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okay. long story. okay. so yesterday "thursday" some kids dared me and this girl to kiss. so we did. and so someone convinced me to tell my b/f. and so did. and he got really pissed. but he "said" he got over it and he wasn't pissed anymore [[yesterday]] so today, i went to this thing after school. and so i got these 3 guys to call him and say "dude, your girlfriend is a really good kisser" and hang up. but i NEVER made out with any of them. and he got really mad. and he left a comment on my profile. it says. "I will never trust you again.You broke my heart.I trusted you with everything now that is shattered.you meant everything to me now you mean nothing i will remember you but hope i will forget.you were my life,but thats now over. I HATE YOU" i don't know if he means it. and i don't feel bad for getting them to call him. but i do feel a little guilty because i hurt him. but i don't really care about him. or i don't want to. because everyone i've ever dared to love has gone. and. i just need to know if i should care. i mean. we've been through alot. and i do think i love him. but i don't want to. i mean. i care. but. what should i do. i don't wanna loose him. i really don't. i can't afford to. i mean. he's been there for me through all my bullshit. and i think i hurt him really badly. and. i really just need to know what to do.
i don't know what to do without him. and i guess i do care. but i dont want to [[sorry for the repitition]] please help. everytime me and him have gotten in a huge fight i started cutting again or i've attempted suicide. i really need him in my life. i can't lose him. (link)
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you need serious proffessional help in your life! you have 3 different guys call him and act like you made out with them and you wanna know if he means what he says? hell yes he means it. You said that youdared to love has gone so you figure the best way to blow him off is to make him feel like a fool for being good and faithful to you, when you go out kissing other girls and playing dumb tricks on him? shame on you, if you've been hurt before you should know what that shit can do to people! aand stop that cutting shit, find someone you can talk to and releive your frustrations!
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I'm a freshman and I'm on the swim team for my high school.
This past weekend we went to State swim meet that was about 3 hours away.
Friday night we had so much fun. We played a game for like 3 hours with the whole team.
Well, the whole time this guy named Aaron kept flirting with me.
In the game, people have to kill someone and he kept saying, you can't kill my baby! I'll kill you! .. and joking we were the married couple and all.
Then Saturday he was sick all day, but when we got back to the hotel, he felt fine, and we all had to go into these two rooms for 3 hours before we could go back to the meet.
So we were all playing video games and he was playing around my waist and everything, and being a stupid and joking.
So when we got back on the bus, he asked me to Winter Formal.
Which would be amazing, right?
No, because did I mentoin he's a senior? Hah, he is.
He's only 17, but he's a senior.
And why would a senior ask a freshman to Winter Formal?
But I mean, he's the sweetest guy ever.
I went to sleep on the bus last night with nothing, and I woke up with his pillow and blanket, because he said I looked cold.
I just don't know what to do!
Sorry that this is so long!
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well i think that the guy might really like you and is not just after sex. Some guys are akward and gentle and just because he is older dosen't mean he only likes older girls. if you like him you should go out with him, but if he lives three hours away from you that might be a problem. if you feel you can handle the relationship. you should go for it.
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I am doing the song Autumns Monoloque by From Autumnss to ashes and i cant seem to find or figure out the piano part i know its easy i just cant seem to do it please will someone help me please help (link)
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If you go to Music notes.com and type in the name of the song it will give you a free sheet music download, and tell you just what notes to play for the part.
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I’m sure you would agree with me in me saying drugs are bad, but I’ve made some pretty bad mistakes and I think I may be addicted. For a few months, I’ll say about 7; I’ve been using prescription drugs like hydrocodone and oxycodone. Sometimes I eat them, sometimes I snort them. A friend of mine warned me about addiction, and I’m a little worried that I could be. I’m pretty much an everyday user, and even in school, friends and even teachers tell me I should cool it. I take more and more each time, and when I didn’t have my “fix” I felt horribly sick…I didn’t even wanna go to school. [Usually, I’m pretty good about school, since I got caught skipping it.] I’ve noticed odd symptoms like nausea, headaches, nosebleeds, dizziness, blurred vision, irritability, irrational thoughts, stomach pain…and a lot more. I just don’t want to tell my mom about it, because I told her I’ve been sober since summer. And my brother knows about it, because he uses too, but since I’m younger than him, I’m afraid he’d nark on me or something. My mom doesn’t care when he comes home high, only because he’s an adult. I’m 16 and a girl, so she doesn’t like me doing it, also because of my little sister. I’ve tried to stop, and I did for a long time, but I always get back into it. A friend of mine also told me I was going through withdrawal [when I mentioned sickness]…could I possibly be addicted to opiates? (link)
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you are addicted. what you need to do is go to your school councelor and tell her/ him whats going on. they will keep it confidential and help you with your problem
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Let me say first that I am not getting one im just curious. How do abortions work? (link)
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there are different types of abortions, there is partial birth abortion, where the baby is fully developed and is pushed out of the vagina until only the head is out, then the doctor takes a vacum like machine and sucks the babies brain out killing it. then there is the regular abortion, where the mother is injected with some kind of fulid that kills the child before it is fully developed and then the docter reaches up there and takes it out.
