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i have been though alot and have helped many people, so if you want any help or advice :)
i am here to help you.
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I know this is going to sound a bit weird.
I consider myself to be straight. I've never seen a woman and said, "Wow, I'd really like to have her in bed!" or anything of the sort. I've been sexually active since I was in my early teens though but only with men.
Now, I have married off and am very happy with my husband. The other day we were talking about sex. He said, "You know, most straight women don't lick their fingers...it's pretty out of the norm..." That began a discussion all on it's own.
When I masturbate, I always lick my fingers during the whole process and after I'm finished. I do wash my hands, too, so it's not like I think I'm cleaning them or something stupid. I really just think I taste good so I'll kind of reach up there and get "a lot" onto my fingers and put it in my mouth multiple times. It's sort of like...a treat...so I really enjoy it.
My husband says that he's only known lesbians or bisexual women to do this sort of activity. He has guessed that most straight women wouldn't even think about doing this let alone enjoy it. He has been married before and said his ex-wife thought it sounded rather disgusting (and she was pretty kinky for the average woman, in my opinion).
So, I'm asking here if anyone else does this that is a STRAIGHT FEMALE.
Please, let me know! (No, you do not have to go into detail or anything either.) :)
Signed,
Weird, But Tasty?
P.S. Please don't think that my husband was being mean or anything. We were talking after sex and the subject just came up. I know he thinks it is a turn on and everything, so it isn't like he was saying I was gross.
Now that I think about it... we watch a lot of amateur "adult" material, and you never see anyone but lesbians or bi-sex women doing this.
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well i dont really do that ... but i think you know if your straight or not as if you dont find girls attractive then you are straght end of story so if you know your straght and have never been with a girl then thats what you are.
hope this helps
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Right. I'm British, 12 Male and I got an after-school today. Incase you didn't know, an after-school is a detention that is put on your permanent record and is regarded as some kind of disgrace, anyways I've been on loads of sites and they all say 'Tell you parents honestly and be mature' or 'Rip up the letter and say you were finishing a project.' To be quite frank, none of these work I need an amazing, brilliant excuse that will fool parents. Something that isn't obvious and I don't want tell your parents crap. Please respond as I am URGENT!! (link)
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try saying your going to a m8s house after school this always works for me, or if there is somthing that you want from down your town just say your poping down the town to get something, and when you get back just say they didt have it, or that you didt have enough money on you or something hope this helps
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Ok, so me and my friend went to this hangout spot and my friend brought his girlfriend with him. He also asked his girlfriend to bring a friend for me. (so i wouldn't be standing there watching them looking stupid lol) And me and her friend were talking and getting to know each other and we didn't do anything but give each other a hug that night. The next time we all met up was at my friend's girlfriend's house and we were all sitting around and i ended up kissing her for like an hour straight. But i swear i don't remember anything about her other than her name, age, etc. Should i take her serious looking at the circumstances? (link)
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yeah i think you should she may really like you. so getting to know her would mean haveing a better relationship with her and you still would be able to kiss :)
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im on a really strict diet and today i feel like i wasnt so strict.
breakfast: beet, apple, carrot juice (i made it in a juicer)
and ice coffee with fat free half and half
lunch: diet brocc suffle- made with frozen brocc, eggwhites, onion soup mix (barely any calories...)
another ice coffee.
dinner: 110 calorie bagel thin with 70 cal of tuna with a DROP of light mayo and lettuce and tamatos .
then my head started pounding and tylenol didnt help so i REGRETTFULLYYY had chickne soup.
in it was carrots and sum chicken and obviously the broth.
i feel like i should not of had the soup though. im on a really strict diet and i feel like that wasnt deit friendly and i lost control.
am i wrong? was it ok? was it not? (link)
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Wow you don’t eat much at all, i am thin and i eat more than that!
If you are overweight it’s ok to be on a diet but you can eat more than that as long as you burn it off. It’s normal to have the normal daily amount. And with calories the normal amount is 2000 a day! and you burn most of it off when doing daily things, if you want to lose weight then look at the diet and you can eat a lot more if you just increase your metabolism which is a thing that helps to digest food faster, to increase it you can always ask Google or basically just always move! You will always find that you can always do something to keep moving like tapping your foot pace when on the phone fidget a little move positions when sitting. Stretching every now and again when at home stand up walk a little and sit back down ECT.
