about

About me*

Name: Luly
Age:13
Maritial Status: single
Best friends: Molly, Gabby, and Hannah
Occupation: Student at SmS
Music: Rock
Movies:Scary
Colors: Pink and Black
Candy: Peanut mms
Band: Green Day
Book: Harry Potter Series
Shows: The OC, Lost, Degrassi, 7th Heaven
Grade: 8th
Pet: Dog
Siblings: 2 sisters, 1 brother
Food: anything thats tastes good haha, gabby bread wink

i love helping people. seeing that i made a difference is great. i love giving advice. i dont know if im good at it but i still like to help people out. tell my opinion on situations.

advice

Ok ive been tryin so hard to get back with my ex and so far it was working, he called me everyday and i called him everyday. everything was going good, we were getting closer and all. but one day he calls tells me he heard that i said something really bad behind his back and hes so hurt because of what i "said". but i didnt say it! and he wont believe me, but when i hear bad things about him he gets mad at me for believing and later convinces me its not true. so why cant he believe me this one time hes actually heard something thats not true about me? he wont call me, he wont talk to me! what do i do?

go up to him in person and tell him that its not true. that he should be able to believe you. if not then maybe you werent as close as you thought you were with him. hope i helped
Luly*

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What should i do when my girlfriend broke up with me, and she still wants to be friends. She never told me why, she just did. what should i do?

if she broke up w/ u and she never told you why...find out. she will probably end up telling you. it shouldnt be a secret. and maybe it will teach to do better in whatever she broke up w/ u for. be friends with her. its better then nothing. what harm will it do? hope i helped
Luly*

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My brother recently kissed a lesbian, and disgusting thoughts came up in my mind, so I thought I'd just ask this question...

IF A REGULAR GUY KISSES A LESBIAN, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE THE GUY?

Please answer, don't leave me in suspense!

hes not gay if thats what your thinking. hes still straight. if he kissed another guy then that would make him gay. he was probably trying to have fun. hope i helped
Luly*

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i dumped my boyfriend because he lied to me about doing drugs. Everyone told me he was bad news and all my guy friends who were his friends too told me i deserved way better then him. I still wanted proff and i got it on the night b4 homecomming.i dumped him after i saw him smoking weed with some other guy. its been over a month since that night i caught him and broke up, but just the other day he randomly asked me y i broke up with him, i tried to explain telling him how he lied, but he didnt see that as a good enough reason. did i do the right thing?

OF COURSE YOU DID THE RIGHT THING! he was a loser. he obviously didnt care enough to stop for you when he was lieing. of course hes going to think its not going to be a good reason cuz hes a loser and he cant see what he did was wrong. but yeah you did the right thing. hes the one doing something wrong.

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ok so i have this friend... say "brittany" and she is very depressed and every litle thing makes her feel lke.. idk sad? depressed? emo? idk but its creeping me out.. i knwo we all go through this but she has it worse then most of my buddies... is there anything i can do to help her? ps.. ive already talked to her about it and that seems to help a little but not as much as i want to help her...
thanx!!!! 13/f

i have a ton of stuff that go through that. i try to make them feel better. i try to make them laugh. i try to make them feel good about themselves. they just need someone to talk to. you being there for them is helping them alot. if it gets worse get an adult to help you out. hope i helped
xoxo,
sk8terbabe019

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oKaY, i have this problem where i get white dry spots on my skin especially during the summer when i tan. In the winter they fade. They started appearing two years ago, when i was in the sun all day during the summer! They are really annoying, it seems like theyr dry spots. I believe it might be because I'm not moisturizing enough or whatever. What can i do to make them go away?? i asked my doctor and she just said to use a moisturizer and not to tan (she didnt help AT ALL)..even if i spray tan or w/e they still appear and they look really gross!!!hElp!!!

ive had that before. i asked my doctor and he gave me a perscription. ugh i cant remember it now though. its a cream though. ill try to find out what it is. it really works. the spots are just from the sun. i have a condo at the beach and thats where i got it from. hope i helped.
xoxo
sk8terbabe019*

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don't talk to me again. i hate your advice.
i hope the devil takes your soul!!!!!!
Sarah

your a loser. you have no life. you need to go get one. and you wonder why you dont have any friends. wait they all think your crazy!~haha
hope i helped
sk8terbabe019*

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What should I do to remove my leg hair?

shave it off duh! or wax it off!

