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My names Amber, I'm fifteen & pregnant at the moment. I'm due around November 26th.
I love giving people advice about anything really, I've been through a lot for my age. I
have no problem answering any questions you may have to ask, I will not judge you for
anything you have to say. I'm very honest. =)

Gender: Female
Location: Kentucky.
Occupation: A mommy.
Age: 15
Member Since: July 6, 2008
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why do i have to wash my makeup brushes before i use them for the first time???


is coastal scent s a rip off?
how much is their shiipping? it doesnt show on my shopping list?!! (link)
I never washed my makeup brushes off before using them, because there usually still packaged.

I'd suggest washing them off though, If that's what is said.

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ok so im kind of confused

i had a cist on my ovaries...which ruptured from havinq sex..well i had a pee test done when i went to the hospital && they said i wasnt preqnant...that was about 10 days aqo

well ive had sex since then and im about 4 days late on my period,

i fiqured maybe i qot preqnant afterward, or maybe i wasnt far enouqh alonq for the preqnancy to show up on the test

But i dont know and i need advice and please only people who really know what they're talking about.

I just want to know if i could be pregnant, or if you think having the cist could have thrown my monthly cycle off balance? (link)
I don't think the cist would have thrown your monthly cycle off balance.
Take an at home pregnancy test asap just to be sure.

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13-F

I'm gonna be 14 in a few days. I usually masturbate during my showers. I refuse to do other wise. But 2 showers ago I wanted to try something a bit bigger then what I use [I use the handle of my razor] This was a rounded containor onject about the size of the micro-phone from mario party 7 [I hope some people know what im talking about] anyway, it was in a bit and it didnt seem like it wa gonna go anymore. I pushed in lightly just once more time to test it and I had the slightest feeling of a tiny rip and it could go in

Did I pop my cherry?
No blood came out
It didnt hurt
I really wanted to save that for when I find someone I love enough to actually have sex with

How can I tell if I did pop my cherry? (link)
You'll know when you've popped your cherry because you will bleed, or atleast be spotting a little bit.
& Yes, it does hurt.
Because your actually breaking through a layer of skin.

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if I had sex wednesday (july 23) and I got my period today (july 27) that would mean I wasn't pregnant right? (link)
I highly doubt your pregnant, lmao.


Okay, so im going to have my first time in august with my boyfriend. I just have a few sex questions.

its pretty much impossibal to get preg. if you use a condom right?

does it hurt the first time?

can i have sex without birth control?

My periods are usually unusual, so im going to be scared if my period comes late [it usually always does] so how will i know if im preg. or not?

how do you use a preg test? im going to use one just incase.

are you sore in the morning?


anything else i need to know?
thank you :] and im 15 1/2 female. Please don't tell me that its stupid and im too young because i really love my boyfriend (link)
No, it's not impossible to get pregnant if you use a condom, There could be a rip in the condom or anything.

Usually, yes It does hurt the first few times.

Yes, you can have sex without birth control, I'd advise you to get on it though if your going to be having unprotected sex anytime, I'm almost six months pregnant at the moment.

Take a pregnancy test about three or four weeks after you have sex, Just to be sure.

I wasn't sore the next morning, but everyones different.


Do you usually have to take birthcontrol after you start your period? (link)
Your doctor will let you know when to take the pill, when they prescribe you the birth control pills.
Usually the doctor says, Take them the saturday after your period.


im from sudan in africa ...ok i don't know what to do ...my boyfriend and i had sex on july 14 weekend and my period it suppost to come on aug 4 and these days im feeling more sleepy and have lower backach...am i gonna have a baby???:( (link)
Considering your period isn't even suppose to be here yet, Theres not many ways of telling.
Wait to see if you miss your period, then Take a home pregnancy test to confirm it.
Stressing out can also cause the period to be late.


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:)


Ok, so I'm pretty sure you've all seen this girl on one website or another. Who is she?

Her pictures:

http://i265.photobucket.com/albums/ii201/sk8ergirl_016/jenny.png

http://i252.photobucket.com/albums/hh30/ILoveMyDog0918/jenny.png

http://i252.photobucket.com/albums/hh30/ILoveMyDog0918/jenny3.png

http://i265.photobucket.com/albums/ii201/sk8ergirl_016/83.jpg

Gotta clue? Let me no please? (link)
I actually don't believe I've ever seen her,
She could just be a model, Shes very pretty.

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hi im a 15/m and im wondering Do women like men to have a clean shave in the penis area? would you rather it be hairy? or bald? (link)
Everyones different, & every girl likes something different.
I prefer trimmed atleast, not completely bald.


Those pills (vitro) or whatever do you know if they'll work for someone who has had chlamydia in the past. I have a boyfriend and weve been trying to get pregnant for awhile and nothing works. I know it has something to do with my past STD but is there anyway I cant fix it? (link)
I'd suggest going to the doctor, & let them know you've been trying for a while to get pregnant.
They'll give you some pills, that can help.
I'm almost six months pregnant by the way


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My cat has scabs, or really weird things on the back of her head.
What is causing this?
How can I help?
Is it hurting her? (link)
I'd really suggest going to the vet asap.

