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with my lover


Question Posted Thursday November 10 2011, 2:13 pm

on my point of views yes I am his mistress, but on his side we're friends. But does friends do have sex together for 3-4 years??? I'm in tears reading your advice, in tears because it made me so stupid low self steam. In tears that some people out there who I dont know do care about me more than my lover. Thank you very much!

my heart is my enemies :-(. You see, I didn't even realize what he meant when he told me that, '' my hearts talk, his brain talk, compare'' So do you really think he love his wife and he will never leave her for me nor to anybody else???


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hegibson answered Thursday November 10 2011, 2:23 pm:
Guess who is more important? YOU ARE! Remember when we were young and we could go out with a guy and like another guy and then fall in and out of love like nothing. Well, sometimes as adults we look for so many things in other people that we forget about ourselves. YOU are more important in this relationship then he is. You have to look at this as a lesson, not a problem. The lesson is that everyone doesn't get to the same point at the same time. WE have all been there. But, the thing about is you still can correct things. You really can. Don't stop having feelings about him just take a few steps back a little at a time. Then the seconds of missing him will turn into minutes, then hours, then days, then months, then years. And then they will be gone. You will still have your life and still have your smile. Don't think your alone in this, your not. He has to bare his part in this too. But take it slow and then you will see that YOU are truly the most important person out of it all. CHIN UP! This is DAY ONE!

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