Hey everyone. :D I am Cayla. If you want to know anything else about me just ask. Feel free to ask any questions that you have.. XoxOxOXO Cay XoXOXOo
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im confused on something..im a 16 alomost 17 female and i had a dream bout my ex bf(aaron) friend harry and ever since that dream ive kinda liked him but the thing is ive never talked to him before and my friend christin talks to his other friend stef...but i think christin is pullin my chain bout me gettin harrys sn..im so confused...o and is it normal to like someone that u never even talked to before?
~*Tracy*~
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yeah, it's definitley normal to like someone you have never talked to before.. i have. lol, dreams never really make sense.. but if you do like him, maybe you should actually talk to him. just a suggestion and sorry for taking awhile to answer!
XoxXoxo cay xxoXoxoXO
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hi...im 16 yrs old and my ex bf(Aaron) hes 17 we got into a big fight one day about girl thats 15 she was supposed to be a 'friend' she kept trin to get with him so here me and aaron are gettin into it i said somethings that i now regert i have been tring to get ahold of him in all to tell him that i miss him and want him back....but he got his number changed(i think) no one knows where he is everybody i talk to tell me he has a new gf but i dont know...What should i do...should i just wait and see what happens or just try to get ahold of him and tell him how i feel?...please help (link)
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i would wait awhile, then call him. maybe he just doesn't want to be bothered or else he would have given you his number. definitley give him awhile and then try to get ahold of him and let him now how you feel!
is there anyway you could go by his house?
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how come whenever i log in it says i have 1 new in my inbox but then as soon as i click on the inbox it says i have no unanswered questions?? (link)
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it has done that to me before too, i dunno why it does that. =/
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is it normal for girls 2 masturbate becuz its normal for guys?? (link)
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yeah it is. i don't, but girls can do it if guys can lol.
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I have this friend that thinks she sould be invited to everything.She thinks that I can only hang out with her. Everytime she calls to see if I wanna hang out with her, I just cant say no.She flips out when I say no and gos running to her mom, and she comes back saying that I have to hang out with her because her mom says I have to. I really dont wanna hang out with her because she is acts like she is the boss of everything,and we have to do what ever she wants to do. What should I tell her when she calls to hang out and I dont want to?? Please answer!
Thanks...
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i think you should tell her exactly what you think, that she bosses you around and that isn't what FRIENDS do. tell her that if you want to hang out then it is my decision wether or not i want to, not yours. you have a voice, use it! xo Cay :D
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hey i am wondering about like abercrombie and the expencive stores like that...why do they have to cost soo much all the cute stuff costs way too much. how can i get the money? (link)
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you could get a job, only way i can think of. or you could do chores around the house for your parents or w/e and maybe they would give you an allowance. they have other stores that have cute clothes, but it doesn't cost half as much as abercrombie. hope i helped you out! Xo Cay
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ok can sum1 please help me get a pic of me on my column? just go to my picturetrail in my column! KoTaKiTtAy44
thanks!! (link)
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if you want a pic of you on your colum get an account on www.photobucket.com and copy the URL after you have the pic into your account! if you need anymore help with it>. ASK! Xo Cayla
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alright well a lot of people say that they take pics from there disposible camera... well how do they git them on there computer? just wondern (link)
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now they have disposable cameras where you can get a CD thing that you load onto your computer when you get the pictures developed. scanners too.
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Okay well heres the thing...I have a crush on this boy..and one night before i realized i had a crush on him me him my friend sabrina and michael were all hangin out in my house partyin...well he was reall drunk and he would like touch my ass as he was walkin by or lay on me and hold my hand and juss different stuff and at the end of the night we were sittin there n everybody was outside and he went to kiss me and i moved away because i knew he was drunk and i didnt want him to do it because i was scared he was juss doin it cuz he was drunk well the next day we acted like completely different like we didnt talk at all and we didnt bring it up and we still havent and his cousin said that that night he came home and he was tellin him all about me and that he likes me alot but im not sure whether to beleive him or not and i dont kno whether to try to get with him and ask him out because what if he was juss drunk and thats y he was doin it and if he says no it will make things awkward between us ya kno?? what should i do im real confused ??? (link)
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alot of guys, even girls act like that after they have drank alot. if he was acting totally different the next day then i would say don't try to "get with him" because he was probably just acting that way because of the alcohol. i would talk to him and ask him if he liked anyone to see if he ACTUALLY likes you. but from what you said about him acting completely different then i doubt he does. GOOD LUck! Xo Cay
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okay well i loose my virginity just 2 weeks ago with a guy i didnt go with an then tonite i did it with another guy i didnt go with .. is that considered a slut?
also i heard sex makes your hair shiney ? (link)
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considering you a slut would be wrong for me to judge because i don't know you. BUT that's definitley something NOT to be proud of and you should be smarter and safer about sex. it's not a joke at all. sex makes your hair shiny? LOL, never heard of that before.. so i don't know?
