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I live in Ohio, and when I grauate from high school and college, I hope to get into the Medical field. I plan on joining the Air Force after graduation! I'm here for anyone who needs advice or needs help with anything. I'm an understanding person and a great listenerIf you need anything and you want to ask me personally you can email me or just sent me a message to my advicenators inbox.
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My principal and assistant principal mistreat me and disrespect me. In fact, my mom is frustrated with them as well.
Here's why:
- A few months ago, they tried to get me stuck in a mental hospital, and they had no reason to do so.
- My parents, the psychiatrist, and therapist do not want me on medication. However, the principal has been trying to force me into taking it.
- I am also bisexual, and I feel that they mistreat me because of it.
- They accuse me of being a liar. For example, when I told the principal that I stopped cutting myself (and I was being honest!), she said, "Why should I believe you?" The nerve! And the assistant principal told me to not say things that aren't true and not lie -- even though all I've done is be honest about what I think.
- They act phony and insincere around me -- like they pretend to care but obviously don't. It's annoying.
I can't stand this anymore!
You can report them to your local school department. I was having trouble with teachers/staff not trusting me and being rude and disrespectful so I went to an online school, and it was the best decision I have ever made! My school is powered by k12 and they have virtual schools in almost every state. I don't know what your circumstances are with being home and online everyday but because this is all frustrating I'd definitely look into it! If you need additional information you can always inbox me. I hope your problems with your principal and vice principal gets resolved!
Best of Luck,
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Hey guys! So I was wondering if you guys could help me out with something. My 16th birthday is on March 4th and I need ideas. I live in Michigan so it will more than likely be cold, and possible still snowy, so nothing really outdoorsy. The most people I have planned to come are 6 close friends. I'm sure my parents don't want to spend a lot of money so no limos, or bands (sadly). Something simple but creative. I'm open to any ideas, so if you think of anything please post it. Thanks in advance ♥
Hello!
Happy almost birthday! What I would do is since there aren't that many people maybe have a day in!
This is the way I would do it.
(For girls)- Have a sleep over! Do what normal teenage girls do at a sleepover. Watch movies, talk drama, stay up late and what not!
(For guys)- Invite friends over and play video games! What guys doesn't like video games!
If you really don't wanna do that, and you were o make a party, then just do something you like!
You don't have to impress them seeing they are your close friends.
Hope this helps!
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How do I get rid of Coupon Bar Malware on a Windows 7 platform?
I don't really know the answer to this either, but if its something that you installed yourself, just go to your uninstall menu and uninstall it... I looked for you... here is a link that may help you.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090328060932AA6pmBN
Like I said, im really not sure how to answer or help you, but hopefully this works!
I recently got hit with a big challenge to overcome in my life and that's the problem of having a child. I would love to support a child but I feel I dont want a kid to come into this world without me having the right financial and living situations to support it with. My girlfriend is 16 and has been experiencing high syptoms or pregnancy but it is not for certain and I could be wrong but if so would it be possible if I can go through abortion procedures without parental consent on her side of the family? and if so HOW?!?!?!
I know you want only helpful answers here but I think your best option if you don't want the baby is adoption.
She is going to have to tell her parents about all of this, and you should let them handle the rest.
It really depends.. In some states there are places that you do not need a parental consent, but as long as you have a family member over 18 then i think that's good...
You have soo many different options, and i just think that you just jumped o a conclusion of having an abortion, just because you don't think you will be able to support it..
Just remember there are other ways out of this.
Hope I helped,
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13/F a couple of days ago I woke up and my vagina was hurting inside a lot. I thought nothing of it and went to the bathroom. It stung when I peed a lot!!! This happened many times before but this time it's even worse!!! I don't know how it happened or how to treat it!! What can I do??
Most likely its A.) a yeast infection, B.) a Urinary Tract Infection, or C.) a bladder infection.
The best thing to do is take a visit to your doctor. He will be able to help you, and give you the correct diagnosis
Hope I helped!
