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hey guys my name is alex im 16 years old and i live in texas and im in 11th grade!! when life gives u trouble wether it love life problems or anything else feel free to ask me im here to answer !! thanks for your questions !!
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Location: texas
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Age: 16
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heyy ok when i shave u no down there i get these little red bumps and i start to bleed from the bumps what should i do...i tried shaving the same way as the hair grows but that doesnt work and im NOT waxingg (link)
i get the same thing its fine its just the hair grwoing maybe u should try waking painful but idk sry


I am a kinda...traditional gurl. i would prefer the guy ask me out. i want this guy that i like to finally realize that what he has been looking for is right in front of him. but i dont want to just come out and tell him that i like him... what should i do (link)
have one of ur friends tell him you like him or ask him who he likes sumthing like that


I have this friend. She has been my friend all of my life literally but lately we've been drawing apart. :( what do i do to get this relationship back togeter? (link)
i have the EXACT same problme right now. me and my best friend have been friends since first grade and now she became 8th grade cheerleader n i didnt make it and like she hangs out with all them now and she acts lieke a biotch and thinks she bette than me and like when they arnt around shes cool and were best frineds again but lately she jsut seems like im getting annoyign and she dont wanna hang out with me anymore were drifing apart and i wish we werent she has been here wiht me thorugh everything. sooo i dont really know wat to say bc im in the smae situation and sooo i guess just tell her how you feel and if she responds in a bad way then give her time off from you and see how things go. naybe it will be for the best. (maybe i should take my own advice) well i hope i helped a little good luck .


there's this guy that i think i really like, and i think he likes me too, but i also think that i think he likes me because i like him!!! what am i to do??
sometimes he just stares at me, and he helps me a lot (more than he helps others)... oh and there's another great problem... he's 8 years older than me!! what am i to do? what am i to think?? help me!! (age 16) (link)
well.. ok hes 24 and your 16. that kinda a big age diffrence seeing your still in high school and hes long outa high school and in college (if he goes to college)and so thats kinda a big age diffrence. and would your parents allow you to date him? i mean i have gone through this problem befor like when i was in 8th grade that was this reallllly hott 10th grader and he asked me out and like of course i said yes and then my parents wouldnt let me see him so i kinda snuck around w him. and to find out he wasnt as great as i thought he was. i had known him for about a year and he was in 10th grade and thinking about stuff that i didnt wanna do. so it turned out me breaking up w him. and al this other stuff. i mean im not trying to discourage you or nethign im just saying. so im sorry i cant really help you out that much. im sorry but i hope i helped some. good luck ! p.s if he likes you and you like him thrn i mean follow your heart. good luck.


Ok, I have this guy I really, really like. I mean... I think I love him and he always tells me he loves me, but we have a delima. Well I have a delima. We talk online alot, but then when we get to school he's just like fine dont talk to me and Im standing right there to talk to him. Well my question is, is this his form of flirting or does he not like me at all. I really need some help. I will rate high for appropriate answers. (link)
i think its a way of flirting i use to have that delima but now i can actually talk to him but like just go up to him and start talkin and it will turn out great! but it is a way of flirting because i used to flirt like that. so hope i helped sry so short but hope i helped. good luck


Have you noticed if a girl has sex they are called a slut and when a guy has sex they get more popular. I dont understand it please someone explain it to me or give your opinion on it!!
i rate high! (link)
in my oppinion guys are like yes ! you did it! but when it comes to girls they are like i cant belie she did that how gross. i dont know what it is that makes it like that but i get called a slut because i go out w alota guys and like all the guys i go out with go out with a bunch of girls and they dont get made fun of or called anything so i guess its just a way of life . and i dont see y other people should get in the business of any one else any wyas . so sry i couldnt answer ur question but hope i helped.


Alright heres the story ... I had to break up with the man I love becuase he cheated on me ... I still really want to be with him though but i'm staying away form that for now. We talk online all the time and on the phone, he says hes really sorry he had to loose me to a girl he doesnt even like. Well I recently asked my mom if he could come and visit me over the summer for two weeks and she said maybe, yes its an internet relationship but dont think about that cuase I know hes not a creep trust me I'm so paranoid about that stuff well anyways what I wanna know is should I have him come up here? We both really want to see each other and I know we will be making out the whole time and i know he still loves me he didnt even ask the girl out she asked him.

