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My name is Morgan
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oooook.so..i have this one friend..i've been friends with him for as long as i can remember..&& every single flipping year i always get the biggest crush on him..i've told him before but it was just like blah..but anyway.i'm really starting to like him again.we flirt like non stop whenever we're together.he's just the type of guy that i can just be chill around.but my problem is that he's kinda shy && i dno.he acts like he likes me.like today he wanted me to give him a low-five so i did && he kinda just held my hand there..so i dnooo.i'm wondering what i should do.i don't exactly know how to tell him.you know??but i dno.can someone please help me?? (link)
It sounds like you guys are really close friends, so I would come straight out and tell him. When you're hanging out together sometime just say "I need ot be completely honest with you I like you again & I just feel like I can completely be myself around you." I bet you he feels the same way. Good luck
~morgan


14/f
i've had boyfriends before, but this boy, is my world. he loved me when i didn't even love myself.
we have been going out for a year && a few months, but suddenly his grandma has cancer and there are other reasons, but hes moving to Ecuador. He told me he'll come back for me in two years. [He's moving in two weeks] I spent last night crying till i threw up and only got an hour a sleep. 2 years though!? what am i suppose to do? im only 14. his parents asked for me to come with him, but i said no. i can't, im too young and even i know that. advice or opinons are appreciated =/ (link)
Wow, tough situtation. Nothing you do or say is going to stop him from moving. The best you can do is try extrememly hard to keep in touch. Don
t jsut e-mail and IM either. Call as much as you can& save money so that you can go there for vacation and spend time with him. It sounds like he & his family love you & if you really love him ( which it sounds like you do) you'll be able to wait for him. Don't spend all your time worrying...live your life & the two years will past faster than you know it. If you can make it through two years, you can make it through anything.
~Morgan


i like this kid and he likes me too. he makes it pretty obvious that he likes me and all of our friends are well aware of it. the thing is that i've told more than a few people that i DON'T like him (including him) just to get him to back off. he has a little bit, but now that i think i'm ready for a relationship, i want to tell him. what's the easiest way to admit that i like him? (link)
Just tell him. I know that seems really simple, but it really is the easiest & best way to tell someone you like them. Good luck.
~Morgan


i have the best friend in the world except that he confuses me a lot. i saw him wed when we were at a birthday party together. my friend karina kept telling me that he was flirting with me and i kinda noticed it too. he kept tickling me and then like touching me. then after the party we had to go outside and he told karina to stay inside but she came out with us anyways. so i dont know if he was planning to do something and wanted to get me alone. we r really good friends and he had always said he doesnt like me and flirts a lot but it seemed different yesterday. karina says hes prbly just scared to admit that he does and since we dont go to the same school anymore he misses me a lot. so can anyone see him liking me? (link)
He probably does like you, but just is too afraid to admit it. He prob. doesn't want to ruin the friendship that he already has with you and by not going to the same school it's even harder. Many guys flirt by touching you and stuff and it means he wants to be closer to you, so I have a feeling he really does like you. Just sit him down & ask him, you'll be able ot tell then. Good luck.
~Morgan


Recently I've been hanging out with this guy that I had never hung out with before. He is really nice guy, he's kinda cute but I'm more into personality than comes looks. Anyway so he's really nice, and I think he's kind of hitting on me. He added me on myspace so he seen that clearly i love the tv show the hills and he mention something like "oh i like that show the hills" even tho i think he doesnt know anything about it so that kind of gives me the first idea that he does and hes just trying to get my attention. Than i was in my friends car and i was like i look so much better in this car that you do [ it was a guy ] ands hes like yea you do you look good in any car.. or something like that. Do you think he likes me or something? cuz it kinda seems like but idk. What do you think? (link)
I deff. think he likes you. Boys are very confusing, but if he's trying to bring up stuff to talk about & giving you compliments, he probably has feelings for you.The only way to know is to straight out ask him. It may be akward, but if you really want to know, it's the only way to be absolutely positive. Good luck. I hope I helped.
~Morgan


