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Q: if anyone gets what i'm saying please give links to some cool photos of victorian goth styles and things for a bedroom and all that jazz! any pics of any kind would be greatly appreciated!!
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wow.. i really like that idea for a bedroom... anyway!
you can google it, theres tons on google about it.. but here's a sepcific website:
http://mariesmanordecorating.com/gothic/medieval-gothic-style-bedroom-decor.html
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Q: ive been with the same guy for 3 years. im 16, almost 17. weve been incepreibal for years and nothing could keep us away from eachother. weve broken up a few times, and evertime we always come crawling back to eachother. but last week, he told me he doesnt feel the same anymore and wants to be friends until he finds out what he wants. this is becasue weve been fighting like crazy, and things arent the same anymore. i love him so much its unreal, and i told him today im ready to be with him, and he said he doesnt want a girlfriend right now and wants to be single. i dont know what to do like i just feel like dying. ive always been a true believer of love, but this is killing me inside. we have the type of relationship where if i go somewhere he gets jealous and vice versa. i guess it came to the point that he cant take it anymore. i really cany stop crying. can anyone relate? i just need advice on anything. i would give the world for him. he said he loves me more than anything in the world. i know he does but hes i guess "doing this for himself" i need comfort, advice, anything. ive been through this so many times but i feel like this is the last draw. ive been thinking about the quote "follow love and it will flee, flee love and it will follow". im a strong believeer in that, but i just dont know if i should move on or not. im sorry if this is long by the way. he said hed let me know if he wants to be with me again. but i dont want to sit here and wait for him. idk. please help me like any advice is fine..
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WOW. This EXACT scenario happened to me. That's crazy! It happened towards the beginning of may. I was just like you- crying hysterically, wondering "what if", and trying to change. The truth is, there isn't an answer to whether or not he's coming back. In my case, he did ask me back out. However, in the month that it took him to "have time to himself" I realized a lot. I realized that I too did not like the relationship that we had anymore, and that it was pointless constantly getting jealous. (Although I did have reason to be..not getting into that though) I told him to wait a few weeks, that I'd think more about it. At this point, right now, I'm really not even sure if i want to be with him anymore.
If he really does love you, he'll find his way back. My boyfriend was exactly like that ... he said he still loved and cared for me, he just needed time because he was sick of what was going on. If you two want to be together, try changing some things that go on in your relationship. He and I have been working on it, and it seems like things will be ok. If you have any questions about how I got through, or anything at all... feel free to ask.
Oh, and For me, it did feel like it was the last straw too.. It was the first time he'd ever broken up with me, which is why i felt that way.. but it wasn't. So hopefully it isn't for you either.
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Q:
Weird question - but I was just wondering for those who watch the show One Tree Hill ... during the 5th season, second disc, second episode...not too long into it when the basketball team is on the bus and Lucas starts listening to a song, he puts on the headphones and it starts playing . . I was wondering if anyone knows what that's called.
It's been bothering me.
THANKS!
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i believe its:
“Heartbeats” by Jose Gonzales
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Q: "there is a theory in psychology that indicates that the traits you hate in other people are often the same traits that you exhibit and are not particularly proud of"
^what is that theory in psychology and can anyone expand on why the above is true?
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection
is this what u mean? projection?
I cant explain it, but theres wikipedia and im sure u can look up more. [=
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Q: HEY GIRLS!
um, i loooove style. i looove being stylish. but i havent been reading my style magazines for quite a while, and im wondering what are the back to school styles i can wear when i GO BACK TO SCHOOL. hahha =]
anything would help.
1 makeup looks.
2 pictures of outfits.
3 desciptions.
i really neeed help lol!
thanks!
p.s. DO YOU THINK WHEN GIRLS WEAR THEIR SHADES AT SCHOOL, people are thinking that their "conceited"? just wondering... thanks again!!
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1) Makeup:
you can try tons of things with eyeliner or eye shadow, it all depends how much or how little you want. If you need help on how to put it on or some new styles just go to Youtube and type in Makeup How To and Something is always bound to come up. PurseBuzz on youtube has a lot of makeup tricks, also.
2) Outfits:
Hollister, Aeropostle, and American Eagle and Pacsun haven't gone out of style. I'm sure you can find some things you like on their websites. However, if you're looking for something cheap, H&M, Dots, Forever 21, Rave, and Debs has really cute clothes for cheap:
http://www.forever21.com/category.asp?catalog_name=FOREVER21&category_name=fashion_casual&Page=1
Also, LOTS of things that are in style are plaid shirts, and striped shirts.