I'm almost 16 and he will be 16 in a few days. (link)
i think you should see each other because i know how it feels because i cheated on my bf (only kissed another guy) and i still love him alot and wish i could get back with him but he wont take me bak so take him bak yall are in love and if you really love him you will take him back because i lost the love of my life and there hasnt been a truly happy day without him. and maybe it's 4 the best to take a second chance. evry one deserves a second chance right? well i never got my second chance so pls give him his second chance. well hope i helped good luck.


ok um i dunno but i like this guy and i talk to him like "alot" and he usually flirts with me he has a girlfriend but she is really sweet and still thinks that i should go for him. i really wann tell him that i like him. when he flirts with me again, should i tell him? and how do i say it? thanx i will rate u
~shy girl (link)
well ya if ur shy about it then you dont have to say it yourself just have a friend of yours tell him but definatly make sure he finds out that you like him. Better to let him know than hide it from him . you never know he could like you back even though he has a gf thats ok cause even she said you should go for him so i say go for it ! well hope i helped a lil good luck !


i am thinking about gettting my hair done its about where my belly button is any hairstyles that are cute i could do? (link)
definatly up to your shoulders not above but level with yuor shoulders i love that hairstyle !! good luck anything will look great !!


theres this kid and he told me he wants to have sex with me. this is so gross to me! i cant stop thinking about it. i heard over and over in my head"i wanna have sex with you" its so gross i dont even like his the least bit! theres no way i can get this outta my head! please help! (link)
Well, I'm sorry it bugs you, that happens to me sometimes, but I think you just have to keep waiting until it leaves, sometimes when I get a song stuck in my head, I have to listen to it again and that makes it leave. So maybe you should try to keep seeing that kid, not like have sex with him, but just be rude to him like he was to you. Or joke around with him, but not all minds wok the same so maybe ignoring the thought, which is hard, and it MIGHT go away. Or you can repeat the phrase all silly like goofy, or donald duck or funny sounds until you can't rememeber how it was originally said. I hope that helped, lol. and I hope it goes away.


Hey, you know that new movie coming out, Hide and Seek? Well, I think it looks awesome!! During the day I'm all psyched and excited to see it, but at night I dont wanna see it anymore. This happens with all horror movies. Help? Should I see it?

Signed,
Psyched and Scared (link)
yes i think you should its just a movie nothin can happen like that !! just watch it !! theres no harm in watchin it !! good luck !!


theres this guy who likes me (bryan) but doesn't really know me (he thinks i'm hott) and one of my guy friends (justin) who is also friends with the guy who likes me. Justin always tells bryan that i like him too and i wanna know if he can hang out on the weekend and i neevr say that stuff! justin makes it up to 'move along me and bryans relationship' but all it does is make me look desperate and bryan thinks i like him! i kinda do, but i hardly know him! justin gave my bryans number becuz when justin was telling him how i wanna hang out w.him, bryan told him to tell me to give him a call..is it dumb to call bryan up and tell him that i don't kno what justin has been telling him or something? or should i talk to justin? i already told justin to stop but he won't...pleaseeee help! SORRY SO LONG I RATE 5's! (link)
well try tellin justin again that u want him to stop and tell him why !! and you dont have to let that guy bryan know you dont really like him just act like you dont know justin has told him anything !! dont call bryan just try talkin to justin again and see what happenes !! well hope i helped some good luck !!!


ok i have a question, whenever my boyfriend does something to me "below the belt" my legs start shaking and twitching is that normal and what does it mean? (link)
im not sure what it means !! lol sry !! maybe its cause your nervouse !! im not saying that you are im just saying that could be it !! ya some times when my bf does that my legs start shakin !! i dont know why !! but its wierd !! sry i couldnt help much !! but it usually means ur goin to orgasim !! thats a good thing !!


my best friend has a boyfriend who she thinks is more important than me. when i say something about him, she gets mad at me!does that mean she doesnt care about me anymore? (link)
yes she cares about you !! like a really bad friend i did that to my best friend !! and i felt really bad !! but i just was tryin to stand up for my bf !! its nothin against you !! trust me !!! just tell her how you feel !! shes just trying to defend him !! just ignore her when she gets mad at you for it !! or just dont say anything !! hope i helped some !! thanks !!


when you ask a question, does it show up on your page? (link)
no i dont think so !! mine doesnt !! sorry!!


