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Member Since: November 3, 2011
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Last Update: November 3, 2011
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Im 13 and i have been dating this guy for 3 months now and he says that he wants to have sex. I told him that i do want to but i am just scared that it will hurt or i wont be any good. He said that he will never try to hurt me but it wll hurt for my first time. He said that he will wear a condom and not try to go too fast or hard. But condoms dont always work and so the thing that i want to know is that should i have sex with him? And what if the condom breaks i really do not need baby at 13 i already get picked on enough right now! I just dont want it to break and i feel like if i dont have sex with him he will leave me and i DO NOT want him to leave me!
What do you think I should do? I hope you can help me out as much as possible! thnx i appreciate it (link)
Don't do it. You will regret it. Believe me.
Please talk to your parents & tell them he is pressuring you.
You don't need to have sex now, if he is forcing you then he only wants one thing.
Please dump the guy, tell your parents & they'll talk to his.
You are too young to be saying you are scared he'll leave you. You are still a child. Enjoy it.
Please don't do it.


I had oral sex twice, and before you say anything hear me out. I was 16 years old and very naive. During that time I was going through an emotional and mental roller coaster from abuse to suicide. I'll admit at the point in my life I wasn't 100% there. Even when I did oral sex it wasn't sexual for me, i panic and reacted to the situation. I was always panic when I'm around guys because i was abuse sexually. Anyway, I feel in my heart that I am a virgin because what I did honestly wasn't sexual at all. Am I still a virgin? (link)
Hi hun,

You are so lucky. Yes you are still a virgin.
I got fingered by someone & he told me I'd still be one but I don't believe him.
Just don't let anything go in your vagina. Eg: penis, fingers, vibrators. I think that any penetration in the vagina is sex because its going in the place where you have sex.
If you didn't do any of those things, then you are fine :)




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