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Q: Well I'm a lesbian and my parents don't know. How do I tell them? I'm scared they'll kick me out of the house or something.
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I agree with Susan, yes does ur parents tell u when they had sex or anything? If you want to keep this privately to yourself okay dont tell them, and r they christians or any other religion?
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Q: ok about what age/grade do boys start to get attracted to girls and start to think more about going out or being boyfriend and girlfriend?
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I would suggest around the years in middle school probably MAYBE, 5th grade then tthey start to think about it more in 6th and then go out a lot in 7th and 8th, i mean during middle school most girls and boys are going out like experimenting around with different people.
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Q: Dear Advicenators,
One and a half years ago my brother *Henry* was diagnosed with hemophilia, which means that his blood does not clot normally. If he gets a cut, it's really hard to stop the bleeding. If he loses too much blood, he could die if the blood is not replenished.
Henry and I always liked to spend time together (he's two years older than me). We'd ride bikes to the park and shoot basketball hoops. He couldn't be too active, but he was my best friend and I felt safe around him.
Anyway, he lost a lot of blood one day, and was taken to the doctor for another blood injection. The horrible part was, that the person who had donated that blood was carrying the AIDS virus. The doctor proclaimed that Henry now had AIDS.
Henry is 15 years old, is in diapers, and must be fed through an IV or a tube. He has about 4 months left to live. My entire family is sad, and angry about it. My parents must monitor him all the time, so I always have to get a ride to my volleyball games. All three of us never have extra time, because we are always there for Henry and when he must be hospitalized. I had to drop out of volleyball for him.
Henry has been the butt of the jokes from the kids at school lately. They make fun of the fact that he has been in diapers. They are unaware of the fact that his brain is slowly being devoured, and he can't feed himself. The AIDS is tearing the whole family apart. But luckily, my friends are there to console me, but I always feel resentment towards the cruel kids at school. Can I please have some suggestions on what to do about that?
Anyway, as I am spending my last Christmas with my brother, I have no idea what present to give to him. Could I please have some ideas? I want it to be special and something he'll remember when he goes to Heaven.
Also, how can I comfort / cheer up my parents? They have been having lots of mood swings lately and have been very stressed.
Any input and prayer would be great. Sorry about the length.
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First of all, I am so pissed off at that guy who made fun of him. I would seriously go up to his face and really tell him off!!!! Anyways, I am so sorry about that too thats gotta hurt so much :=( *tear.
On Christmas Eve go visit him at the hospital and tell him how much hes worth to you and that you're happy to have a best friend like him. Tell him you care so much and you will be there for him through rough times like this one. Tell him to hold on, and have faith. You could like make a little scrapbook! If you guys have pictures of yourselves maybe you could cut them out and get a notebook and put all you're memories you spent with him. He'll sure love it.
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Q: Thanx you so much for the adivce. Well this is what happened he decided the nxt day after we kissed that he realized how much he liked her and how stupid he was but still wnats to b best friends wit me and talk about everything. Adn he is still wit his girl friend What u think I should do?
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yeah you welcome sweetums! well then you should still be friends with him, talk to him more, get to know him more, and who knows? Maybe after he break-up with his girlfriend u have a good chance to go out with him!See, well some guys only go out with girls because they are hott or whatever but mostly if a guy knows u really well, and you're friendship is big, its a 90% he will go out with you!!
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Q: Hey! ok well i have a friend that always has to look perfect, everytime she see's a mirror she has to go over and look at herself!! She puts on make-up everyday and if she doesn't she'll go CRAZY! she even puts it on before a game(what's the point if ur gonna sweat it off). She cares soooo much about how people look at her and i wanna tell her all this but she might get mad at me what should i do????
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omg lol! thats the same with me!!! haha!! I put on make-up everysingle day and before games and if i forget my make-up I do go crazy and will do anything to get my makeup back! lol sorry anways, if you really want to tell her THAT DESPERATE you should really tell the truth u need to tell her she is putting on WAY TOO Much make-up and that she needs to put at least some little and you kno what!! give her a positive thing about her! like say you are so beautiful omg, you are so pretty you really dont need that much make-up and i am so happy to have a beautiful, kick-ass, sweet,pretty friend just like you, and give her a hug that might change her mind.