It’s not nice to be on strict diet it’s no fun and it can limit you and you will not have as much fun. I know what you mean about feeling guilt but you should not. You are allowed to eat whatever you want and you don’t eat much as it is. So stay healthy and eat more! (but not like loads more) just make sure to drink a lot and do a little exercise and just say to yourself keep moving even though i found it hard
I hope this helps sorry if it does not.
Good luck
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is it possiable to loose weight without exercise?
i walk everywhere, its my only form of exercise but im on a strict diet.
will my body get weird if i dont work out when i diet? (link)
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if you’re on a diet then that’s good and exercising a little will help you more
try looking what’s inside the food you eat as well as sometimes you will see how may calories are in things just don’t become obsessed with it
Some foods you may think are healthy but are not,
Try looking at what the your daily amount should be you can do this by just looking it up on Google or on some of the foods there are a grid saying the daily amount
See how much you would normally have and then once you find what you normally have cut down to the daily amount. This will help to start
but the thing is say if you normally eat 3000 calories and cut down to the right amount which is 2000 you still have to burn it off, by doing normal things each day and doing some exercise will increase how much weight you lose
and also if you are always moving this will help i don’t mean always jumping up and down ect lol, i mean you will always find that you will be able to move when you’re doing things like when sitting tap your foot fidget every now and again move positions pace when on the phone ect you will find that you can always move so do it, this will increase your metabolism and will burn fat and will digest the food you do eat faster :D
and make sure to drink loads of water watch out for some drinks though as that Ribena in a carton have 80 calories in one carton which is more than some biscuits so watch out,
stay safe though as its important and healthily to have some bad foods in your diet :) and to still eat :)
hope this helps
Good luck
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i know of this guy and i think he is soo hot lol. i have a friend that is friends with him and we're hanging out soon. should i ask about him? how should i casually bring it up. i want to meet him soo bad. any ideas without making me sound desperate/creepy lol. (link)
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well i defiantly think you should ask him
if you want to act or casual then been as you talk to him in school try talking to him a little more if you only talk a little then just ask if he wants to meet up after school some time or at the weekend or something, and if he says he is busy or makes an excuse then well u know, unless he sujests another time to meet up :)
and if he jumps at the chance then you know he is interested :)
hope this helps
good luck
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Hi I'm a sixteen year old girl and i have had unwanted sex with a number of guys that are way older than me. I am now currently pregnant and am freaking out on what to do. (link)
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Hello.
well first you need to tell someone that can help you, like your parent or guardian (as hard as this may be its for the best)
and if they raped you then its not your fault and you should defiantly tell someone and do something about it,
but you could have an abortion, if you don’t want to baby as its a lot of work for a 16 year old to have a baby it will take over your whole life have someone close to you that can help you get rid of the baby if you don’t want it,
go to the doctor they will be able to help you (even if its a pain to go in there as not many people really want to go there) but its for the best
so tell people, do to the doctor
and see what you can do to get rid of it,
hope this helps,
and hope the baby problem will soon be sorted out.
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We have a swimming pool (above ground) and there are always those gross little flying beatles. We went in there at 12 got out at 1ish, it was completely clean, no beatles, I went to go back in there at 3ish and there is at least 10 beatles! They like swim around in there. And they are just really annoying and when you try to take then out with the net they ing on.
So I was wondering, is there anything I can do to keep then away? Like a spray or something to put in the pool..