so i'm only 15, and i've been dating my boyfriend for like 5 months, and i have never felt this way about anyone before. i feel like i am in love with him! we always tell eathother how much we love eachother, and we both wanna be together for the rest of our lives! he has changed my life soo much and all in good ways, and when hes with me hes a much better person, i make him a better person. he makes me feel so happy, and when i'm not with him, i miss terribly!! i can't live without him. for about a month we took a break cause we felt like we were becomming too close, but it was too hard for us. we can't be apart. do you think thats its crazy for me to be in love? cause i really think i'm in love with him! (link)
I don't think it's crazy for you to be in love. If it has been months & you're still as crazy about him as when you started going out, then chances are you probably are. Just be careful, that he loves you too. Good luck & I hope you have a long happy relationship.
I hope I Helped!
~Morgan


i'm a freshmen and my boyfriend of six months is graduating this year. any ideas of some gifts i could give him at his graduation party? thanks in advance (link)
SOmething Personal!!
USing pictures to do something is always a good idea, or soemthing that has to do with a goodtime or an inside joke.
Just make sure It's something he will always remember you by.
Hope I Helped.
~Morgan


randomgrl777~were getting yearbooks tomarrow. i dono what to sign. i dont say 'ooooo ill miss you soooooo much seee you next year luv ya' just no. what do i write for other people and my friends especially my bestfriend and i are growing apart now because we both really love eachother. im really rough but thats just me me and him did stuff to eachother but since we love eachother now and he just thinks its offending he doesnt think that since i love him that much id hurt him i dont mean to hed knows it he cant help it. im not sincere ever. but what do i write in his and on my other bestfriends and other people. its tomarrow morning pleeeeeaaasee help me. (link)
Personally, I like reading the messages that come from the heart & make me remember gt's, laughs, etc. Just write everything you've wanted to say and everything you need to say and it will be the best signature ever.
Good luck.
~MORGAN


Ok im going to the movies with the girl of my dreams and some other people from our soccer team. I talked to her freind who is also on my team, she said that I need to be nice and flirt with her, now there is the problem I dont no how to flirt. Her freind said dont be creepy flirt. Remeber were going to the movies. Ill put on what kind of movie when I get that sorted out. So geeting to my question. How do I flirt if im in a scary movie, a funny movie, or a chick flick? I want her to like me and I think she already does a bit. And im a Guy im 14. I just want to no how to flirt and get her to like me. I need examples on flirting i no shes not green and im not either;)


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If you guys are comfortable with eachother then try holding her hand or putting your arm around her. Don't try anything to suggestive, just a little sensitivity. Make sure you sit next to her and if she pulls away when you try to do something then don't keep doing it. Also, try not to talk to her a lot during th emovie, it can get rather annoying. Just make a few comments on funny or good points of the movie. If it's a sad movie and she starts to cry wipe the tears off her face, it's a rlly cute way to show affection. Good luck & I hope I helped.
~MOrgan


I'm in 8th grade and i really like this guy and he likes me too, we talk and flirt constantly but he just won't make a move. I would love to go out with him but he's kind of shy when it comes to the asking out part and i don't really want to ask him out so what do i do to give him some hints that i like him? (link)
Being in 8th grade, I totally know where you are coming from. Be flirty with him just don't over do it 'cuz he might start to think you're annoying. If you are comfortable with him tell him you like him but that if he doesn't like you it's cool and nothing has to change. You don't want to pressure him into anything he doesn't want. IF you both want to go out then make it so it isn't so hard for him to ask you out. Instead of having him come up to you and say "will you go out wiht me? just make a mutual decision to be goign out or tell him your okay with him asking you out online or in a note or soemthing. GOOD LUCK. I hope I helped.
~Morgan


Hey im a 13/f and i have a b/f and he is so cool and i love him to death. But he is getting absessed with kissing me should i let him or not ??? but please help..... (link)
WEll, if you're not comfortable with it then just tell him you want to slow it down so that it doesnt lose meaning. If he loves you and respects you he wil slow it down if not, then he isn't even worth it.
I hope I helped & good luck!
_Morgan


