Q: Hello I'm 4 days late but i've been having really bad cramps like i'm going to start. I'm never usually this late could i still be pregnant?

Q: i was talking to *him and i asked him who he like and he said 2 girls..my friend and someother girl..i wanted 2 cry..then i asked him " what would he say if i asked him out''..he said he dnt know..it depends on how he feel when i ask him..i was like ..ok, then i tld him to ask me out and he said "naw".i wAS LIKE OK..then i was like ttyl..

Q: okay so ive been with a lad on and off for a year and he is sucha nice person and always says and does nice things for me but he also is the biggest flirt ever. and all he does is flirt with other girls all the time. ive been on his facebook and ive seen the mails and i get told about it all the time and he even still flirts with my best friend who is his ex from 3 years ago but when i confront him about it he just gets really mad and tells me to "wise up" and stop being stupid and tells him that "if he does flirt, he doesnt even notice" but i know he is at it and i dunno what to do because my friends have told me im better off without him but i love him although i cant always be watching him anymore, someone help!

Q: thank you very much! I can see your point. But please advice me more... we saw each other recently, and he did made clear to me that the reason why he was not seeing me for a year is that the police was involve and was looking evidence o his wife alligations towards him. He said was wrong timing and he had issues changing jobs etc. BUt why he want to keep me? And switch of his phone when I am with him the reason is that his boss will call him and he is in his lunch break? I dont understand that he wanted to connect with me y email only??? Why??? Does he not trust me???

Q: How can I tell him all what I wanted to say to him. I planned it for long time, that when I see him I'll say good bye! But with my surprise when I am in front of him, I can't say a word :-(. All i know is I love him and all my heart say is that dont let him go? :-((. And one time I did say that I wanted to read between the lines that he wont see me again, he replied saying '' YES'" he will see me again. And my fears now are if I do say tell him to stop seeing me. Yes he will definitely stop, how can I take that now? I've been way to long. and yet at the same time I want to stop with him for the sake of my marriage! I am so comfuse with my feelings right now :-((((

Q: on my point of views yes I am his mistress, but on his side we're friends. But does friends do have sex together for 3-4 years??? I'm in tears reading your advice, in tears because it made me so stupid low self steam. In tears that some people out there who I dont know do care about me more than my lover. Thank you very much!

my heart is my enemies :-(. You see, I didn't even realize what he meant when he told me that, '' my hearts talk, his brain talk, compare'' So do you really think he love his wife and he will never leave her for me nor to anybody else???

Q: I know that I wort more than I am been treated with my lover. I take that words'' cheaters never win'' I know that I have a lovely husband who dies for me. And I understand that there must be missing inside marriage when you cheat. To be honest, I couldn't ask for more with my life now with my husband. It's only started when I met my lover and started to come in my life. You are right that for many years we've been seeing each other I should see some difference or sign that he does show me more. BUt you're right he probably love his wife, because when we have mayor problem he fight for his wife back and left me alone to deal my own problem too. Now that he is back and he told me is getteng better with his wife. He still want to keep intouch with me by mail and by mail only. When I didn't hesitate to give my number. and he can call when he wanted too only. I am questioning you this to get more courage from different people opinion to help me through. I would love to hear more opinion to see whats the answer of my question that never have any answer for many years :-(

Q: i am in love with this girl who doesnt like me because i am a loser with no life.....she gave me the rejection number!

Q: I had a question. I was born a male, and like girls. When I was in my teens I would try on my mom's clothing around the house. For some reason lately, I have been feeling more of the girl stuff. I have manincure, pedicure, waxing, finger nail painting, and always want to look sexy. I keep my arms and legs shaved, and have always wondered what it would be like to be a girl and have a female genitalia. I just like my body to feel soft and smooth. Is this normal or is there something else going on.

Q: I like this guy who lives in another state than I do and I go to boarding school. I don't know what to do!! I miss him!