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lol yeah as the other guy says look on google,
but i have the same problem, but really i think you just have to get them out with a net,
but if you leave it over night or for a couple of hours try putting the bubble rap cover over it :) thats what we do and it keeps the heat in the pool as well :D
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okay im leaving for the summer and staying with my boyfriend. i love him and i want him to have something of mine that he can have to hold and think of me. hes giving me his sweatshirt, and i think itd be weird if i gave him mine cause he cant really wear it. i dont have a specific perfume i wear or anything. maybe like a pillow from my bed (he likes it lol) or like my bracelet i wear with my name on it? i have no idea. i dont even know if the idea is good in the first place. so any ideas or thoughts would help, thanks! (link)
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i think its a good idea you could have a picture of you to and put it in a frame or something,
or you could get him like a key a ring ones where you can put pics in and put one in of both of you
then you will always be with him :)
you will be along with his other keys but that one you gave would be the key to his heart :)
hope this helps
good luck
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I have to go away for 14days to sort out some documentation work for my daughter. We have talked about this for the last week and now when it is time for me to go now it is going to be a huge problem. Why you may ask me, but it is because he will be left with our 2 boys. WE were told that the process will take 10 working days which will put me away from home roughly 2 weeks if not a bit more provided all goes well. Now his problem his he thought the process will take 48hours. Slight difference to to 10 days. His life will be disrupted because he will have to take the boys to and from school. He is away from me 90% of the time and I am left with no vehicle and I am expected to do all this yet I cannot say anything. What am I supposed to do? We are married and have been for 8 years. (link)
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well it sounds like he will miss you, really even if he does not say it, and he does not want extra work really, but if its important to you to do this trip then do it he should understand if you want to do something, and let you do it,
it may be good for him to do some of the work with the kids a little more time bonding, and they may enjoy it all biys together, i think you should go on this trip as it sound like you want/need to go other wise you would not have wrote this on this website,
so i think you should go whats the worst that could happen its only for 2 weeks and then life will go back to the way it was
hope this helps
good luck and i hope the trip goes well and the kids are good for their dad,
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Hello, well I have a little sister and she's 11 nd one time she was online nd she met this boy they starte talking he's 15 nd he told her she was rlly cute nd things like that ; after like 4 weeks off talking all off a sudden my sister nd the boy started messing around nd he seems like a really really nice guy ! He never askes her for nude piks or anything like that.. He seems too respect her nd repsect the decisions she makes he doesn't force her on doing anything nd when he gets mad at her he doesn't curse at her he just stops talking too her for a few hours till he's calm; on the day they met he waiting about 1 hour for her they took piks nd he gave her a tight tight hug.. He told my little sister on how much fun he had nd he's always telling her on how much he ended up liking her. My little sisters friend was trynna get with him n he told er too back off. So I don't know does he really like her ? (link)
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well to me its a little strange that a 15 year old boy would like a 11 year old girl as thats a massive age difference when there younger, so to me it does sound a little fishy,
they may like each other, who know strange things happen, if they do thats great,
but sometimes they do act all perfect just at first to get what they want,so i would suject you keep an eye on your little sister,as some guys out there only want one thing, so make sure it does not go out of hand and if you are close to your sister see if you can ask about her and him she may tell you everything they ever do lol,
i think its really nice you look out for your sister,
hope this helps
good luck and i hope everything will be fine
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I am a 23 year old female and I was raised Christian in a very religious family. As I grew up and started to form my own opinion I decided to not refer to myself as a Christian. I have not been to church since I turned 18 and moved out. I believe in God 100% but I do not believe in Christianity. I feel as if apart of me doesn't believe in religion. I'm trying to decide if maybe I just haven't been exposed to the right religion. Or maybe I shouldn't classify myself as one religion. Maybe I should just love God, live right, and treat people good and not study one religion. What should I do? (link)
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hello,
i think religion is whatever you want it to be everyone is different in this world no matter what anyone says (even your family) you do what you think is best,
i believe in god, i do, but i don’t go to a church or anything and my parents don’t believe in god, but even if you do believe like i do that does not mean you have to do certain things,
god will always be with you,
and really if you think about it if you want to love god then do but don’t feel like you NEED to as you really don’t, you should really live right, and treat people nicely anyway, just a part of life, and you don’t need to study a religion if you don’t want to you should know what sort of thing you believe in even if it’s a mixture of everything, it does not matter :)
hope this helps
good luck
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hi! i have the habit of biting my nails, and it sometimes gets so bad that they hurt. i'd like to stop, but most of the time i don't even realize i'm doing it until someone points it out. i heard about this stuff you can paint on your nails, and it taste bad, so when you bite, you stop. what's it called? and what exactly does it taste like? does it work? does anyone else know anything i can do to stop?
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well i had the same problem, but painting the nails does work (for most people anyway)
and when you go to bite them stop and think that you have nail varnish on lol,
and also if once you have painted your nails and you bite some off then re paint them, this will get your brain thinking that if you bite your nails you have to go back and re-paint them (which is a pain lol)
try chewing gum this may also work for some people, as your cewing but not your nails, or messing with things in your hands like pens ect, when you bite your nails it gets into a habbit and to kick the habbit you must try and stop your self from doing it and when you realise your doing it stop,
it taste just strange, and then you like spit little bits out, its like (yuck i wont do that again, and as your nails get longer keep painting them :)
hope this helps
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Can I have sex with a guy at work?
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well if the company allows it and you want to then i surpose you can just think though if it ends bad in some way, or another, then would it be strange to work together after that,
would haveing sex that one night make you guys feel arwkward? :/
lol hope this helps and i am sure you will come up with the right thing to do in the end :)
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So my husband and I have been married close to two years...together for 5. Since I had my daughter who is 14 months I haven't really been into sex that much...also I have been on anti depresants for a while and that drags down my sex life majorly.