For my 13th birthday i wanted to do something my friends will remember for adges. I originally thaught bowling then sleepover but my mum hasnt agreed to a sleepover ( she will though). I looked up some party theams and i really like the theam kidnap. Thats where you send each friend a fake invite for a norm party. They wont susspect a thing. You ask your mum to ring each friends mum and ask them if you can go kidnapp there kid while there sleepin. I really wanna do this but how can i do this when ill be kidnappin them in the morn going bowling but it will be to early for them to come over for the sleepover. Can anyone think of something ither REALLY cheap or priceless i can do to fill the time ? (link)
That sounds like a really unique party, but could be very very difficult. My friend had a huge dance party at a cheap hall last year and it was a whole lot of fun but could cost quite a bit of money. Another idea is to have all your friends over one night and have a cooking contest, chill, and a sleepover. It's really interesting to give pairs of 2 or 3 a recipe and see who can make the best of whatever the recipe is for. It may seem really odd now but trust me it is a ton of fun. & as always, sleepovers with your best girl friends are always a blast when you get to talking and just being plain out crazy teenagers. I hope you have an amzing Birthday & good luck planning your party!
>Morgan


at the moment i feel really down and depressed.i have been feeling this way for weeks.i just hate my life.i have to my mam but she just says how coukld a 13 year old girl be depressed/what do you have to be depressed about?the thing is i dont know why i feel depressed i just do.i really hate my life.i start crying for no reason.i feel fat and ugly.and your proberly going to say its because im a teenager and all teenagers feel this way.my friends arent the way i am.ya they dont like things about them.but i just really really hate my life.sometimes i feel like why on earth am i alive.i have no reason to be.i dont get alongf with my sisters abd im always fighting with my parents.why am i like this?please help me?13/f (link)
You may be feeling depressed because you've been piling up alot of emotions inside of you and then one thing came and just made you hit your breaking point. Kind of liek when you pile up books and everything is okay until somebody puts that one book on top and they all come tumbling down. Try to think about what's the last stressful thing or sad thing that has happened to you and try to get over that, it helps a lot. Try to knock out your problems one by one instead of trying to tackle them all at once. It is also a lot of help to try to hang out with your friends even if you don't feel like it, just being with them will help you get your mind off things, relax, and have fun for a little bit. Instead of looking at the things youd on't likeabout yourself and your life look at the things that are good and look at the bad things in a new perspective that makes them seem more positive. Don't worry, the depression feeling will go away. I Hope I helped.
*Morgan*


this girl i like is popping by just to visit me in a bit. im only gonna see her for a few minutes. truth is im really falling for her and i dont know what to do. alot of the times i find we just have alot of awkward silence, like tehre is nothign to do and absolutly nothing to talk about. i really like her, and she likes me somewhat. i dont think she would say yes if i asked her out, because she doesnt do the whole commitment thing but that doesnt mean she wont hook up with me. so what should i do, she'll be here soon, and we will only have a short amount of time together. what can i say to get her into a romantic type of feeling maybe so we can make out or somthing. because honestly, i dont know what there is to talk about anymore, we've talke forever about almost everything. and i really like her. (link)
Try not to make it obvious that you're trying to get her to make-out with you or anythign and don't make i obvious that you don't know what to do. Just play it cool and the easier it will be for conversation and possibly other things to happen. Ask her how life is going and so on, general questions that require full answers not just yes or no. GOOD LUCK!
~Morgan


Ok so I'm 15 years old and I have a boyfriend and I love him so much...we'll I think. Sometimes he calls me dummy and stupid and then says that he really likes me. But its like he can't talk to me about personal stuff. I know he loves me but I want him to show it more how?. I love him so much but its hard sometimes to talk to him and show him my feelings. Sometimes I can't even say I love you?. Why and I do know I mean it. Also how do I get him to stop calling me stupid I know he loves me though. Oh and how to I get him to tell me his personal stuff and to let me in?.
Thanks lotsss! (link)
Sometimes it takes years to build up trust...
If he really loves you he will start telling you personal stuff more and more as time goes on, the more he trusts you the more he'll tell you so once he tells you soemthing, anything don't tell a soul.
Have you asked him to stop calling you stupid? Maybe it's jsut his way of flirting, maybe he doesn't know it bothers you. Every time he says it remind him that it really bothers you, if he loves you, he'll stop.
Good luck and don't forget that trust takes time to build.
~Morgan


ughh i got braces today. they dont hurt because i dont have wires in yett, but they are soo annyoying! from others exceprience, how long till they feel normal? and what are some good foods to eat?

