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Hi, heres my love story... Theres this girl I really like but I just can't seem to make the first move. I don't have any friends and would like to get to know her alot. I just don't know when to approach her or what to say. The only time I see her is on the school bus. Of coarse theres loads of her friends and people on the bus. What good advice can you give me. I would like it from both girls and boys, but mainly girls. Thanks. (link)
well since you ride the bus you know where she lives, so if your brave enough you could just go up to her house n introduce yourself, just he like hey im so n so i ride your bus i was wondering if u wanted to hang out sometime with me, its easy to say but its hard to do, i know i been there where i have liked someone and didnt know how to tell him.. but your really gotta have the guts to talk to people and dont be shy..!


Me and my ex have been talking again for some time now, i recently re developed feelings for her, she shows concern but i can never get a straight anwer from her when feelings of her and i come up, does that mean she still loves me? (link)
well for one she could still love you, but if you not sure i would sit own n talk to her about it, tell her how you feel and everything, and then see how it goes from there.. okay how that will somewhat help you!


ok i was going out with a girl for 9 months....then she broke up with me...and i found out she still loves me but she doesnt want 2 but she does and i love her 2 i asked her out but she said no.....and like everyday she loves me a little more...but i want her 2 love me a lot so she will go out with me so ladies if u were the girl here wut would a guy like me have 2 do....buy a flowers and chocolates? write a peom...find a poem ill do anything for her....so wut should i do? (link)
well, you say you "Will do ANYTHING for her" well tell her how much you love her, tell her you want to be with her and that there is no one else you would rather be with only her, tell her you would do anythnig for her you love her so much, be supporative to her decisions, and if that doesn't work, then i dont kno what to tell you, but thats what my old boyfriend did and he got me everytime


okay..i have this friend and this guy really likes her a lot but she is being gay and she won't go out with him. what can i do to make her realize how great he is and how happy she would be with him? (link)
umm.. i donno ill get backk to you later on this one!


Okay well im going to be 16 in sept. and on the 9th im having a party ( i wanna big party with alotta ppl there all jus having fun) I told bunches of my friends and i kno most of them are coming- im juss scared like no one is gonna show up! That and my mom wants to do games.. how gay i keep telling her no but she says the DJ has to get a break and i said NO GAMES.. b/c m friends are like all 9th-12th .. they aint gonna wanna do games.. so how can i stop being nervous about the party- and what to do about my mom... should i do while the DJ takes a break PLZ help! i Rate High! (link)
when the DJ takes a break you could do cake, ice cream, and presents. trust me, you're not too old for that.


heather why do you sit and read these i mean do you have nothing better to do? i mean who sits and reads about other ppl's problems. YOU HAVE NO LIFE j/k. love baldy (link)
BALDY IS A SEXY BEAST

and..that wasn't asking for advice


Sorry it's so long, but I desparately need help. This is an easy 5 because there's so many things I need help with. Alright, I've asked a bunch of questions on how to get my crush to like me, and it looks like I just need to ask her out! I need some help doing that, though. First: I want a nice special way to deliver it, like they did at the end of Bye Bye Birdie. Can someone help me there? Also, someone suggested writing a poem for her, I suck at poetry, can someone give me tips? Besides, her name doesn't have any rhymes.... Then there's my parents. They've been betting on whether I'm gonna get a crush before my best friends (we're all nerds) and obviously don't know about me and my crush. How can I tell them? Note: I'm a shy person. Come to think of it, where's a good place to ask her out to? I don't really see any worthwile movies out apart from the Aristocrats, which I can't see until I'm 17. So what's a good place? Dinner? Bowling?
And finally, there's rejection. What happens if she says no? I'm a shy person, and I really don't want to have her say no... I mean, she said she liked me as a friend when I told her I liked her, and instead of getting over her, as time passed, I thought about her more. I've been devastated since, and this is the only way. Please help!!!!!! (link)
well for starters to tell you parent just be totally upfront with them..tell them there's a girl and you really like her..Now.. to ask her um bowling no never ask someone out bowling..take her out to dinner and then maby after go for a walk in the prack you can sit down n b like look at the stars there so beautiful.. just like you type of stuff then just ask her!! its not very hard and for them poem wellif you leave me a msg on my inbox i ould help you with at just go to my advice column n click get advice and it will go to me and i can help you with a poem if you rly want one.. and if she says so just be like well can we still b friends DO NOT GET NERVOUS!! just stay calm and b like thats fine but can we still be friends.. alright hope i helped you out good luck!!!