I know this only because i had to write a paper about it.
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Well, I got my report card a few weeks ago, and I had all A's.. BUT ONE B. I worked so hard! And guess what.. It was in Gym. So, because of that, I didn't get high honor roll. My mom already had a conference with them, but I still got a B, because apparently "I don't try hard enough." & I argued by saying that mostly everyone playing were guys (the girls don't do anything) & how I can't play against guys because that's not fair & that a lot of times I didn't feel good (to which the teacher said he could run a mile on two hands if HE didn't feel good - whatever), and blah blah blah. I guess the teacher just doesn't like me that much. Anyway, there's nothing to do about it anymore I guess. I will try harder next time, but I'm a perfectionist..
SO my question is: How can I get over it? It just pisses me off so much! (link)
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Im not going to tell you how to get over it anytime soon, because the truth is, you won't, I know. Anyhow just say exactly how you feel about it, cussing and all to someone you trust, and then get there reaction, if they say they understand or thats bullshit or something to the effect of agreeing with you, then it tends to make you feel better, because you have some other people backing you up.
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Hey iam 17 years old and i have this really bad cussing habit that iam trying to stop.
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I used to cuss alot, i still cuss, but not as much, but anyhow i started replacing cuss words with phrases that make no sense, like instead of f&*k, i would say somthing like "flipping fat man on a scooter" or instead of shit say "shitaki mushrooms on a sub sandwich". Wierd stuff like that, this advice will probably get rated like a two or somthing, but its what i do, and i hope it will work out.
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Hello, my conflict is to find out what kind've laptop would be good for me. I wanted to use it to store school stuff on it, play a few computer games and just use it as a personal computer for myself. My price range is $600-1200. I know that toshibas and panasonic and dell computers are good, but i dont know haha. I just need some opinions. (link)
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Ok, my aunt went to the sam's club and bought my cousin a laptop for $400.00, she said that was the cheapest, so im pretty positive that you could find a good one there, or somewhere else for well within your price range. Jusdt go to a store and ask the sales person what kind you arwe looking for and the should be able to point you to a quality computer.
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How many grams of sugar should can I consume for a fat burning diet???
I am male, 6 foot and 217 pounds.... (link)
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both of the people who answered this question before me are right. In september i was diagnosed with type two diabeties. I am a male 5'10" and at the time i weighed 285, but the last time i wieghed i was 260, and i can tell that i am still losing. All I had to do was use sugar substitutes, like splenda and all that good stuff, but Splenda is too damn expensive, so i use the generic brand, or the grocery store label. It comes in large quantites just like regular sugar and it is a little bit cheaper than splenda. It taste jsut like sugar and it will take the fat off quick.
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im 14/f. i used to be very close to my sister who is only 15 months older then me. we shared a room for 14 years and i just got my own room. now we fight all the time. i tried killing my slef over this fight we had. i was hurting so much. she had sided with her frind. like she chose water over blood. she did this to me once when i was in 6th but i blew it off. [i had more patince then] atempting suicide was my cry for help but my mom blew it off as teenage hormons. i have never yelled at my parents or talked back to them. one day i screamd my head off at my mo for no reason at all. at random moments i cry, scream, lash out. i dont kno what is wrong with me. for about a week my mom avioded me. i dont kno why she doesnt like me. lately she ha sbeen nice but i think it is just becuase she feels sorry for me. we used to be so close but i messed up somewhere and i have no idea what i did. my dad is never home; he leavs for work at 5:45am and doesnt come home till 11:00pm. i never see him and we also used ot be close. now when he is home he yells at me becuase i am always getting in the way or messing up. lately i ahve been forgetting things i say i will do. i am not doing this unpurpose i just cant remember anything anymore. i feel like a cmplete screwup. i have no control of my emotions and i ahve no idea why. i dont kno how to tell somebody directly and i have no one i can tell this to to help my out in person. i fear i will one day soon take my own life. something has to be worng with me please i dont know what to do anymore. (link)
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did you try apologizing to your mom for yelling at her, then telling her how you feel. i have seen things like this before, where a parent cant get close to a child and vice versa, and it is all because of mis-communication. Maybe your mom is avoiding you because you yelled at her, and she dosn,t know what is wrong with you. If you sit down in a nice way and talk to her, then im sure some good will come of it. I sincerely hope that that helps the situation, and i wish you the best.