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Okay I'm going crazy... I've tried Proactiv and Clearisil, Clean & definitely not clear. What can I do about getting rid of this acne? I always breakout for no reason. I wash my face day and night...I also moisturize. I'm out of ideas. Any suggestions?

Signed,
Ms. Breakout Queen (link)
Maybe your allergic to some of the products you are trying,
Or maybe your changing face cleaning products to fast.
I use clean & clear everytime I get out of the shower, leave it on for five to ten minutes.
& wash it off with a hot wash cloth, Then apply some good lotion.

Hope I helped.


can anybody tell me from where can i download the episodes of the tv show dragonball z ... i just need the episodes after the completion of cell till his end by gohan's hands... can anybody please help me?????// (link)
You could probably go to www.youtube.com & Search for the episode.

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Where are the best places to buy cute bikinis other than
Victorias Secrets
Everything But Water
Guess
and any department stores/common stores

ordering online is not a problem (as long as its easy returns)
Thanks! (link)
I usually only buy bikinis from hollister, american eagle & abercrombie.
I'm not really sure if you can return them, But I know at hollister you can
exchange them as long as they haven't been worn & you have your reciet.
Heres the websites, you can check out:
www.hollisterco.com
www.ae.com
www.abercrombie.com

Hope This Helps :)



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2. liquid eye liner pen for victoria secret

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3. stila lip gloss 22 dollars


http://sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P81311&categoryId=B70



would you recomend any? (link)
I'd recommend every bit of it, Victoria Secrets is defiantly worth every bit of it.

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Is it true that you can only get pregnant when you're on your period? Considering, that your eggs release when your on your period and I've heard that you can only get pregnant when they release so does that mean that if you have sex on your period and the guy "busts" in you, that you have a better chance of getting pregnant than any other time of the month? (link)
This is very false, You can get pregnant at anytime sperm comes in contact with your vagina.

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At how many months can a doctor tell the sex of a baby? Also at how many months do women normally start to show? An answer to those or a timeline for pregnancy would be greatly appreciated. Thank you! (link)
I'm almost 23 weeks pregnant at the moment, so I have a little idea on this.
I still have not found out the babys sex, My doctor won't do another ultrasound
on me until I'm 27 weeks, for reasons I'm not sure of.. It really makes me mad.
Because women find out anywhere from 16 weeks & up what they're having.
They tried to see if they could tell what it was when I was sixteen weeks & two days,
But the babys legs we're crossed. But when I was just eleven weeks & four days, They
thought they seen something between it's legs, So I've been going by that ever since.
I've bought all boy things, Stupid.. I know. =D
I started showing really early, Just because before I got pregnant.. I only weighed 94
pounds & now I'm up to 113. I just recently lost 3 pounds though, I weighed 116 about
two weeks ago.

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=)
Let me know.


I had an ultrasound image taken of my baby at about 13 weeks. Immediately after the picture was taken, I could see on the screen my baby flailing his arms and legs; and generally moving about in my womb. Did the picture taking impact upon him at all? I mean, did he know / feel the machine taking his picture? I am worried it might affect him adversely. (link)
I'm almost 23 weeks pregnant at the moment,
& As far as I know, Ultrasounds do not hurt the baby
one bit.
I don't know if the baby can feel them, & neither does anyone else, since we're not the baby.
Everytime I get an ultrasound, the baby is so hyper & always kicking/punching.
I know getting to many ultrasounds can be bad, because the radiation from them.

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Let me know :)


i have NEVER had unprotected sex, and i am positive about that.. but i do have it a lot, all the time, even if its right before my period... the condom has never broke and we never used expired condoms and i never slipped off or anything like that.. BUT i was supposed to get my period 4 days ago. my period has been regular for over a year now and has never came late.. i told my boyfriend about it and asked him if hes ever 'went' inside me and he said no, even though we always use a condom, he pulls it out first just to be safe.. is there any chance that i could be pregnant? i did get sick and throw up about 2 days ago, but we ALWAYS use a condome, i dont know what this could be, please help =/ (link)
Maybe the condom had a tiny hole in it that neither you or your boyfriend noticed.
There's always a chance you could get pregnant, even by pre-cum which a guy does not know when he does this.

I'd advise you to wait to see if you missed your period, then take a home pregnancy test just to be sure.

Hope This Helps.


I am a virgin. My boyfriend played with me "down there" and he ate me out last night. When I got home and went to the bathroom, not only did it burn, but when I wiped myself, there was a lot of blood. (It's not period blood.)
I told him about it and he mentioned that maybe my cherry popped?
Could you tell me what it really means to have your cherry popped and like what happens. I just need information.
Thank you!
17/f (link)
It's not really a cherry popping, It's something breaking through a layer of skin.
That was probably why you bled.

Hope This Helps.




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