Q: 13/f
There's this guy I usually text everyday. We've become really good friends through band. He always made it seem like he liked me. Like, he would tell me that I'm cute and that he loves me and he held my hand and cuddled with me on the bus ride. He even said it was okay that everybody thought we were together. He's really sweet to me. Last week, I was really upset, and I ended up telling him a really big secret of mine. He helped me through my problems and even told me his secret so I knew I could trust him. But something seemed to change. He told me that he doesn't think I should like him. These past few days, he's barely acknowledged me. He sat with my best friend on the bus ride (for a long band trip) instead of me, and i caught them holding hands. He has a freaking girlfriend! (which is some random girl that goes to a different school) I'm so confused...I don't know what to do because I started liking him but now he's acting strange. How could I get over him?

Q: i have been with my boyfriend for a year now and its been a rollercoaster. sometimes were really good other times were really bad. well last week was a good week for us spent a lot of time together and really enjoyed our company. before he went to work this weekend he even told me "i feel closer to you than i ever have and i love you more than ever".. well he works the whole weekend i dont see him we hardly even talk. i didnt sweat it because i figured i would see him on monday. well monday came around and he went and hung out with his friends instead which didnt bother me because i knew he hadnt hung out with his friends. but then he starts acting cold towards me. and hes been acting cold towards me all week. last night we got in a fight and he really upset me. it seemed like he didnt even care and was treating me like complete crap. today we talk and he basically just wants to forget what happened and tells me he doesnt really enjoy doing the things he does with his friends with me. we never do anything together , he never takes me on dates, but he always goes out with his boys. its not fair i wish he could be more romantic and enjoy doing things with me. i dont know what to do.. i dont know if i should just break up with him even though i love him so much and things are good at times.. or stick together and find a way to make things work. any advice?

Q: i have got white gooey stuf in my pant but also brown the brown stuff looks like sdomething else but is that dried blood or have i stated periods plzz tell i am 11 plzz help me in this period stuff i confused i am fro india

Q: I am married woman, and have a lover who is also married.we've been seeing each other for 5 years now. my problem is he only see me when he wanted too. and when I do beg for him. He said we keep in touch, but I was always the one who made the first move. I always be the one to asked him when he will come to see me. he never let me know where he lives where he works and what is mobile number is! I wanted to stop my crazyness but my heart cant take it because I know I do love him.

Q: I am 24yrs a boy and my organ cannot get up am tired of life. i want to kill myself,tell me what to eat in order to give up. thanks

Q: How do I show my Girl freind love if I got my D*ck chopped off for the war?

Q: I need advice, this has been going on for a while and my heart seems to be torn between broken and apathetic.

To sum this up really quickly, I met a guy, he stepped into my life, intentions pretty clear, swept me away despite my initial resistance. After about a month of dating him, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I was surprised, I felt very insecure about the whole affair in general, but I accepted. Soon after, my fears began to confirm themselves. He told me that I shouldn't expect too much from him. He said that he wasn't in the stage of his life where he'd be a good boyfriend. I took this as a sign not to allow myself to fall in love with him. And time passed, 6 months passed, we were together, I constantly suspected him, constantly afraid that he'd cheat or he'd leave me, because I thought he doesn't want a relationship. To say the least, I never really allowed myself to enjoy the relationship and thought about ending it many times.
Finally he went back to his home country for a summer vacation. He came back and told me he'd like to break up with me, because "he didn't see a future for our relationship". I tried asking what did he mean by "a future" because I honestly didn't want to break up. I had JUST began to enjoy myself, feeling a bit more secure, and then he wanted out. Before I could feel very hurt he told me that he needs me to stay with him, and that he values me as a person and wants to remain friends with me for the rest of his life. Suddenly, a great weight seemed to be lifted from both our shoulders and from X-couple we became best friends. I finally opened up to him, feeling as if I had nothing left to lose, so I could just be myself completely, and funnily enough he did the same. Our bond only strengthened and we became quite depended on each other, spending most of our time together, never really getting tired of conversations, which seem to flow like they never did when we were together. It's a mutual thing, because he told me that he has never been able to talk to another person the way he talks to me now. He's very closed, quite cold, calculative type of person - I can see that even his old good friends don't really know him, because he hides behind a wall. I am happy to have breached it and I believe I have found a real treasure behing it. So, he told me he's confused. Once or twice when we were drinking together we talked about "us" and he confessed things such as that "he'd marry me if he didn't know any better", "he really likes me, but he can't be with me, because he couldn't just focus on one, and he can't afford to hurt me, because he really cares about me", and also that "we have an understanding and he hopes I would never leave him, to the end". When he's not drunk he goes as far as saying that he "completely adores me" and that "he will take care of me always". He also admitted that he's very sexually attracted to me and we slept together a few random times since we broke up, but I decided that we must stop, unless we'd be getting back together.