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Does anyone know what the solute thing is all about?? why do ppl do them?? i dont get it (link)
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salutes usually prove if someone is REAL or not. they take a picture of them and a sign that has a username that they use or their name. ppl do them to prove they are real or do them for other ppl. =D Xo cAy
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I feel so weird, tryna talk to someone i dont even know, but it's come down to it. I firgured it was wortha shot to ask. Okay mean this guy have been dating and everything has been sooo great but fact is we just all the sudden started arguin abou tthe littlest stuff i mean we have never argued before and now all the sudden we are. Im scared i love him alot but what does this mean? ..
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it means that you're getting, well i guess you could say you're getting closer and you're probably around each other alot. maybe you two should not always be around each other. ALL couples argue, if they didn't it would be pretty strange.. two different ppl have different opinions. hope you two work it out! much love
xoCay
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I feel really alone and wish i could find Mr Right,my mom says if i have one good boyfriend then Im good, But how will I know where Mr Right is
(Im 15/Female)
PLz If u know whats best answer this Question
Jenipher HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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well, you're pretty young right now.. so don't worry about it! he'll come around eventually, you have awhile to break a bunch of guys hearts..lol. live life the way you want and let mr. right find you! hope i helped. Xo Cay
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hey, i'm kristen! i'm 13 years old and we live in a good town where nothing bad like eva happens. when my mom isn't home she doesn't let me go ride my bike around the good part of my town, or let any of my friends come over when she's not home. my mom never used to work in the summer but this summer she does. so far this summer all i did was go online and play my softball. my brother gets to go to all of his friends houses on our side of the block, but i'm not. he's 11!!! how can i get my parents to be less strict? (link)
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make sure your parents trust you because that may be why they won't let you do any of those things. let them know what you are going to be doing that day and who you're with, just so they know what's going on and can trust you. hope it works! Xo Cay
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I HAVE A REALLY BAD HABIT ;; I SUCK MY THUMB I HAVE ALL MY LIFE AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO TO HELP ME STOP IVE TRIED EVERYTHING NUTHYN SEEMS TO WORK ;; MUCH LOVE KATIE (link)
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my brother used to do that, he eventually grew out of it. you probably will to depending on what your age is, if you're young then don't worry about it... you'll grow out of it. if you're older i would suggest trying to figure out a way that would work for ya. Xo
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This is a very personal question and i feel weird to ask this but do yalls shave your pubic hairs? Cause some guys don't like it and i was wondering if it was ok if i mowed my lawn? Please Help if you can sorry if my question bothers you :/ (link)
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i do, but if you don't feel comfortable with doing then i suggest waiting until you feel comfortable with it. the question is normal.. compared to some of the questions. lol.. XoxCay
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I am a 13 year old girl, and my friend invited me to a party. She just said it was a plain old party, so I went. Some people that I'd seen before, but didn't know exactly were there, just playing like you're supposed to at a party. My friend, and a few other people that I knew, were all making out in another room. I left immediatly.
Now my friend is having another party. I don't know what to expect. I asked who she was inviting, and she told me, and I know everyone who she invited. She told me that, again, it would be a fun, plain old regular party. Can I trust her on this, or should I just not risk the chance of being stuck at a make-out party again? (link)
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i think you should go for it and if it ends up being that way where you aren't comfortable at the party then LEAVE! after the second time, if it ends up being the same way then let her know that you aren't into that kind of thing. Xo Cay
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ok i went out with this guy lets say his name is bob...so bob and i were really good friends (and we both have the same friends) but when he asked me out i said yea so then the next day my friend lets say bobby is just rushing our relationship like in the morning he told him to put his arm around me (i was ok with that) then at lunch he wanted me to hold his hand (FYI: My hands are really dry so i said no)then he told me to tell bob that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with him!! ( i didnt tell him that) so then the next day i broke up with bob. even though i still like him!! so he broke up with his gf and i dont knko if i should go back out with him. should i?!?! thanx!! (link)
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since you still like him, i would say go back out with him. let him know that you don't want to rush things between you two, take it slow since you were friends at first. also, let your friend "bobby" know that you don't want him to be involved with your relationship! if ya need anymore help w/it..ask! XoXo Cay XoXo
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I have a bunch of friends who miraculously happen to be boys. Seriously, a lot. None of them consider me their girlfriend, and I don't consider any of them my boyfriends. We're all just plain old friends.
I also have a lot of girls who are my just plain old friends. They are consistantly telling me that one of them HAS to be my boyfriend, and that it's just not right to have a bunch of guys for friends at the late age of 14 (sarcasim). I mean, sure I love them all like friends, but I don't consider any of them my boyfriends. Is this wrong??? (link)
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if you don't want to be more than just friends with them then NOTHING at all is wrong with this! lol, i have ALOT more guy friends than i do girls, i don't know why.. but i do! i definitley don't consider them "b/f's" either.
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ok well my friend called my one of my guy friends and told him all this stuff that was not true so now he is going to think of me differently. Wat should i do?!? thanx 4 all the help!! (link)
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if it's stuff you don't want him to think is true then call him yourself or tell him in person that your friend did that. make sure you tell him that you aren't like that or you don't do those kinds of things! just tell him the truth and he should believe you, if he is a friend. if you need anymore help with it let me know! XoXO cay XoxO
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