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Q: Okay, does anyone know if when you just wear studs when you get your ears peirced, will the holes still sag? or is there any kind of dangly earrings that don't pull on your ears? I'm clueless and not sure if I want my ears peirced or not :/(sorry if I spelt peirced wrong...) I rate high ^_^
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No, I dont think so. IT mostly happens to older people ( my mom lol) IF you are afraid if that might still will happen just buy the *light* earings at Claire's.
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Q: i have 2 boys to pick from, and their both long distance.. like one lives in maine and one lives in virginia.. and ive met them both before. so i know what their like.. and i get to see them pretty often. but i like this kid named tj and hes so sweet but he doesn't trust me, and he always calls me lisa. and i think lisa is a girl he likes her something and it makes me soo mad, then theres this other kid named Fred and he always wants to have phone sex n stuff and like it doesn't bother me that much. but like i duno who i like more.. who sounds better??
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ok, TRUST and honesty is the most important things in a relationship and if you dont have trust what kind of relationship do u think ur gunna get???? And that guy Fred, do you like his personality, is he nice to you, does he trust you? does he lie to you? If he trusts you, likes you for you and not use you which I think he wants to because phone sex???
Well If I was you I would neither of them. But if you really wanna choose somebody you should choose Fred. hope I helped rate me thnx luv ya!
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Q: Hi i need something to say (quite frankly im a little scared) to this girl who keeps telling everyone in school that im a lesbian..which im not! i wanna be a total bitch and say something to her face that will make people go "OOooh!" or give me something to tell her off with!! All i have so far is "Grr". Haha, helP!
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OMG I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM!! lol sorry I kno this gurl kept saying i am a lesbian ( which is TOTALLY NOT TRUE) my advice is to just IGNORE HER. Once you keep ignoring her and that she realized that you really dont care she will stop trust me it works!! So, everytime she says nething about about you just ignore her and just go off and do something with ur best buddies, laugh and dont pay a SINGLE attention to her.
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Q: So I'm 16 and I haven't even had my first kiss yet. I have alot of guy friends but they are all what it sounds like "guy" friends not boyfriends. I'm not a tombboy or whatever..Am I missing something here.
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Wait for the right time, remember a first kiss is suppose to be *special* with you're boyfriend. Just wait until the magical time comes to you.
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Q: okay... i really like this one guy... but whenever i talk to him .. i dont know what to talk about!! i need good things to talk about!!! anything!!...helppp!
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Heres a good advice on starting convos's from www.jellybean.com
Do you find yourself tongue-tied around your crush? Here is everything you need to know about starting a conversation with the boy of your dreams.
Relax, it's Kid Stuff!
Talking to boys is pretty easy, once you realize that they are just people, no different from you or your friends. Of course, this can be hard to remember when you've spent all morning obsessing over his cute freckles and writing his name in your notebooks. But think about it: Boys are just kids. So when you see the boy you're crushing on, picture him doing something goofy and kid-like, like shopping for underwear with his mom. That will bring your image of him down to earth, making normal conversation so much easier.
The Spider Principle
Just like your mom says about spiders, boys are more scared of you than you are of them! Believe it or not, most teenage guys are way more nervous than girls when it comes to talking and making a good impression with the opposite sex. Lots of guys (even the hottest ones) think that girls see them as gross or weird. So just by making the effort to talk to him, you're giving him a reason to like you, because you're showing him that he's worth your time. If you can make him feel at ease, he will be grateful... and impressed.
Start Slowly
Don't walk up to a guy you barely know and blurt out your feelings for him, or a complete history of your life since age three. When you want to start talking to a guy you're eyeing, the best approach is to take it slowly. Start by giving him your best smile and saying "hi" whenever you walk past him. Don't worry that it looks weird, he'll think he talked to you at some time and forget about it. Once he starts saying "hi" back, then you can move on to the next step, which is...
