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Transgender feelings?
I had a question. I was born a male, and like girls. When I was in my teens I would try on my mom's clothing around the house. For some reason lately, I have been feeling more of the girl stuff. I have manincure, pedicure, waxing, finger nail painting, and always want to look sexy. I keep my arms and legs shaved, and have always wondered what it would be like to be a girl and have a female genitalia. I just like my body to feel soft and smooth. Is this normal or is there something else going on.
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When it comes to sexuality I try not to subscribe to the theories of normal or abnormal. If it is right for you then it is normal.
Since you are questioning this then I would suggest you might have transgender issues. This could be something that may be a real sexual identification issue for you. To find out requires working with a sex therapist. Are you a women in a mans body or are you more of a cross dresser. Working with a psychologist specializing in sexual make up will answer that question.
I think you need to find this out if for no other reason than your own peace of mind. Most psychologists are Board Certified by a State Board. You can call the State Board to get a list of psychologists in your area who may specialize in sex counseling and gender identification. Once you have a list call and talk with them until you find one you are comfortable enough to meet with and talk openly with. It is important that you be comfortable with the therapist and can be totally open with him or her.
I believe by asking the question you have asked you may be questioning your sexual identity; which would to me include transgenderism. I believe talking with a therapist will give you better answers than we can.
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ITS ABOUT WHAT YOU LIKE! This sounds like you're a METROSEXUAL. This is usually heterosexual male given to enhancing his personal appearance by fastidious grooming, beauty treatments, and fashionable clothes.
So.....you have a little twist to yours. But it harmless. Being curious about female body parts is normal and its just that curiosity. Never be afraid to set your own TRENDS, walk to your own BEAT! You have to love who you are! And it sounds like you do!
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