I actually thought that it was fine. I was happy having him all to myself in a safe friendship relationship. He does take care of me, he is there for me, I feel safe with him, he truly values me. I didn't mind getting an occasional night with him when I permitted. It was all good, BUT...

He asked me if I was ok with him seeing other people. I said yes.
Maybe a month later he went back to his home country and coming back told me that he has this girl, who he kind of wants to get and that things might go towards a relationship with her.
He was neverous about it. It was obvious that he didn't want to hurt me. So I pretended to be happy for him. I even met the girl and tried being nice to her, not telling her that I'm the X. Someone else told her anyway and she got weird and awkward. He reassured her though, and she left soon, leaving him to me. They got in a long-distance relationship soon after. Now he visits her every 2-3 weeks and he is determined not to cheat on her (after having promised her a thousand times, as he told me). It's obvious he wants to, but he doesn't and I give him credit for that. He still cares for me the same way. We still spend time together but... I realised that I can't take the idea that there is someone else and that I can't share him.

I tried to get over the whole thing. He did say he's very confused still. He said I understand him, she doesn't. But what I began to think is that she has a BIG advantage and here it is - the thing is, I come from a country that is much poorer than the one he comes from, also he is a much higher class then me. She is the same as him - rich. I have NO WAY of competing with the type of money her parents give her, and the type of activities she can engage with him. He did say he kind of wants to take over some companies that her dad has... He is calculative and cold enough to put this as a priority. Unfortunately, I later pieced together that when he went back home the first time, he was visiting her at her villa for a few days. Then things came together. He had been there. Our relationship was kind of cold (in my opinion - not his, he never felt there was something wrong) at the time. So he decided he had no future with me, broke up, went back there and got her.


I think that's the way it is. I want to do something... But I can't bring myself to blow my cover now. I've been wondering if I should go and tell him that NOW I know that I love him. I don't want to blow the friendship. I can't tell if it would make any difference. I am afraid of going there and saying that he has to chose between her and me. I don't know how to put it anyway. I just want him to be with me, and I wonder if I can convince him that what we have is love, because I dont' think he believes in love.

That's about it. Any advice? Should I tell him? Should I forget about it?

Q: hi, could anyone explain me that how would women miscarriage? is it because of a smoking or drinking heavily? and also she had a baby girl after miscarriage twice. i heard that after miscarriage it's very hard to get a pregnant. does it depends on age as well? thanks.

Q: Well im 15 f andim a sophmore. I just got my plan(act) results back and i got a 16 which is like kinda below average! Ok and my family is really smart everyone my sisters and my mom but me i didnt get the smart gene. People in my school got at least 19 or higher. I feel stupid and im not pretty so im not smart enpugh for my family/ what i want to be when im older. I want to be a dentist or dental hygentist. Also my friends are super smart. Im crying i have to show my dad in a couple minutes. Its not fair! Im not a bad person and yet i get terrible qualities. I told my sister and she was like are you serious that goes on your transcript for colleges. But the plan test is just a practrice!!well my point is i feel like i shouldnt be here like i dont belong i kinda want to just die and not just bc im not that smart. No im not gonna kill myself but im not happy i havent been happy for a long time!

Q: Hi I'm 12.
My little sis is on the way. And i said to my mom:maybe this baby will be a tomboy. And she wanted to slap me. Stuff like this happen all the time. I did not mean any thing by "tomboy". is just that I'm in to superman batman stuff like that and I want to talk about stuff like that with her. My mom said she had not forgot about some spankin. I'm trying to remember what for. need help. can't last all the way till I'm 18.

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