When you put on eyeliner on your bottom eyelid,do you put it above or below your eyelashes? Also, what kind of eyeliner should i use? liquid or pencil? what brand?

thanks aton! (link)
pencil or roll on from cover girl !!! thats the best kind or just a cheap pencil works good !! and you put it on above the eye lashes!!


My exboyfriend who im still in love w, broke up w. his girlfriend. He called me nd told me that he wanted to be friends and that he missed talking to me nd having me around. When we hang out or were around each other there's always that special bond between us, were always flirting and attracted to each other. But a few days ago he told me that he we really wanted to be friends,nd that he didn't want me to get attached to him because he really didn't know what was going to happen and he didn't want to me to get hurt.He says the reason he stoped talking to me was because his girlfriend made him, nd he told me that when he was her sometimes he just wanted to pick up the phone nd call me just too see how i was doing. But now i don't know how to handle this, this kid will always have my heart nd i couldn't picture myself w. any1 else but him. But i don't know what i should do. Im so worried that he may go back to her nd then here i am alone again, without him even as a friend. Please help me figure out what nd how i should act on this. (link)
omg thats how i feel !! im still in love with my ex !! but your lucky cause my ex doesnt talk to me much at all cept when i call for his sis ( who i am bff's with ) ( hes a year older than me ) he will talk on the phone if shes not there and say hey and ask what im doin but much other than that so you are lucky but ya like i cant ever see me with any one else ever so i know how you feel like your heart is broken and it will never heal unless you get him back !! but dotn worrie he broke up with her and as i see it he doesnt want to loose being able to talk to you !! so he wont get back with her !! i promise !! and you will never be alone again !! hes there for you !! and if you want tell him how you feel about all this !! well hope i helped some !! good luck !!! and i would really like if you would email me so we could talk !! my email is cold_burn_22@yahoo.com !!! my name is alexxa !! hope you email me !! thanks !!


To all you guys...what do guys like for valentines day...like in general? i have no idea what to get my guy...like chocolate? flowers? hats? what? please help!
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choclates and a teddy bear !!!! he will love it !!! sry not much to say but hope i helped !!


im 13 and female
i went out with this guy cuz my friend told me he liked me and i liked him to we broke up a wihle ago and now i think i like more than i did when we were goin out could someone girl or guy tell me wut to do
thanx
lost n life (link)
oh my god !!! i have finally found some one that feels the same way i do !!! ok i went out with this guy cause my friends said he liked me !! but he gets high and stuff but he doesnt act like it at all and he does it with his friends and hes not the best guy ever but hes so sweet and he i guess didnt like me anymore so he broke up with me !! and i like him and stuff when we went out like i couldnt get enough of him !! and after he broke up with me i had extreme felling for him and i still do i love him now more than i ever did !!! and im still not over him but like now i like other guys but im still in love with the guy i went out with before !!! all i can really say is to move on try to at least i know its hard to see him too around school or were ever you see him ( well it is for me ) and stuff but move on !! or tell him how you feel about him now !!! u never know what could happen !!! just try thinkin about somethin else and act like you dont need hima nd you dont like hima anymore and you will eventually trick your heart into believing that and so you WILL get over him !!! hopei helped some !!! good luck !! if u wanna talk more email me at cold_burn_22@yahoo.com


i've been really depressed lately and i cut myself and i really really want to tell somebody because its been getting out of control and i don't want to do something i am going to regret so should i tell a counselor teacher friend or what? (link)
tell a friend and a councelor who ever you think would help themost but do something anything !! i cut myself now and i cant stop cause im so depressed all the time !! dont let cutting take over your body !!! see evry time i get depressed i cut my self and i cant help it i cry after i do it and i cant see why i cant stop !! hurry and get help before it gets too late !! dont make the choice i made !!! hope i helped !! good luck




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