and any suggestions on how to make it look like your mouth isnt bleeding metal when you smile., if you know what i mean.


thanks in advance :) (link)
It takes about a week for them to feel normal. Try eating soft foods and stuff that a lot of chewing isn't invlolved cuz' it's really hard to get your lips over the braces at first.
As for making your smile look better, there isn't really anyway. It will look normal in a couple days it just takes a little getting used to.
GOOD LUCK
~Morgan


This weird thing has been happening to me since like, 6th grade. I like, snap a picture of someone in my head, like when I see them, like, it litterally like flashes in my head. to where it stays. & when i like close myeyes & think of them, i can see them perfectly. & all the people that get flashed in my head, end up dieing. Its happened like 3 or 4 times now.. & it seriously is starting to scare me. Do you think thats just plain conicidence? or am i pyscho? or whattt. Usually, when it flashes in my head, I just forget about it. But, then when the person dies or animal.. i remember it. & stuff. I don't know its so weird. and its just confusing, can everyone do that? like snap a picture in their head & see it perfectly. i dont do it on purpose, i just happen to look at them. & the picture of the person stays in my head.. (link)
I can flash a person into my mind and see them perfectly like everything about them and often they have on a particular shirt or outfit that I recognize them with. It's called a photographic memory and yours like mine just happens to be very strong. However, I don't see people who end up dying. I do get weird feelings when bad things or going to happen but nothing as severe as dying. This could have something to so with your 6th sense or you could have a slight physic power, it's possible. If it is really scaring you, tell a trusted adult or a doctor who may know more about what is happening.
Good Luck and I hope I helped.
*Morgan


15/f


Why is it that whenever a person tells another person a secret or something ...some kind of news.....and that person is close to the other person...and no matter how much you BEG them...and PLEAD NOT to tell the secret...they still ALWAYS do.

What does this mean? Should I stop telling people secret stuff?...I mean....How can I NOT?....I tell my own SISTER stuff....and she spills the beans.


How can this be stopped?


What should I do if I crave to let my emotions and secrets out? Because there's a lot building up inside of me over time. And I can't be trusting of ANYONE anymore...since like all of them (the people) basically stuck a fork up my ass. And backstabbed me with a dagger.

:( (link)
Try writing all your emotions and all your "secrets" in a journal or diary of some sort. That way you can get it all out with no chance of anyone spilling. Eventually you will find that one best friend who you can tell everything too and they never spill. It just takes time to build up a very strong friendship. Hope I Helped.
~Morgan


so valentines is next week, and by then me and this boy will have been going out for 3 weeks. and, our relationship isnt that serious. we just kinda hang out, we don't act like we're dating. so, should i get him a special gift? and if i do what should i get him? what do guys like on valentines?.. thanks. =] (link)
Since you are going out you should probably get him something but since it hasn't been that long and it isn't really like dating don't spend too much time or money on your gift. Chocolate & a nice card is always a good idea. You could go to the movies or something casually with a group of friends if you want to do something but not "go on a date." Hope I Helped
xo Morgan


yes, i have a bf but i also have this friend who like watches every move i make i can never do things at my own pace cas she always gets hers and her bf's nose in everything...i really love my bf but i want to go at my own pace not hers....wht should i do??? (link)
Try talking to your friend and telling her that while she made be ready to do all of those things, you're not and you want to go at your own pace. If she is a real friend she'll understand that you just aren't ready to go that fast yet. If she doesn't understand, don't dump your boyfriend because of it, dump her. It isn't any help when you have a nosy friend (& her bf) weighing you down all the time. Explain to her why you don't want to do the things she wants you to do and if you have to explain why you need to "get away" from her for a little while.
Hope I Helped
xo Morgan




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