Hey! Well my hair straightner now is by Hot Tools, it's a ceramic plates one and it works pretty well, but I think it's time for a new one. Lately, this one hasn't been working that well. I've only used 2 hair straighteners in the past year and they're both identical. They used to work pretty well, but lately my hair is just not straight like it used to be. My hair is medium thick, and naturally wavy. Any recommendations for my new hair straightner? + Can you give me any websites where I can just buy it online?

Thanks in advance! I rate 5's. (link)
curlmaster hair straightener you can get it at sallys for like $35 i got one and all my friends went out in got it cuz it works rly good


There is this weird girl named Meggie. She constantly stares at me but wont talk to me. I've heard that she tells everyone else that we're going out but i dont even really know her. This really freaks me out. What should i do? (link)
well..maybe you should get to kno her..and well if you dont like her then you should tell her right away so nothin gets too serious.. and when she stares at you just say sumthin to her like what r you lookin at and if you dont want to be mean just be like hey what r you doin.. and since this freaks you out maybe try to avoid her for awile..i donno this is a tough one but hey it might just work


if i use a chi straightener or the remmington wet to dry hair straightener, how long does the hair stay straight? (link)
i didnt think it was that great i use curlmaster straigtener from sally's hair salon and it works great all my friend went out n bougt it.


I am kind of sad because all of my friends have a b/f and I dont...... I know it sounds child like but it has been this way for a year now... I mean I am not the best looking but I still want someone.... idk what I should do..... btw 15/female (link)
well get out and meet new people.. dont be shy about it..if you see someone who catches ur eye go up n talk to them..and like you shouldn't want to have a boyfriend, if ur not ready for a relationship, he might want sumthin to last and you might want him just to be like your friend..you are your own persondo whats best for you and not everyone else


ok i like this boy and i have probably talked to him 6 times in a year. i have liked him for 2 years now and lots of people have told him i liked him but he thought they were lying so he didnt do anything about it. i just talked to him today about his classes and and we had our laughs but other than that how do i become more than just someone he see everyday and only talk to 6 times a year. i just want to be his friend first but i get really nervous and then i dont talk to him. like i said i dont have to be his girlfried just someone he would like to talk to or someone he can trust! please help!
thanks!
i rate high for good answers! (link)
just start out by sayin hi n everything to him when you see him in the hall... and you can ask for his screenname and then talk to him online or if u get enough confidence ask for his number.


I'm really tired of just wearing jeans and a t-shirt to school. I want to start dressing nicer. But all the nice/cute clothes that I find are tank tops or spaghetti straps. And the problem with that is at my school all tops have to have a strap of 3 inches.
Does anyone know of any place that has nice/cute tops that aren't tank or spaghetti?
Thanks. (link)
Gabes..best store ever..very reasonable and have nice colthes n everything


does anyone have any good idea for hairstyle when your growing your bangs out? Or know of a website that has some ideas of how i can were my hair when i am growing out my bangs. (link)
just keep them pinned back or curl them to the side with the rest of ur hair


ok i was wondering if there are any kind of craft or games i can do for my sweet 16 party. im planning on having a smaller party with just about 12 people or so and its prob going to be all girls. it can be anything outside because its going to be in winter/late fall. i wanted something to do that wasnt to juvenile to past time and stuff so we dont get bored or anything. it also cant be to girly either and can be done with a larger group. i was wondering if anyone could tell me some fun things to do at a party or what they did at theirs (link)
football.. if there guys n girl that what i did n we had tons of fun


should i hate heather and kelly
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they love you very much and you kno it..so don't hate them..trust me i kno babe..cuz i love you oohh so much!


my birthday is coming up and my mom asked me what i wanted. the problem is i have NO clue what i want. could someone tell me what they got before or if they have a good suggestions?

BTW:
~nothing too expensive because i also got boots that were very expensive
~im 13 and a female

will rate 5's (enless its a smartass answer) (link)
just ask her to take you shoppin.. just you n her


I have liked this guy for a year. He said he liked me and to wait till summer so we can be together. Well its summer and he still never asked me out or anything. Hes hurt me soo many times. I met this other great guy and i think we have something. And I know that he'll never hurt me. I dont know who to like!!! (link)
the one who you think about all the time.. the one you see right before you close you eyes at night.. trust m eon this one im goin through the same thing


Hi I'm in the 6th grade but anyways well wen i'm in skool there is this boy who whacks this chair against my chair, calls me stupid all the time, hits me and kicks me and all that crap and yet hes nice to me but i just dno if thats a sign of flirting and him wantign to get my attetion or just him hateing me and we are friends he sed it himself...plz help i'm just real confused (link)
when boy act real stupid around girls and are mean to them most of the time its b/c they have a crush on you but as they get older they learn to flirt


how do i scrunch my hair? (link)
well when i do mine.. i pull it up in a messy ponytail until its dry then.. use hair spray to keep it in place.. it works pretty good...




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