The Friendly Comment
Once he knows that you exist, start building up a relationship with your crush by making a friendly comment whenever you see him. Since you don't know him, your comments should be general and cheerful. For example, you could smile and say, "Only 2 months 'til March Break!" Or give him a compliment by saying, "Cool shoes, I love them!" He'll start looking forward to seeing you, and with any luck he will pick up on one of your comments and talk back... hey, that's actual conversation! Remember, walk slooowwwly past him or he won't have time to say anything back.
Ask Him a Question
If your crush doesn't take the bait and start talking to you, it's time to ask him a question. Questions are excellent talking tools because they pull people into conversation. Just make sure to ask open-ended questions - if you ask something that can be answered with a simple "yes" or "no", there's a risk that your convo will be over in seconds! (For example, "What do you think of dogs for pets?" instead of "Do you have a dog?") You could also try asking him for directions (maybe he'll escort you where you're going), or if he's on the school football team, ask what a defensive quarterback is (say you heard the term on TV). When he answers, be sure to thank him and give him a big smile.
Sometimes it's a good idea to do "research" before talking to your crush, so you can figure out what he's into. If you know anyone who knows him well - and can be trusted not to blab that you were asking about him, ask them to tell you what are his likes/dislikes, what he enjoys doing, etc. Then you can use this info to ask him good questions when you talk to him. Plus, if you drop certain info into the conversation - like you found out he's into a certain band, and you happen to mention you like them too - he'll see that you two have stuff in common.
Keep it Casual
When a person is nervous, it's common to just blab and blab for the sake of keeping the chat going. But guys get irritated when girls talk just for the sake of talking. If he barely knows you, he's probably not interested in what your little sister did on the weekend, or what you dreamed about last night. Keep the discussion light and in the present. Also, avoid talking about ex-boyfriends, family or friend problems or anything else that's too heavy or negative. If you two get to know each other better, there's lots of time for sharing secrets then.
Listen and Learn
By this point, you and your crush are probably having real, back-and-forth conversations. But what happens if things stall, and neither of you can think of anything to say? When that happens, just jump-start the conversation by changing the subject and asking a question. Then listen closely to his answer, and you’ll learn all about the guy! Topics that two people can always find stuff to talk about include movies that currently playing, recent or upcoming vacation plans, opinions about a certain class or teacher, after-school jobs and pets, to name just a few.
Put the Focus on Him
Girls who are truly great conversationalists have mastered this trick. It's about focusing on the other person's comfort level during a conversation. Think about it this way: If the conversation goes smoothly and he gets to talk about himself, he'll leave thinking you're fun and interesting to talk to. To make that happen, all you need to do it keep your focus on bringing him out. Don't worry about having something to say that's interesting. Just get him talking about himself - use questions (yes, questions again!) to find out his favorite band, if he's involved in any after-school activities, if he has any plans for college yet - and so on. Master this move, and you will appear very confident. And that’s very attractive!
Walk Away First
When talking to a guy, it's always better to be the one to walk away. That way you won't run the risk of going on and on, or blurting out something weird when there's an awkward silence. Even if the convo is going great, leave when it's good and you will leave him wanting more. So after you've chatted for a bit, when it feels like a good point for the conversation to wrap up, say, "It was nice talking to you" and be on your way.
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Q: um im 13 i just start my period last month and my mom told me that period come ever month or 28 days and it last about 4- a week but this month i still didnt have em yet is that a porb? also i got a friend she is 15 she told me that she have her ever half year or few month is that a big porblems im so scard now i dont like to bening a girl now :(
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hey babes♥ dont worry at all! I had the same problem too it skipped two months but dont worry because your cycle isn't in the process of coming in the exact days that its suppose to, keep a calendar check and over the months later it will come just like a cycle.♥
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Q: I just got my period in July sometime and i use pads but i have her people say that tampons are so much better and LESS MESSY. but i am SOOOOO afraid to use one because just the thought sickins me. I'm asking people from experience....does it hurt the 1ST time.