Hope I helped!
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Q: I've been thinking about getting a straightener recently, but I'm not going to be using it every day so I don't want to get something really expensive. Do you know any cheap straighteners ($20-30) that work well? I want a Chi but those are just way too expensive unless I'm going to use it every day. Also, is it easy to burn yourself when straightening? Because I've only straightened my hair twice and my friend did it for me. And I burn myself a lot when I use a curler, but I noticed that the plates in straighteners are kind of centered so it doesn't really touch, but just in case, is it easy to burn yourself?
I'm Asian so my hair is kind of soft [I don't know how to explain it really. For some reason, Oriental people's hair is kind of different] and fine, but not like, super thin.
Thanks!
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I have one of these:
http://www.amazon.com/Remington-Straight-Wide-Plate-Straightening/dp/B00067YSLO
It works amazingly, and it's designed to not damage your hair as much as blow drying your hair then straightening it would. Also, after I used it I had practically no frizz in my hair. It really is a great product to get for cheap!
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Q: what is a good routine to 'tone-up' my abs? i'm willing to exercise everyday.
and i know sit-ups help, but what other exercises can i do to tone up?
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To tone up your abs, you have to do a combination of work outs rather than just sit up type of work outs. Cardio is very important, so jog or walk a lot! It breaks down fat tissue and it helps to let your muscles under your fat on your stomach show.
Here's a really good website.
http://www. ezone. ie/content/view/86/43/
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Q: i thought i had a ton of stomach hairs, and well i kind of do, but i recently noticed that they dont look noticeable really unless im out in the sunlight, so my stomach doesnt bother me unless i am outside. so...since its not that bad i think i should just shave every once in awhile based on other peoples advice. ive heard so many different things......does shaving your stomach make hairs grow back any thicker than before or not? please only answer if you know for sure!! thanks!
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http://www.newsweek.com/id/78014
that's very helpful.
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Q: 16-f
i need new shoes.
ialways seem to pick not so great shoes so im looking for cute shoe ideas from you guys.
many suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
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http://www.forever21.com/category.asp?catalog_name=FOREVER21&category_name=shoes&Page=1
Forever 21 has GREAT shoes for cheap. (not all are heels, dont worry.)
Also, the Reebok for girls are amazing and last a long time.
I have Nike, too and they've lasted about a year and they're still in really good condition. Just find a cute Nike shoe.
Some DC's are also really cute if that's your style, or not, you could wear them.
And the flip flops, they are so versatile, and it's great. But, the imprint your foot makes on some flip flops sometimes is really unnattractive. So find a good flip flop that is going to last a long time!
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Q: Alright so I'm in that angry at love phase right now. Ya know the one where like you were kinda in a relationship and then it ended with each other saying go to hell, basically. Just angry at somebody you loved, ya anyway... what some good songs that go along with that feeling. I like pretty much everything but really heavy metal.
So far I've got:
I Hate Everything About You- 3 Days Grace
Kerosene- Miranda Lambert
Gun Powder & Lead- Miranda Lambert
not much, can ya help me out?
thanks mucho appreciation!
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say goodbye- skillet (gooodd!)
Last Train Home- Lostprophets
What hurts the most- Rascal Flatts
forsaken- skillet
sadly smiling through- one less reason
wasting my time- default
favorite color- one less reason
better days- one less reason
All that I know- one less reason
all that's best in you -one less reason
over you- daughtry
How's it gonna be- Third Eye Blind
It's not over- secondhand serenade
It ends tonight- all american rejects
Damaged- Danity Kane
Goin Crazy- Natalie
Lie to me - 12 stones
Broken- 12 stones
The way I feel- 12 stones
It was you- 12 stones
I hope those helped. If you want anymore random songs or anything, just get @ me on advicenators. Thanks
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Q: Is there a website/search engine of sorts out there, that lists cover songs by artist or title?
I love listening to different versions of songs, and would like an easier way to find them.
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http://www.secondhandsongs.com/home/
Oh, and I also love listening to songs that some people sing on youtube. Some are pretty good, too.
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Q: i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now... my mom doesnt like him. why? because a couple months ago, he got jelous and i didnt know he'd seen me walking with a FRIEND and he didnt know, my mom caught him outside and while she was talking to both me and him, he walked out. disrespectful yes...but he wants to apologize but she doesnt want ANYTHING to do with him... i love him.. yes... me and him have been through alot of things... and i understand my mom feels disrespected... but i cant keep letting her control me.. i want to learn on my own.. and i want to live a normal free teen life... of course with precautions.. i left him when my mom told me to, but it felt wrong and now im happier than ever but my mom hates me for being with him and INSISTS i should leave him and that she means shit to me since im going out with him. what should i do? ive tried talking to her calmly but she has listening problems she hates to listen...
