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how do you keep your clothes from shrinking.. like jeans and shirts!! please help
DONT put your clothes in the dryer, just let them airdry on a hanger. Most cotton clothing shrinks, so either buy it big or dont dry it! Good luck!!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!
Hi I'm Brittany! I go out with a boy named Michael and we have an awkward long-distance relationship. My best friend is in love with a boy who is friendly,cute,and popular. Lately she has been telling me that he likes me. I like him. But I could never go out with him because she really likes him. What should I do?
If you are in a long distance relationship, then how could you start a new one. Usually people dont even try long distance unless they are truly in love and you dont exactly sound like you love him. First off, you need to talk to your friend. She knows he likes you and she probably needs to know you like him too. It could really hurt your friendship with her, so I wouldnt risk it. Trust me. My best friend was in love with this guy and I tried hooking them up, well during that time I started to like him and he liked me. I lost her as a friend =( Be careful with your decesion! Good luck girly!
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omg!!!! ok like 10 min. ago i was shaping my eyebrows , and i totally messed up , one is higher the the other and there to far apart . what can i do that can help in 7 days!!!!! thats wen school starts . please help
Go to a nail salon and have them fix it! Or you can try drawing them in with a eyebrow pencil. Good luck!!
LoVe,
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hey im 12 and like 5'2 or 5'3.. :not sure: and im 107.. bvut i think i lost a lil weight.. wuts the normal weight for this hieght?
xox CraZyBBie
I calculated your BMI *Body Mass Index* which generally tells you if you are underweight, normal, overweight or obese. Good news! You are normal, your BMI came out to 19.0!
Underweight would be below 18.5
Normal is between 18.5-24.9
Overweight is 25-29.9
And obesity is 30 or greater.
Your weight is just fine!!
If you want to calculate the BMI yourself, go to
http://nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm
Good luck girly! If you need anything else, just ask cause I'm always here!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!
i dated this guy last year and i didnt realize how much i cared about him untill we broke up...he cheated on me tho but i still love him and care about him a year later..and we talk but its like once a month because he has a girlfriend now and i dont know if i should try to move on even tho i dont want to or if i should try talking to him about it which ive been trying to do but he wont do anything behind his gfs back or even see any girl with out her being there...idk what to do i still care bout him so much and i want to tell him in person but i cant get him to meet me for like 20 min with out his girl friend there
I think its about time you should move on. Its been a whole year, he has a girlfriend and he cheated on you. How can you love someone who cheated on you? I honestly cant understand that...
If you truly cant move on, then my advice to you is to call him or tell him on AIM, the phone is so much better because nothing can be copied and pasted for others to read. Tell him how you feel and you would live to give him another chance and ask when him and his girlfriend break up, if yall can get together. Good luck girly!
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how can i get more babysitting jobs so were i can get some money
Place an ad in your local newspaper that you babysit, your age, and good qualitifcations you have plus your phone number. You can leave flyers on your neighbors doors, mailboxes, or going to a local daycare and placing flyers there also. Call some of your friends or parents friends for jobs. Good luck!!
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Kevin1986 here. Everybody please stop asking I like this guy,does he like me? I have no clue. I'd need to know the situation a lot better and I really don't know. Of course,the best thing to do is go up and talk to the guy,instead of asking me,who knows nothing more about the situation than you like him. Also,ladies your cherries can pop through just about any strenous activity. Stop asking me about that. And finally,stop with the What turns guys on. Anything,just show up ok?
AMEN!!! Thank you for setting everyone freaking straight...
how can u tell if ur a good kisser or do sumin bout it if u r kuz i dont want my bf sayin stuff now or after we brake^((i kno this sounds really gay but...))
If you want to know if you are a good kisser, then ask the guy you're kissing!! Boys always ask us how they do, so why cant we? Usually people dont find out if you are good or bad unless you are terrible. *gIgGlEs* Never kiss and tell, so youre boyfriend probably wont be saying anything.