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Over the past month or so, I have been cutting my arm. I never cut the inside of my arm near to my veins but on the other side. It started off as just a way of forgetting everything but now it has turned into something much deeper, that even I haven't figured out yet. What I am doing is hurting my friends very badly and leaving them feeling guilty and lost. They keep saying that they will go to a teacher and tell him and two friends already have. I know I am hurting them but I honestly can't help it. I don't want my family to find out and I am scared that if my friends go to the teacher then he will tell them. I have no idea what to do. I have tried other things as an alternative to cutting but they never help like cutting does. I know that before I think about stopping for good, I need to figure out what has caused me to do this. I am usually happy, flirtacious and confident but now I am always upset. I suspect that I am doing it because of various family issues but I think that it could be something else as well as that. I honestly do not know what to do anymore.

I know how your friends feel. Ive been through the same thing ..ive had a friend thats cut themselves. It does hurt them seeing you hurt yourself. They are scared for you and just want to help you out. I know you dont want your family to find out but maybe if they know they can help you out. Thats what family is for right? to help you through things. I would tell you more on what to do but i dont really know what the issues are of why you are cutting yourself. i really hope i helped xoxo
sk8terbabe019*

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There is this guy I have liked for 3 years. Tomorrow is our school dance and I really want to go with him. How do I ask him? Should I ask him? Please don't say flirt with him and see if you really like him. I need help now! I'll rate high. Please help me!

Dont ask him online...they like it better if you ask them in person. Just be like hey do u want to go to the dance with me i think it would be really fun . I think you should flirt w/ him if you guys are really good friends and u know him well. hope i helped xoxo
sk8terbabe019*

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thats not very helpful. doctors turn me down and therapists say im crazy. i curse you sk8terbabe019. i'll try again however. but yet, i fear that i will be sent away.

Sarah

and you wonder why they turn you down and therapists think im crazy. haha

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oh the smart ass comment "hope i helped" is mean.
you should get a life. i cant believed i even searched for a skater. i usually trust skaters but now i don't. thanks a lot. And by the way, how old are you. You act like 3rd grader.
Hope i helped!
SArah

wow,You really do need medical help. acually im probably older then you cuz anyone who thinks they are a man must be pretty stupid or crazy and need medical help. like i said you need it. xoxo hope i helped
sk8terbabe019*

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Sorry if this is long. Okay i'm a 14/female and have a slight problem. I met this guy Greg at a party, and really liked him. So we talked alot and got close and ended up going out. But about a week later I broke it off because things wern't working out but I still had feelings for this guy. So one day we were talking on-line and we were joking around about having sex. So I was like "Yea i'd bang you any day!" And he calls me and was like "Are you serious?" and me being stupid I said yes because I didn't want to look dumb. So one day I went to his house and was going to tell him I was joking and all but he was peer pressured me into doing it. After that we promised each other we wern't going to tell anyone. And he was like "well I would like to tell my friend Joe" so I was like okay. So the next day I went to school and Gregs ex girlfriend comes up to me and was like did you fuck greg? and she told me that the rumor was going around and so I talked to Greg and was like why did you tell everyone and he was like "i'm sorry I didnt mean for everyone to find out" Like cheap whiskey I bought his stupid lies! So then we were friends and ended up going to homecomming. While at H.C he tells me that he loved me and everything but didn't want to go out with anyone at the time. So I was just like okay and we were just friends. Well I became good friends with a girl named Leah who was also friends with Greg. So I was talking to her (not knowing she knew about me and Greg) until she brings up what happened between me and him and she tells me that he lied to me nd wasn't a virgin! So i confronted him and he said that it was true so I was mad. and i also found out that he lied about toher thinfs too. So we deicded to not talk for a week... his dumb idea so we havent talked for some time but the thing is I stil like him even though he's caused so much pain in my life. Like the rumors I had to hear going around school and geting made fun of. I see myself getting very upset at what other people say to me like some times I come home and just cry. I started cutting my self and always find myself thing about suicide and I dont know if this has anything to do with this but lately i've been REALLY tired and falling asleep in class when I go to bed around the same time every night! I really need to get over Greg and his lies but I just dont know how! I'm emotionally attached and need to know how to let go and i'd appreciate advice! Thanx babes!
x0x
-Kristen*