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since she wont listen to you when you're trying to tell her something important to you, make her listen. No, i dont mean by force. When you talk, she can interrupt.. give her no means to interrupt. You could do this by writing a letter or email to her telling her that what she's doing is wrong. Some good points to make are:
-you want to learn about life your way. Although she may be trying to protect you from it, IT'S LIFE and everyone goes through it.
-you care about him a lot and your relationship a lot and are willing to be adult about this and accept some restrictions (and offer to work together with her to come up with some) on you guy's relationship that is suitable for both you and her.
-tell her that although she may think your boyfriend is rude, he really has a sweet side and you wish she could see that, but shes not letting him show her.
-tell her that you've talked to your boyfriend (and do talk to him) about how things will change if she does let you two be together without any interruptions from her...let him know he needs to respect her as a mother of his girlfriend.
Again, these are just some ideas.
A mother is a mother. No doubt about it. She feels threatened by your boyfriend because of his rudeness towards her and YOUR HER DAUGHTER!! she doesnt want your boyfriend to behave like that! it's ok for your mom not to like him but just make sure it doesnt pry you and your boyfriend together. And make your both your mom and boyfriend are making an effort to make the relationship between them better.
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Q: I heard that after having a child you can have your pussy tighteneed. Like surgically. It is this true?
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yes.
http://ezinearticles.com/?Post-Pregnancy-Labiaplasty-or-Vaginoplasty&id=697133
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Q: Ok well I'm studying for my Geometry final and I have this question on my review sheet that says:
The bases of a trapezoid are 12 and 16. How long is the median?
I've looked through my book, went onto the phschool website and watched the videos, went through all my papers, and I can't find how to do it. Can somebody please help me?
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You do:
AB+CD (ab being 12 and CD being 16) divided by two.
12+16= 28
28/2 = 14
if you need anymore help go to:
http://www.mathopenref.com/trapezoidmedian.html
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Q: Ohhkay. Where to start. I'm confused. It really would be great to get some older opinions on this question. My topic is: teenage love. What does everyone think of it? Because all my friends, or a fair few, will have a boyfriend who they keep for a week or a month or two and they'll be from day one, "head over heels in love". Now, I for one think that's ridiculous! They're 15/16 year olds and, in particular examples, they'll have a week or two, maybe a month of I love You after they met about 2 days previously - or online or something, and then it stops. I for one think that love can't be anything more than infatuation, but I think this has become the image of teenage love. Now I started going out with my boyfriend 11 months ago and I knew I didn't love him at the start. It was like a 15 year old crush on both parts. I didn't admit to myself I loved him until about 5 months had passed. And even then I didn't say it verbally. Now, at 11 months I feel like I can talk about it freely with him and we've never been closer; I really can't see the end right now, even though everything inevitably ends. But my parents seem to think that it won't last and I'm being ridiculous, wanting to see him so much. They say it won't last, although compared to my friends, me and my boyfriend are practically an old aged married couple - they say its ridiculous that tennagers can possibly even contemplate the meaning of the word 'love'. They also say that what I have is hardly a commitment or any kind of dedication even though I feel completely commited , which I will admit came with time (about a month or two, even more so now). I just want to know - is this true? Have any of you ever experienced or seen 'teen love' do anything but crash and burn compared to the relationships people have when slightly older? Do you think that for some people, like me, it could last? Or is it, in your opinion also, likely to end and be forgotten about? Do you think there is more of a sense of commitment when you're more mature or an equal amount?
Thankyou! Your feedback is
VERY MUCH appreciated
Faye.
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I do believe in teenage love. I was like you before, and it took a long time for me to say i love you to my boyfriend now (of a year and six months). I dont think that all teenage relationships end. I think that your first love, true love, will remain if it is in fact true love. I think that if you're ready at the time and are committed to a relationship, and if you're willing to do what it takes to make that relationship work, I think that the relationship can survive. My sister and her husband have been together for seven years. She's 22 now. I really do believe in love..all types of love and i don't believe that adults know everything about love (im not saying us teenagers do). I don't think that there's necessarily more commitment when you're older. I think it's about how much you're willing to put into the relationship. It's about your strength, and about how much the relationship means to you.