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Ok..well i have a desk in my room and i keep all my deoderant,purfume,and stuff 4 my hair in a little basket type thingy. But i dont wanna put it in there anymore..so does anyone have any ideas..or like wat do yall put all that in? Be creative..if possible=)
I went to Bed, Bath, Beyond or Linens N' Things and picked out a cabinet made for makeup and all your other essentials to get ready in the morning. It was kinda boring just white, so I jazzed it up with paint, pictures, stickers, and lots of memories. I can put a light up mirror and everything else on it in my room!
Cost: Anywhere from around $40-100 bucks
Good luck!!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!
Iam 15 years old, 5'2 and i weigh 121 pounds,am i fat or over weight? How can i lose weight? Please help!
I calculated your BMI *Body Mass Index* which generally tells you if you are underweight, normal, or overweight. Good news! You are normal, your BMI came out to 22.1!
Underweight would be below 18.5
Normal is between 18.5-24.9
Overweight is 25-29.9
And obesity is 30 or greater.
The best way to lose weight is to eat your veggies and fruits and stop consuming so much junk food and soda. To lose weight, stop drinking soda TODAY. Also, you need to excercise daily. That means running, walking, weights, arobics, pilates, yoga, swimming, dancing, or even walking up and down stairs.
If you want to calculate the BMI yourself, go to
http://nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm
Good luck girly! If you need anything else, just ask cause I'm always here!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!
Edit: I answered your question SO FREAKING WELL, with lots of respect and I get a damn 4... what else did you want me to say? YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL THE WAY YOU ARE?.. W/E
i need help...fast!my ex bf is coming to my soccer tournament on sunday.i still really like him. i wanna tell him but i dont know how. i wanna ask if he wants to give us another chance. but i dont know how. please help me. i need to tell him and i reaaaaly wanna get back w/ him.
***I RATE***
First off, I'm not sure how involved with the site you are but everyone is really getting sick of people saying "I RATE" so before someone yells at you incredibly rudly, I wouldnt say that. I'm giving you the heads up and not being mean at all.
Okay, so now about your ex-boyfriend... You still really like him and want to get back together, but he doesnt know this?
My advice to you is to pull him aside before or after the game, I suggest before so he doesnt leave before you see him, and you be straight forward. Trust me, I know its super hard to tell someone you like them still and want to get back together, but you HAVE to do it!! Tell him that you really like him and regret ever breaking up and if he wants to give you another chance. Tell him to call you Sunday night so you can talk. If he turns you down, dont be upset. Obviously, he isnt the guy youre supposed to be with and if he does, CONGRATS! Be confident and strong and dont let him break your heart. I know you can do it, Good luck girly!!
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HeAtHeR!
Hey, its your advice columnist NicoleMarie. I had my first sonogram yesterday but its still 2 early to see if its a boy or girl. But now i'm excited. Can anyone give any ideas for baby names? But nothing too common. Thank you!
Congratulations on the new baby!!
Girls:
Andi
Summer
Hayden
Apple *Gwyneth Paltrow named her baby Apple*
Paris
Cassie
Skye
Kristi
Kina *Kee-na*
Marci
Amie
Cherry
Katie
Ashton
Jastin
Heather *MY NAME!! =)*
Coral
Automn *I dont know how to spell it*
Boys:
Lucas *Luke*
Hunter
Skylar
Kenton
Robert *Robbie*
Andrew
Jordan
Alex
Cole
Colin
Sean
Those are some cute ones! Good luck naming the baby!!
how can i find out how big my boobs are [ possibly a way i coudl find out at home?]
>You can see what size your bra is? Or take a tape measure and wrap it around your chest, going over your nipples and that measurement is what numerical size they are.
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iight i was suppose to go back out w/ this guy and me and him where on the phone from 11:30 till 1:35...well...when i got off the phone w/ him i was on the phone w/ this other guy...and he as telling me how ppl came up to him at skool and told him that he had a hott girlfiend(they where talking bout me) and he told them that i wasn't his girlfriend...well i was like *Sam ill be ur girlfriend and then out of no where we jst started going out...well i haven't talked to *Doug since then...and then today my friend was like o yeah me and *Doug are going out and i was like since when and she was like since 11:30 last nite! i know i shouldn't be mad but idk wat to do?