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im 12 a femal and i dont have my period. every day when i go to the bath room i see clear goo on my underwear that must have come from my vagina. some times i find it dry and see it turns a tiny bit yellow. im scared what is this stuff. does it mean im going to get my period?
this is called discharge.. Its a sign your period is about to start. There is nothing to be afraid about. Every girl has it. If you have any questions about this I think they should be directed towards your mother...
hope I helped (:
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I started cutting last weekend because i was like really upset. Then tuesday night i was really really upset and did it again. It was worse than before this time. They are really deep and i want to get rid of them really fast. I know what people will say don't cut its bad well it helps me and i just need a way to get rid of them quick. if you know a way that would be fabulous!
Honestly I don't believe you can get rid of the cuts because they are scars..... But over the months or even years they will start to disappear.
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-3x+5y=3
3x+4y=24
I have to solve for X and Y.
X= ?
Y= ?
what are the steps and what is x and y? thanks!
well here is a website that helps me and I just have 1 problem and it shows you how to figure a problem like this out.
http://www.khanacademy.org/math/algebra/systems-of-eq-and-ineq/v/addition-elimination-method-2
hope I helped :)
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my mom will sometimes 'jokingly' say to me "ok chubs" or something like that. do you think she is kidding, or trying to hint that i need to lose some weight?
i've checked my bmi & i'm completely normal.. & my stomach or legs or anything aren't big either? i'm relatively the same size as my friends..?
i'm just not sure if she really thinks i'm fat or not, & i've always been really insecure about the way i look (mainly because of her i guess) & so these comments don't really help..
she always does, it's like she knows i'm all of a sudden getting confident & happy, & then makes these little remarks. but if she sees i'm upset, then she'll say oh i'm kidding. but who kids about that sort of thing?
most of the time they do it so that they can just "drop a hint her and there" but what I suggest doing is just ask her for her honest opinion and say hey look you kinda make me feel bad and want to know the truth, am I fat or are you just saying that to be funny. If its the funny part say can you please stop and see what she says and if it is about your weight that's really up to you because your the one who is "in" your body. It really depends how you feel about yourself :)
hope I helped.
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I downloaded the Up All Night album by One Direction the other day, but then i realized there was more songs out by them that i didnt have so i bouoght them individually and put them on iTunes also. I want them to merge as all on one album but it wont! I have tried making every single detail of their info the same and it still wont merge. Its starting to annoy me and i need some help!
to really be honest I don't think you can merge the songs together under the same album.. What I suggest trying is on your desktop make a folder and add all of the songs that u want and label it that (or where you want) and then transfer that to your itunes account. Another thing you can do is just put those songs under well like you know where it said device there will be like names and stuff like that make a new one and title it whatever you want it to be and drag each song there....
hope I helped :)
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Just heard about this, so I'm clueless. Tried looking it up on the internet, but I can't find anything to answer my questions.
What happened to him? Whats the big deal about it?
It said something about uncivil justice?
Thanks!
its sad but what happened was he was walking down the road and a guy that saw him and thought he looked suspicious. He had a hoodie on and they guy thought he was gonna do something so he claims in self defence he shot him..... It's sad. :(
19/f I'm looking for suggestions and/or tips on how to lose weight. I'm 5'10 and the 230lbs (the last time I was weighed at the doctors which was months ago) I would really like to lose weight in my stomach area, my thighs, and my arms. I eat fruit everyday and water and pineapple juice is really all I drink. I attempted to start the Special K diet, but I've kind of given up on that. I also consume sweets all the time, its like a constant need, so any tips on how to curb my appetite would also be helpful. And exercises that I could do at home, I do go walking on the trail with my friend 2-4 times a week for about an hour. Thanks all suggestions and comments will be helpful
really the only thing I can saw is start out small. Don't start your diet on 1 day at like this instant or you will get lightheaded. First cut out something that has alot of sugar like soda. Drink green tea, or water. I know this does ot make any sense but if you will be drinking green tea that is a power make a bottle of it the day before and let it sit in the fridge over night because it tats better even though that does not matter. Once you think you can stay off the pop start cutting the sugary sweets like candy and chocolate. switch to dark chocolate which is really good for you. Once you do this start eating more veggies and LESS fruits. Fruits are sugary and not alot of people know that. Try to eat 1-2 a day. Eat alot of berries. they are really good for you. Exercise for at least 60 minutes a day but don't over-work yourself. If you do this and watch your calories and carbs everyday you will loosing weight and i more thing.. Don't let people discourage you.
