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my lover and I
I know that I wort more than I am been treated with my lover. I take that words'' cheaters never win'' I know that I have a lovely husband who dies for me. And I understand that there must be missing inside marriage when you cheat. To be honest, I couldn't ask for more with my life now with my husband. It's only started when I met my lover and started to come in my life. You are right that for many years we've been seeing each other I should see some difference or sign that he does show me more. BUt you're right he probably love his wife, because when we have mayor problem he fight for his wife back and left me alone to deal my own problem too. Now that he is back and he told me is getteng better with his wife. He still want to keep intouch with me by mail and by mail only. When I didn't hesitate to give my number. and he can call when he wanted too only. I am questioning you this to get more courage from different people opinion to help me through. I would love to hear more opinion to see whats the answer of my question that never have any answer for many years :-(
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If you love your husband then put everything your feeling into him. Take time to go away and spend time with him so that you can see that he's worth so much more. I remember when I was bored in a relationship I would start to look outside of my relationship and it made things so difficult for me. I was always the type of person that no one could keep my attention. Then I met my husband and we clicked. ALL the others I dated prior to him were just BOYFRIENDS and I never gave them my heart. But my husband was the one. He was one that let me be myself all the time and guess what? I have never been happier. I was always trying to adjust me for other people and that's why I would always look outside for that needed attention.
IF YOU LOVE HIM THEN MAKE IT A WE AGAIN! You seem like you really love him but you became bored. Get that spark back in your marriage so that you can get to the next part of your story. You control things now. The other man wants to complicate things. "ONLY CONTACT ME BY MAIL." That's a line you say to a mistress. Are you his mistress? Don't you think you deserve more then that? Change your number and write him a note and tell him that life just gave you a second chance and your taking the chance with your husband. Tell him to let you go and let you live. Now.....its up to you. You know you better then anyone else and you deserve the best! THE VERY BEST!
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