-arielle-
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I tried a MILLION times during camp because we were going creek hiking i tried over 20 TIMEs and it just wouldn't go in. Its true tampons ARE better then pads but maybe if you tried or too scared just stick to pads and once you get older and you're period gets more heavier then thats the time for you to go for it and try. *muah good luck *
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Q: Well I have this best friend thats a guy who has had this girl friend for 9 moths and now he wants to b me wit me but i dont know wether or not if its for sex or not. But at the same time he's still wit his gf and he wants to break up wit her but doesnt know how and he always says hes goin to but he never does. So I dont know what I should do and any advice would b soo great. Thanxs~Lauren
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HAve you gone out with him before? how did the relationship go? If hes the type of guy whos a jerk or ne of those shallow guys or nething u might infer that he wants to be with you for sex. If he really liked YOU FOR REAL he would have broken up wit his gurlfriend a loooonggg century ago to go out with you. Hes lieing. Hope it helped luv ya good luck babes
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Q: okay im a girl and there is this guy 2 years older than me and we are in hs... he wont leave me alone... and ive been tryin to ignore him because he gets attached to people and started saying i love you on our fone conversations... when i really dont like him at all... now i dont want ne thing to do with him.. how do i tell him to leave me alone and stay out of my life? without hurting his feelings... because i dont want to be hurtful..
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Tell him that you don't feel comfortable and express you're feelings to him.
He may be upset and get his feelings hurt, but at least he knows the truth. sorry
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Q: with an average income, how much would you spend on your 15 year old child?
thanks
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Around $150- no more then $200.
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Q: Ok I have a guy i like and who likes me or so my friend says. All 3 of us were in 3rd period and she sits nect to him and asked him if he liked me and he said yea sort of. then she asked him would you ever go out wit her he said i dont really know her. I am SoOo Shy and i dont know how to talk to him cause i dont know what to say to him and i guess hes shy too cause he doesnt really talk to anyone. So how do i start a conversation with him?! Like some tips!! HELP! I'LL RATE YOU HIGH!
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Yea I am shy too :=x
If you're that shy or nervous to talk to him, maybe you could invite him over to hang out n go out for pizza with your other friends, you will feel MORE comfortable with your friends and you will be yourself and you can be more you and maybe you wouldn't be shy around him cuz you're with ur best buds. Who knows? Maybe you may have your most kick-ass time.
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Q: Hey,im 13 f and im 5'6 but i weigh like 146. i try to loose weight but theres just so many temptations all my friends are really skinny. they dont make fun of me or anything but like i just feel so different. . .anything i can do to be on a *safe* diet or workout plan?! thx
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Well you shouldn't have stolen it in the first place ,but giving it back will make her upset and she might lose trust in you. You should tell her the truth and hope she will at least know that you apologized and knew you have done something wrong. Either way if you do no not give it to her you will deep inside feel guilty and what kind of friend you were. I hope i helped good Luck.
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Q: hey! does anyone know great sites for pictures/icons to put on ur buddy4u pro? thanks!
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Yes heres a link to everything you need for buddy4u pro.
http://forums.buddy4u.com/viewtopic.php?t=32387
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Q: i use to be really good friends with this gurl. but we dont talk anymore. we both said some really bad things about eachother. she wrote a note to when we were friends saying that we would be friends forever no matter what. I feel like she wants to fix things with me but im not sure. Should i talk to her. If i do what should i say?
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Yes give it a shot who knows? its a 50/50% chance maybe she does want to be your friends or doesn't. Forgiving is the most important thing and hope she does.
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Q: any good colors for braces please list them like this
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and etc..... need advice freakin here
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1. Pink and blue
2. Red and blue
3. I use to have red and green
4. Clear
In my opinion Don't use black
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About That Girl Jess!:
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Arlington VA Age: 14 AIM: Member Since: December 4, 2004 Answers: 27 Last Update: July 14, 2005 Visitors: 2855
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