If you actually liked Doug* then why did you EVER think about going out with Sam*?? That sounds a little ridiculous. I think you have the right to be somewhat mad especially at your friend for going out with your ex-boyfriend but you cant be mad at Doug*, only yourself. I think you should stay with this Sam* kid unless you really dont like him. The best thing I can think of is to be good friends with Doug*, maybe then he'll want to get back together in the future. Good luck sweetheart!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!
I have two best buds, but they treat me like a third wheel! Whenever ones not somewhere, THEN the other one actually treats me normaly. Then my other bb comes back and there like..who are YOU again? I've tried talking to them, and they say they'll change, but they never do. And don't tell me to dump them.
If you already tried talking to them and that doesnt work. And you wont dump them as friends, what else can you do? My advice is to make new friends that treat you better but keep those friends. Maybe you can invite them over to your house because then I doubt they'll leave you out, it is YOUR house. Or you can invite just one friend to hang out one day and the next ask the other. You cant ALWAYS hang out with both of them, so spend time with each alone. Good luck with your amigas.
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!
Hey...I'm just starting the 9th grade..and it sux! Last year I had SO many friends and people I knew in my classes and alot of people knew me...but they split the middle schools into 2 different highschools..and this year there is like NO ONE I know in my classes and at lunch! I can be a really friendly person but I'm really shy and just can't seem to make any new friends? Please Help..
You should join some clubs that you really enjoy then you can meet people with the same intrests. Talk to people in your classes and get to know them. At lunch, ask people who seem like really cool people if you can eat with them. You can make awesome friends that way, I made my best friend in 7th grade by asking if I could eat with her. We're still friends and I'm a sophomore! Good luck meeting new people!!
ok i really need help my bf dumped me cuz i talk 2 my guy friends and now he wants me back and bad i dont know wut 2 do my friends and fam hate him and he's not the best bf dut i still miss him wut do i do.... help me
My advice to you is to move on from him. My family and friends really hated my boyfriend too because he didnt treat me right. We broke up for a week and I ended up taking him back, part of me regrets it because hes not the best bf in the world. He's trying but it doesnt seem like hes trying hard enough to be good to me. I do everything for him and really get nothing in return. Trust me, you should get out of it now while you have a chance. Find someone better, someone who treats you like a princess and with the respect you need. If in a few weeks you feel like you really love this guy and no matter what people say you want to be w/ him, then get back together. No one is stopping you... Good luck and think about what youre going to do.
LoVe,
HeAtHeR
this year for clothes i'm really on a budget. where are places i can get cheap, but cute clothes?? not old navy, i'm sick of it. also, where are cheap places to get tight jeans??
Some good cheap stores are
Forever 21 *the best store ever*
5*7*9
Charlotte Russe
Urban Planet
Hollister has the BEST sales ever, I got tons of cute shirts for 10 bucks and cute cute pants/ jeans for 20!!
At most malls, there are small shopping stores that are usually cheap and TONS of places sell tight jeans. Good luck girly!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR
I live in a small town in Illinois. You know, where the corn and stuff is. Anyway, the only places we have to "hangout" is the movie theatre, ice rink, and a local pool. Other than that, we have nothing. Going to the same three places gets very boring, any hangout ideas for small towns?
Get together with friends at their houses or have parties in fields, that should be tons of fun. Have a bonfire, wow I want to live there! HaHa! Have fun!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!
ok im 13/f..i have a boyfriend that wants to do "stuff" like..he wants a h/j and stuff but im not really ready..hes expecting it though like tomorrow or something. PLEASE help :'(..idk what to do..
Thats the hardest part of a relationship, if yall date for quite some time, they expect to get some "stuff" in return. Dont force yourself to be ready and to grow up by tomorrow, nothing is worse than a boyfriend who pressures you or makes you feel quilty for not doing it. Honestly, you are very young. I didnt even kiss yet then, but the generations are growing up so quickly :-/
Anyways, please dont let him pressure you into anything you dont want to do. Stand your ground, be proud of yourself when you dont do it, and let him no straight up you arent going to give him a hand job or anything else. Be strong and confident!! Good luck sweetheart!! Tell me how it goes!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!!