I don't know what to do cause he is kinda needy that way and I feel like I can't be that way.
I don't know if I should try to go off the pills and see if that helps or cut down even more (already cut it to 50 mg from 100).
I just know how he feels and understands I just don't know.
What do you think? (link)
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i think its a little unfair of him to expect you to have sex with him after haveing a baby as looking after one is hard work,
but if he really needs it then thats sorta to bad lol talk to him ask if he can wait,
if not i am sure you can find something a little different that may make him happier,
but you do what you feel like doing, :)
good luck
and congrats on the baby :)
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i'm 18/f
i had sex for the first time recently so my knowledge of everything isnt quite clear yet. my question is, even if i'm not on birth control, if the condom was used correctly (which i'm pretty confident it was) does that mean i'm safe from being pregnant? (link)
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yes it would seem that you are safe from being pregnat but there is still like a very very small chance still but its so small,
as long as your sure then i think you will be fine :)
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I am always bored!
my mom works everyday, from 7 in the morning to 4 in the afternoon.
weekends shes "too tired" to really do anything with me, or she doesn't "have enough money" to take me places, what are some things I can do to entertain myself? (link)
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try the internet or going out with friends
you could join something like a sports team or something, find a project and do it :)
i use the internet alot its like my life i listen to music on it, i watch films on it, i watch thousands of youtube video's on it, i play loads of games :)
games are great fun and time just goes when you find a really good one :)
hope these ideas help you a bit :)
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oay ibroke up with my bf two weeeks ago, well it wasa mistake. I want him back and he said he wants me back and i told him all he had to to was ask and im his. He told me that he was going to wait. If he loved me and wanted me back why would he make me wait. I only broke up with him for four hours before i was apologizing. (link)
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maybe he wants to wait abit as you braking up with him may have hurt
he may want to make sure that if he goes back with you that you wont just be with him one minute and not the next, so give him a little bit and then if you like you should ask him out again :)
hope this helps
lol boys are very hard to understand :)
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a+b=b+a_______ (link)
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well i will try :)
when you have
a+b it will equal the same as you cant add a+b together, as they are different
but if you have something like
b+c+c+b+b+a
you have to add all th amounts of numbers together like all the b's the c's and the a's
so than answer is
= 3b+a+2c
if there is only one of the letter leave it as just the letter no muners in front of it
hope this helps sorry if it does not :)
x
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So I guess I'll explain the relationship between me and the guy I'm talking about we basically started as friends and became more we have a lot of physical chemistry and whatever we used to sort of date he would take me to the pizzeria he would alway pay and act like a real gentleman and whatever I never kissed him because we weren't an actual couple and I just can't kiss someone unless we are. Anyways we ended whatever we were last spring 09 because of some other girl and we also got back together last fall and we were really close and def had plans to be together but somehow it didn't work out and he just stopped talking to me for a few months I think it became stressful because we live 30 min away it was hard to keep it going plus theres other girls you know but I know he cares about me anyway on monday he emailed me telling me he wants to talk then later that night IMed me he was telling me he wants to catch up and that he saves all of the messages from facebook somehow he still has fb messages from 2008 though I thought they get deleted after sometime he still has them and told me he was reading them and kept bringing it up asked about my family well I was thinking we might get back together but the thing is I really don't want it to be on and off i want it to really work you know anyway he was online tuesday and i was for a lil and he never imed me and i never imed him because i rather wait for him to IM me because i think til I know what he wants I don't feel comfortable IMing him so I'm wonder why would he save old messages from me saying he keeps them to make him smile or something I don;t understand and what does he mean by us catching up we never hooked up so I don't think its for that and what should I do to keep his interest I really like this guy? Does this guy like me? (link)
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well, if you are really good friends,and have never really got together he may want to catch up as you were his friend, i have a friend thats a guy we are close but we dont like each other in that way,
he may have kept the emails to remind him of you and the times you had together he may want to meet up with you and see how you are. and he may not have IMed you as he may have felt the same way as you did and wanted to wait and see if you Imed him first,
you could try talking to him (like face to face) and flirt with him a bit and look for hints that he likes you, and if you think he likes you back then you should ask him out.
if you cant tell if he likes you or not, then talk to him about the way you feel, he should understand, and who knows you may go out (Properly)its worth a try,
good luck
hope this helps :)
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