake (or any suggestions?), piece of fruit

Walk puppy

Do pilates

Dinner- What my parents make, but with more veggies than anything else.

Desert- One scoop of frozen yogurt.




How many pounds will I lose, what should i change, and is this healthy for a vegetarian? (link)
First off congratulations!! this is a good diet for the most part. A couple things though Its going to be hard to eat this EVERYDAY so maybe you can make a diet plan like monday this is what i eat and tuesdays a different diet and so on. For lunch I agree with the person under me that you should have a salad instead. I'm on a diet to and its really hard to only eat fruit espeicially one piece because it doesnt full me atleast...I'm also a vegetarian but you still need protein. So frozen yogurt is good but maybe eat some kind of bean which is extremley healthy!And for the pounds it depends on your body type. I think you should loose about 5 pounds. But personally when I loose weight since my legs are skinny but my stomache has baby fat still I loose it all in my stomache so it might be that for you to. Which makes 5 pounds ALOT!!


Hey Dudes and Dudettes ,

I was wondering what can you do to get your body in shape I mean if your skinny and all but you want the major curves. What can you do to get major curves?

Thanks ,
Betty. (link)
uhm the below answer is true but doesnt answer your question. FOr curves I say you do crunches but instead of goign straight up go diagnol. Eat healthy. And also below is wrong,people dont eat more if they want curves you eat healthier.Also You can run . If you run a mile a day for a month and eat healthy and do crunches you will hav GREAT curves.!!!!(if thats your body type!)


OK, everytime I think someone else is prettier than I am, my bfflad, Bethanie, always says the ones I say have no boobs. What and the heck is so important about big boobs!!?!?!?!?!?!? I mean i dont mind having a bigger chest than them but wats the point if they do or not. I mean big boobs arent everything are they? (link)
just kinda the same way big d*cks girls think are hott. its sommething guys don't have well they have but they stay the same size. Also when guys are feeling you up its more fun for them when girls have bigger boobs. alright hope i helped!!=] any more questions askk


I am in Grade 12 now and will have to leave for another city in a few months. I'm in a very serious relation with my guy since an year. he's gonna be staying in our hometown after he's done with Grade 12. He doesn't want me to leave but it is very important for me to do so because I am lookin forward to become a fashion designer for which i have to be away for 4 years...I'm in a statew of dilemme because I dont know what to choose : My career or My love...! (link)
Honestly, I think you should go to the city. If you don't i'm almost 100% sure you will regret it. If he really loves you he wants to see you happy and pursue your dreams. Explain to him that you really love him and your career is rocketing right now but you want this to work. You can still write,talk on the phone and e-mail eachother and when you come back you can go back to where you left off.=]I STORNGLLYY suggest to go be a fashion designer there with always be more men(if he doesnt work out) but this is a once and a lifetime oppurtunity!! best wishess.


15/f
Right before I go to bed I go to the restroom. Then right as I lay down I feel the urge to go again, but when I go nothing happens. No matter how many times I use the restroom I still fell like I have to go. I've had this problem for as long as I can remember. During the day I don't have this problem, it's only when I'm tired and want to go to bed.
Could I have an over active bladder problem or what? Should I see this doctor about this? It's so annoying and I'm sick of dealing with it. (link)
I recomend going to a doctor. you probally have a bladder infection. That happened to my friend and she went to the bathroom every 5 minutes no joke. also if you drink liquid before going to bed you bladder keeps filling up quickly!! any more questions contact me back!! hope i helped=]




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