Hope I helped.
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i am 22 and my (ex)boyfriend is 23. my boyfriend and i started dating back in 2010 in Jan. We hit it off great and its been good. in the summer of 2010 we moved into an apartment. It was great and all. but during out relationship i found that he was very much fond of alc and thought he had a drinking problem and all. I confronted him and we went through our major struggles of the drinking phase. but along with his drinking i was smoking maryj pretty much all the time just like with he was with drinking so i was being a hypocrite too. so to sum that up we were really just getting messed up together all the time. anyhow a year went on and this last october we moved out our apartment to save money and we also took a break to just give each-other space. i dont think there was enough space but we ended up being back together in dec. In jan. he went thru some issues and had to go to court and they gave him conditions to not drink at all or do anything. he's done quite an amazing job and hasnt had a problem with not drinking at all. so i think this happend for a good reason and am somewhat relieved and glad. also i went thru something and i am currently not allowed to smoke or drink either but that hasnt been an issue for me. plus it wouldnt be fair to drink and all in front of him. so we have been sober since jan this year. anywayy i thought things were good and it was okay. but just a few days ago he opened up to me about how he loves me as a person and care for me alot but that he just wants to be friends and that ya who knows there could be a future of us getting married but he doesn't know. he said it doesnt have to do with me that hes not interested in other people or dating or sleeping with anyone or anything, but that he wants to leave the physical part out cause he feels it would complicate things. he still wants me to hang out go out do things w.e and still would have me around with his family (cause i got really close to them) anyhow this shocked me cause i just dont see myself with anyone else but him. he is my everything. and it just hurts to hear him say he just wants to be friends. he is the most loyal person i've ever known, he has a hard time letting his feeling out but he would rather me know the truth and would never want or mean to hurt me in anyway. he works very hard and works 40+ hours. I wonder if he just wants to figure out his life and everything and work a bunch. or is he over me? after all that we have been thru it just isnt fair, it sucks.
this is going to be so so hard but i really really wanna try and make it work. my plan is to just not contact him or txt or anything unless he does. do you think there is still a chance for us again? it sucks i know it could be months b4 we are together again but i really hope it will work out in the end.
There is really only 1 thing that I can say and that thing is It takes time. Give him time to actually think everything through. If he just wants to be friends then that's what he wants and if you care so much about that you should respect that.
Im sorry this answer is sooo short but like I said before just give him time. If you want to talk more just send the question to my inbox and when I am on I will try to answer.
Hope I helper.
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ok so basically i've been bullied ever since i started middle school. im in guidance ALOT so i have not really been in the classroom. Im getting 40s and 50s. i also sit alone at lunch and talk to no one at school. The guidance consulers and my parents wont let me go to another school or get homeschooled. School is so bad, I've nearly committed suicide at school but backed out. The only option is dropping out but I dont know what to do. No one understands. they tell me to lighten up and suck up. My science teacher said I ruin class for everyone when all I do is take notes. Everyone at my school is pure selfish, even the teachers too.
That is terrible. Im sorry to hear but you have to do what your parents say. I am home schooled and love it. Its also free and you get all of the materials for free. I would check into it and if you sit your parents down and give then the information and say please consider they might but its up to you to think about it.
Hope I helped.
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How do I customize my profile like yours?
I want a color/photo as my wallpaper on my advice column/profile. Please help A.S.A.P
Ok so go to the left hand side and it says column settings and there will be a link that has numbers for different colors. Pick the colors number that you want and type it in the box. Hope I helped. blr51697
So I have had glasses the past like 5 or more years but I never really wore them. All of a sudden my eye sight started getting blurry today every once in a while. I had a hard time typing the begginning of this becaue of the blurriness. Could it be because I am not wearing glasses? I look so stupid in glasses and I really hate wearing them. I have gone without them all these years! And I eat my fare share of carrots....