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Q: My hair is always staticy. It never fails. Everyday I put lotion in it and it stays down for about 5 mins. Then it pops back in to static-mode. I hate it so bad. Is there anything I can do about this besides putting excess lotion and hairspray in my hair?
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Since it's winter outside your hair is very staticy. What you need to do to prevent this is:
1) make sure your hair is moisturized. leave-in conditioner will help a lot in this section. Also, anything that will weigh your hair down (such as the conditioner) OR frizz cream will do.
2) Carry dryer sheets with you. They eliminate the static in your hair.
3) Don't wear hoods..uless you have static guard to put inside the hood to make it less staticy in there, thus, less static for your hair!
and finally,
4) When you go outside wear your hair up.
You can also look up more ways to prevent static.
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Q: I have acne scars, i think.
they are red dots but they aren't bumps like acne is. and they won't go away! and they look like pimples so it's bad :[ i've gone to the dermatologist before but he never said anything about scars. my actual acne has cleared up but those dots are still there? what are some home remedies i could use to make them go away?
here is a pic: don't worry it's not disgusting lol
http://i17.tinypic.com/4qgxzb4.jpg
also right now i use proactiv, neutrogena oil free acne wash,and 2 creams that my dermatologist gave me for my acne. they will help actual pimples... but these red dots won't go away.
helpppp ..i want CLEAR skin!
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I used acne fade and peel from Avon. (its a catalog, look it up.) It works very well. I used to have acne scars that looked like that:
http://img339.imageshack.us/img339/2981/image233bd3.jpg
after about 2 weeks of using the fade & peel for 3 times a day my face looked like this:
http://img212.imageshack.us/img212/7096/51914629ap4.jpg
it worked very well & i suggest you to try it.
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Q: So I only told one person. I told my best friend Beth about how I like my sister's boyfriend's brother, Jesse, and she told someone who told someone who told someone else, blah blah blah... You know how it goes.
Now the entire school knows it. All of junior high, all the freshmen, sophmores, seniors... Everyone. People I have never heard of know it. Even Jesse knows it. I'm so embarrassed, but I'm sorta glad it happened because I know that I never would have found the guts to tell him I like him.
He's a grade ahead of me. He's in 8th grade. I'm only a sevy that no one knows. But I see him all the time.
Anyway, I keep catching him looking at me now, and then he looks away when I look at him. And then once in the hallway switching classes for first period, Beth and I passed him.
I looked down at my feet sort of pretending like I had no idea he was there, but Beth saw him and she told me later that he turned around, saw me, and just froze and stared at me then walked off once we passed.
Then we got to first period, sat down and Beth said "I think he likes you!" Then I said "Yeah, more like he thinks I'm a freak."
Am I just being paranoid or do you think Beth may have been right?
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i think that he may like you. I used to have this happen to me a lot with guys. [now im taken and i dont really look at guys] But, when we would make frequent eye contact like the two of you do it'd turn out that they liked me. But, don't get your hopes up. [=
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Q: ok
for a 14/f
who is 5'5" 150lbs what size pants and shirts would she be.
also 5'5 130lbs?
i'm planning on losing weight i am on a excellent diet plan and have lost 13lbs within the last few weeks.
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5'5 and 130 was exactly my weight and height last month (i've lost 8 pounds) I was a medium in shirts, and a size 5 in pants. BUT, it all depends on your body shape and your boob size (mine are a B) so your shirt size might not be the same. hope i helped.
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Q: I am a 13 year old male. I cant go 1 day without counting the words that people say or what the tv says. It has to go up to groups of 40, four times, then start all over. I also have to do things double that I do daily. I always thought I was the only one in the world that did that, until I watched mtv's true life about ocd, then I discovered I was'nt the only one with that problem. I know that alot of people with ocd clean alot, I sure as hack dont clean, but thats the only thing that is difrent about my problem. I try to tell my mom, she says it's just a habbit, but I know it's not. Is it ocd, and I will have to tell my mom that it is a serious problem and to get help, or is it just a habbit that I suffer from, and will get over it. Sorry for this being so long, and if you know, please help!!
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It seems to me that it could possibly be ocd, however, it could also be just a phase. It sounds more like ocd to me, though.
http://www.mentalhealthchannel.net/ocd/symptoms.shtml
if you go here, it has some sypmtoms and goes in depth on them. I found some that you have on there, so it is more than likely that it could be ocd. good luck!
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Gender: Female Member Since: August 10, 2004 Answers: 112 Last Update: June 28, 2009 Visitors: 7422
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