This guy is definatly not worth it. He only said he loved you to get in bed w/ u. It would be easier to get over him if you just dont talk to him ever again. Plus why would you want to be friends with or even like someone who did that to you. Tell him that he shouldnt of never dont that. and you dont even want to be his friend. Theres nothing you can really do about people talking about you. probably the only thing you can do is stick up for yourself. The rumors will get old eventually and people will stop talking about you.
hope i helped
sk8terbabe019*

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i broke up with my ex about a month ago and i've gotten over him and i like this boy in my gym class but hes white and one of my friends say dont do it but shes white to. i dont really konw how to ask him Because im not that thin so how do i go about askin him out

You not being thin shouldnt be a problem with him. if he dates girls based on weight then maybe you should forget him. Being white shouldnt matter either. You should go for it. Just go up to him and be like hey do u wanna go to the movies this weekend. or if you mean by going out as in bf and gf then be like hey i like you and i was wondering if you would like to go out w/ me. dont worry if hes a great guy he will say yes
hope i helped
sk8terbabe019*

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My friend and I hatw this teacher and as a joke we made this odd screen name and sent him e-mails. It was the worst dissoin of my life. I sent one that was like "I hate your class I am so glad I am in highschool now". But my friend HATES that teacher so she sent and e-mail like" teacher you hurt me so the hammer is coming down...have fun in hell" I didn't mean for it to go this far. Now the police are in his room for a long time like every day. Thankfully I deleted that screen name! They made an anousement on the intercom about it and ever since I have been shaking and I am so scared/screwd. If I get caught it wont be for the one I sent, it will be for the one my friend sent. I was thinking of sending an e-mail to my teach saying like sorry it was only a joke but I'm not sure... help! I am so scared but I know for sure I am not going to tell any one but I need to know what to do!

As long as your friend doesnt say anything you shouldnt worry. Its not like shes planning to hurt your teacher. if she was then yeah u should tell someone. But as long you dont say anything you shouldnt worry. There is probably no way you can get caught. If you really feel like you need to say sorry then you should. Even if you hated that teacher it kinda went too far. hope i helped
sk8terbabe019*

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This is a question to all advicenators: What makes you want to give advice to other people?

because its fun and i have no life. jk
sk8terbabe019*

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i don't kno. something just comes over me and i believe i am a man. it's like i switch bodies at night.

There is no possible way you can switch bodies at night. Your sick you need help. im really sorry. xoxo hope i helped!
sk8terbabe019*

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I sent you a message the other day and have not got advice yet. My situation has gotten worse. Last night i streaked through the mall parking lot yelling im a man! im a man!
wut do i do?


Sarah

Im sorry i cant help you. You seriously need medical help. Maybe your sick and you need to go to a pyhsco ward. Hope i helped
sk8terbabe019*

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Hi. ummmm, i don't know how to say this. I'm a girl in 9th grade and sometimes at night i believe i am a man. i don't know how i do it or how to stop. it has caused many sleepless nights. how do i get over this?


Sarah

Dear Pleez Listen,
What do you mean you believe your a man? The only want you can be a man is if you have a dick, and obviously if ur a girl you dont have one. Is it just in your dreams? because if it is then maybe you should take medication. cuz thats really weird. but hope i helped
xoxo
sk8terbabe019*

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I like cows?

yes?

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