Thanks! :D
I just want to say that this happened to me also so I decided to get glasses well because I am on the computer 8-9 hours a day doing school work. I got glasses and can see better and don't get any headaches. I got a prescription and that was the computer glasses. I suggest going to a Walmart with a vision center. That's where I went ans saved tons of money . There eye exams are 58 dollars and the glasses range from free to 200+ You will need to get the eye exam just to make sure and if that doctor says something like you should go to a ear, nose, and thought doctor then go.
Hope I helped and just to let you know Walmart cares and gives you good respect.
Hope I helped
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P.S. yes i got glasses and I can see better. if you have problems with seeing far or seeing close as well as the computer I suggest getting bifocals and if you don't want to get a line then get no-line bifocals. Once again I hope I helped.
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Ok so I have to write an essay about being catholic in todays world and I just finished it and want to know want any of you think because I want some feedback thanks.
Prince Guatama Siddharta once said, “We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.” He means that our thoughts are changing the world all the time. When thoughts are spoken they become a reality. They either improve or destroy us for a period of time. Though when stuff changes us positively or negatively we still keep our faith and hope. Whether we're Catholic, Jewish, Muslim, or Buddhist it doesn't matter. We still keep our faith close to us.
Being a young Catholic is very helpful. Being a teen and discovering who you are is very difficult. People around you constantly change as you are yourself. To me knowing that you have God and Jesus support me threw my hardships, makes me feel comfortable being who I am and what path I choose in life.
They've helped me a lot threw out my life, so I should pay them back for being so great to me. I go to church every Sunday, I pray to them for guidance, and be kind and accepting to everyone I see. I do this because God and Jesus love everybody and don't bring hate. I want to bring the compassion and acceptance that they bring to each individual Catholic on Earth.
The world is changing dramatically everyday. No matter what happens I still keep my Catholic faith and live for Christ by following my religion everyday. I will do all these things until the day I see Jesus and God for the first time. Then I'll know all my good acts for them will really pay off.
I'm being truly honest and this is a well written paper. You said that you wanted feedback so this is what I have to say.
over and over Ive seen you spell the word through wrong. You spelled it threw as in like your throwing a ball. Its NOT threw its through.
In the 1st paragraph you say Though when stuff changes us positively or negatively we still keep our faith and hope. I think you should re-word it as Even though stuff both inside and outside of our lives change either in a positive or a negative way we still keep our faith.
in the sentence that says Whether we're Catholic, Jewish, Muslim, or Buddhist it doesn't matter. We still keep our faith close to us. I think after Whether we're Catholic, Jewish, Muslim, or Buddhist it doesn't matter instead of a period you should have a comma to combine the 2 sentences.
In the 2nd paragraph where you say People around you constantly change as you are yourself. I thing you should say People including myself change.
Where you say I do this because God and Jesus love everybody and don't bring hate. I think you should say I do this because God and Jesus loves everyone and don't hate anyone.
Over all this is a well written paper. I just said what I did because those are what I think. Make sure you read all of it and make changes that you want. Because i am telling you this does not mean that you have to follow. This is just suppose to help you with your paper.
Hope I helped.
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My friend said whitney houston died! is that another rumor (she is bad for rumors) or is she really dead? if she is, then how did she die and when?
Yes she died at age 48 on Saturday night right before the Grammy wards.
Hope I helped.
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Valentines day is coming up,and my girlfriend is INLOVE with poetry, and she told me it would mean the world to her if i made her a poem, and im so clueless, i dont want to let her down but at the same time i dont know how to write poetry, i love her so much and i dont wanna let her down, can someone help me on making a poem? :/ please =/ i know this is like rude of me but i really do need help. any small poem wud be great were both 18 .. thank you guys so much.
I would include things that she likes to do and or likes in general. First I would like at what kind of poem you want to write to her. Look up the different kinds of poems. Make sure YOU make it up. Look up different valentines day poems JUST T OGET AN IDEA. Don't use them because 1st of all that is plagiarism and if it is a common 1 that she knows and recognizes she will know that you didnt put your feeling into it.
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Can someone send you a private message, if you have an advice column but they don't have an account? Is that possible?
Thank you for any answers in advance!
In your profile settings you can say who can ask YOU questions. "everyone, only Advicenator users or nobody" They can pick to only ask you and all they have to do is send the message to there inbox.
hope I helped.
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