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i really like this kid..and he knows that i do..and every time my friends mention me around him he blushes (thats what they said)..and on the last day of school all he did was stare at me and he told my friend he would talk to me..but when the bell rang he ran right past me. just last week my friend called him (im to shy to even talk to him) and he said he doesnt like me and wouldnt go out with me..he also said that he just broke up with someone..(thats not true cause he told my friend he was single) but it seemed like in school that he was always looking at me..i really want him to like me too! What should i do?
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well sounds like a typical guy, always changing their minds... but if hes gonna play around and act like that then u need to find a new interest. and maybe hes just dening that he likes u....he'll proly come around soon enough... being 13 u got plenty of time


okay well i'm 14 and i'm wondering if i'm too young to be in love. theres this girl that i'm going out with and she is always there for me and i feel like i can do anything for her. i think i'm in love with her but i dont know if i'm too young or not. okay thanks if you help me =) (link)
i dont think u are ever to young to be in love... but make sure its real because thinking ur in love and being in love are 2 completely differant things


ok..im not extemely popular..i`d say im in the middle. Well anyway theres a guy..we went out..then broke up.
Lately ivve ben so lonely that ive been thinking of getting backk together with him...maybe just to hook up. I think he`d be fine with this idea..but I dont want it getting around. i dont want ppl to know WHAT we will do..or that i did it with him. Ive had bad experiences with this kinda stuff getting around school. Give me advice on wat to do? Thanks
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well the only problem w/ this is think is the attachement... cause if u get attached he could break ur heart u kno... which is the worst pain in the world... so id be real cautious about it. and if u do go ahead w/ it then just have him promise he wont tell anyone.. and u wont either.. then it wont get around


ok theres this kid that i really like and he really likes me and we have liked each other for like 3months now.. but for some reason were not going out.. i wanna try and go out but i dont wanna ask him out.. how do i show that if he asked me out i would say yes or what do i do? (link)
maybe get a friend to talk to him and tell him u like him too... or u could talk to him urself but i dont think u wanna do that if u dont wanna ask him out


do girls like a guy to be to sensitive or not sensitive at all (link)
i love sensitive sweet guys... i mean being strong and protective is good but if the guy isnt sensitive and cant show his feelings at all then most gurls dont feel comfortable


My boyfriend & I just broke up. It was the best relationship I ever had, even though we argued alot and were off & on many times. The break up was because of trust issues/cheating & that we tended to argue alot. It seems now that everything reminds me of him and I can't stop crying. I still love him and I'm pretty sure he feels the same. Our relationship was full of good, fun times and great, funny conversations. Do you think we could get back together if we gain more trust for each other and stop arguing so much or do you think a relationship like ours doesn't stand a good chance? (link)
well if u can figure out a way to get more trust and stop arguing then yeah its got a chance.. but im not sure how ur gonna do that. i guess talking to each other and being honest about how u feel is a start... just be patient and honest


So tonight I got my first hickey. I always told my boyfriend not to give them to me cause I'll get in trouble but NO! What do I do to get rid of it, I can do makeup but it just wont work covering it up. Any ideas? Thanks! (link)
try a cold or frozen spoon and rub it on the unsightly beast hehe lol itll make the skin settle.. its kinda like putting ice on a bruise


ok this is mainly for guys but i want to know what girls think about it too.
why is it ok for guys to check out girls and the guys excuse is "its in their genes" but if they find out that their girlfriend checks out a guy then they get all mad and jelous? its not ok if a girl does it but if a guy does then its just normal for them to? girls get hurt a lot easier then guys do... (link)
while that is true that girls get hurt usually more easily... gurls r also a lot more mature and kno how to control themselves where as guys dont really... not very well lol... its not really fair but i say get used to it.. unless ur man is touching theres no reason he cant look... but thats just me


What is neglachay? Is it like lingerie or undergarments? (link)
yeah it womens lingerie


can u get pregnant if u hav sex on your period?? (link)
yes.. but why would u thats sick


wats the best way to get a gurl ,that u like ALOT and u dont got a chnce with cause u already kno she dont like u, out of ur head?
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its not easy but try looking for someone else and at all costs stay away from the girl u like. go out w/ friends and look for girls and talk to them and stuff... find someone else u like.


