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my lover and I are both married... but not to each other
I am married woman, and have a lover who is also married.we've been seeing each other for 5 years now. my problem is he only see me when he wanted too. and when I do beg for him. He said we keep in touch, but I was always the one who made the first move. I always be the one to asked him when he will come to see me. he never let me know where he lives where he works and what is mobile number is! I wanted to stop my crazyness but my heart cant take it because I know I do love him.
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You should stop seeing him, This guy isn't putting in any effort to even make a relationship with you work and on top of the fact you two are both married. This man didn't give you his information for a reason, That reason is he is not willing to mix you with his personal life. The user below me is right one one thing cheaters never win. People cheat for various reason but there is something that is lacking in your marriage or you wouldn't be trying to see someone else. If you aren't happy being married then I would recommend marriage counseling or worst case scenario filing for divorce but cheating is not the answer to your problems.
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CHEATERS NEVER WIN! I know you didn't want to hear that but it needs to be said. Do you know why people cheat? Its because they find things in another person that they love or even like. OH...I LOVE HER HAIR, OH....I LOVE HER LEGS.....OH I LOVE HER LAUGH......OH I LOVE HER SMILE......OH I LOVE HER BODY! We have to find that when you LOVE you have to love all the things about the person your with and if not.....you must be strong enough to LET THEM GO! If the person you are seeing for 5 years doesn't have the respect for you to leave his wife then guess what.....you are wasting your time. And if you have been in a relationship with HIM and your HUSBAND for 5 years then you don't respect HIM either. You have to STOP playing games and decide how you want the rest of your story to continue. YOU know you better then anyone else. Aren't you worth so much more. I think you can answer that question all by yourself!
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