Theres this guy and he likes me and I like him..he's coming over to hang out two days from now and hes gonna ask me out...I just wanted to hang out first..but anyways whenever we talk online we have all these pauses...are there any solid topics that could keep a conversation going for more then 2 minutes? I'm scared we'll have nothing to talk about and stuff when he comes over!!!! (link)
akward silences r awful but if u feel one coming try asking him a question about his interests or his past or something and branch off that. or tell him about somehting u like and see if he branches off it u kno. just talk about each other and u should be pretty good.

good luck


How do you kiss good? Liek I know how to give little pecks and stuff but you do you make out...like i've heard the whole "Let it hapen" thing but how do youput your lips on his and stuff? And should i chew gum if I know i'm gonna kiss someone? becausei don't want bad breath! but is it bad to kiss with gum? ahh PLEASE HELP! (link)
do not kiss w/ gum not a good idea especially the first time lol... when u go in to kiss a guy just start w/ a peck and then slowly open ur mouth to let ur toung in, he should follow unless hes an idiot. and then yeah just kinda let it happen. like play w/ his toung w/ urs... just try not to get to much spit involved lol

good luck :-D


How do you breakup with sumone that loves yOU?! (link)
omg that is so hard. but if u dont love the person back u have to end it. u cant lead them on, it will hurt them more. so just tell the person that u dont feel the same way or w/e and just be honest. always be honest.


do you think girls like me need to get sexy underwear like thongs to impress her boyfriend, or do u think there are more important things to worry about in a relationship, like having fun together or their personalities? should i get some to make him the slightest bit happier, or should i just not get anymore? does it turn guys on to see girls in their sexy underwear or anything? where is the best place to get cute, but inexpensive thongs?
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wow is this a trick question or something???... ok well regardless unless u r showin it off im not sure why u care... id go w/ w/e u like.. if u like 'em wear em but dont let how he feels afect u... especially if u dont plan on showin 'em off to him. and OF COURSE havingfun and like personality and shit matters. anyways... just stick to w/e u think is best i guess...


whats the best way to start a conversation with a friend that is a guy or a boyfreind...if they dont talk much at all? (link)
ask them a question about their intrests or their past or something. asking questions is always a good convo starter. or u could tell him about you and see if he picks it up and relates.


i like this girl more than anything and i would kill to be with her, i know she feels it to. but she has a bf, what should i do
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well... thats tough... if she likes u enough then maybe shed be willing to brake up w/ her bf for u... but maybe she wouldnt for past reasons or maybe because shes the type who knows shes got it good and doesnt want to give it up and risk getting hurt. i definitly wouldnt get ur hopes up for this girl tho cause it would be wrong of u to force her out of the relationship shes in and just sitting around waiting isnt the best either. only fools wait for one thing forever... anyways its mainly up to her i guess cause shes the one w/ the bf but talk to her about it and see how she honestly completely feels...dont even wait for something thats not worth it tho.


okay i'm 14 and i have a girlfriend. I think i'm in love with her:-D. She's so awesome. What could i get for her or do for her to show her that i love her? i wanna do something original but not to weird lol. thanks lol. (link)
awww thats so cute.. well personally im a hopeless romantic and i kno a lot of girls r... so maybe like roses or soemthing sweet like that and tell her how u feel, thats the best thing. maybe invite her over and like watch a movie or something.. just be sweet. if u wanna go original tho maybe go somewhere where u guys can like watch the sunset or look at the stars or something girls loooove that lol.. trust me i kno lol good luck


hey i wanna know which screen name u like better! xOMeLiSsA26Ox or MeLiSsA 1613 ??? THANKS !!! (link)
definitly the first one


My best friend Julz is goin out w/ my favorite cousin Jon!! Julz is turning 14 in october and Jon is turning 13 this september. i really hate them goin out, cuz he's changed ever since they started goin out!! they broke up and they just got back together!! i dont wanna tell julz that i cant stand it cuz she's my best friend and she'll get mad, but i think i have to. ive talked to jon about it but they like eachother so much!! what should i do?? --Chels

p.s. please help me out here cuz i give you guys advice!! return the favor lol (link)
well u really have no place breaking them up but telling them that it makes you uncomfortable is fine. when you tell your friend just tell her how he acts different and how it bothers you and not that you dont want them to be happy but it really bothers you. u have a right to say it bothers you but you do have to respect their desicion especially if its ur best friend. u should never do anything that would ruin her happiness just for your own.




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