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okay so ive been "talking" to this guy for over a year now. i met him the first time a year ago and he asked for all my info and we talked ALOT and still do. i saw him 4 more times this past two weeks. i cant see him much b/c he goes to college two hours away but i mean its not too much of a problem bc i love talking to him. hes who i go to whenever stuff comes up. bad thing is.. i think he likes me but i dont think he looks at me as a girlfriend like i want him to. we hooked up the past four times we've been hanging (as bad as that sounds..) but its always after we're done hanging out and right before we're about to sleep. im scared that its hard for him to look at me as a girlfriend material bc we've hooked up everytime weve hung out besides the first time and i dont really act the way i would w/ a boyfriend. what should i do to help him see that im girlfriend material and not just a hook up? or not just a friend? i mean i can kind of tell he likes me and hes said it before.. (link)
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well here is a thought... stop hooking up. especially if YOU think you are moving to fast. next time, around the time when you two would usually start to do your thing, tell him you want to talk and then ask him what you just asked all these columnists. Afterwards , or before if he just wants to have sex and not talk, im afraid that you are and forever will be "friends with benefits. But if he really cares about you then he should be down with whatever makes you happy. I hope that doesn't sound mean, because it isn't ment to be.
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last night i found out i have mono .. yeh i know that sucks but anyways my boyfriend said that i could get some stuff online with his american express gift card he got for christmas. i found some stuff i wanted and i got him a sweatshirt. i didnt know the exact price for all the stuff last night when he asked so i told him id look in the morning and he asked what i got and when i said i got him a sweatshirt he got mad. we talked about it last night he said he was mad because i knew that he didnt want the sweatshirt and to get stuff for myself. but today he asked him if i cancelled the order so he didnt get the sweatshirt and you cant so i said i would go to the store and return it and then give him the money back for the sweatshirt and i told him how much the bill was and he got mad even though he told me i could use the whole card which was 100.00$ he said that im rude and disrespectful and that i dont listen. i was trying to be nice and get him a little present. i dont understand why hes so effing angry please help (link)
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i dont really get that myself. I know that if i told my girl she could use my money to buy anything she wanted, i would mean anything SHE wanted. And if she bought somthing for me, i would kind of be angry and disapointed. so that could be it, but maybe he just has anger problems and means the same thing i do. Maybe ask him what it was that made him so mad
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I'm looking for a new guy, but everyone around me seems so...mean to me. Let's just say, i'm the one of those girls that are all about make up but you know, a girl that looks like a girl but isn't dainty or girly.(No offense) So everyone picks on me, and i do not know why. So i don't want to ask anyone at my skewl, but then again, i don't get the chance to get out and go to the mall or movies or anything because i need to focus on school. I'm already getting A's so what else do i need to focus on? Well, anyway. How do i find a new guy? Do i change my image or something? Also i'm trying to find a new guy because i need to get over my Exboyfriend. SO thanks alot .
Age:14
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first of all, dont change anything unless it will make you happy. Second, somtines you just have to wait and see what comes along. somtimes the best things in life come to those who use patience. maybe you just need some other out let to help you get over your ex. Maybe drawing or painting, or writing, singing. any kind of hobbie to take your mind off the pressure. Speaking of that, dont even waist your time worrying about what assholes at school say about you. most of the time when people trash you its simply because they are truly treatened by somthing about you. i know this because i have been on both sides of the table. the point is, when the time is right, you'll find a new boyfriend. Trust me
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Okay, so this may sound really stupid, but oh well. My friend told me she was like stradling her bf making out and then her boyfriend's best friend was like "Ohh you boned (lets call him billy) Billy". And he said it to her like it was a bad thing for "Billy". and she asked me what that meant. so basically, what does "boning" a guy mean?
...andd why is it bad for the guy?
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boning anybody means screwing them, and the only way i can think of it being bad for the guy would be snice the girl was on top, and not the other way around.
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im 14/f
yes.im afraid of breaking up with my bf. i mean, i have all this support from my friends but im more concerned about his feelings.i have perfect reasons for wanting to break up with him, but at the same time i dont. and when i do i dont kno if i shold call him or message him, or what.im scared hes gonna get sad and ill be the bad guy. what should i do (link)
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I thin kyou should sit down with him face to face, in a private place and tell him how you feel. Assure him that you dont want to hurt his feelings, but it just isn't working out.
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i got put in this art class at school, and i'm the only girl in it! there are 2 other freshman guys who i'm kinda friends with but they're like bffs, and there are 3 junior boys who don't even talk to us. and idk i really hate being the only girl in class its soooo awkward but if i drop out of that class, i'll have a study hall by myself and i reallyreallyreally don't want that! help??? oh yea this class is every single day too, so i don't know what to do. but it's fine arts credit and it's something to do! and i rlly like art, but mainly cartoons and stuff not really "design" and stuff we're learning here. (link)
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keep taking the class and talking to your friends. Do your art thing at let the rest fall into place. Usually in situtations like this, by the time its over, everybody is friends and you sit back and think about how it all got started. Everything will work out for the best. Trust me
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I NEED A CHANGE!! I have somewhat long hair...probably 4 or 5 inches past my shoulders which is a somewhat mousy/golden brown. I have brown eyes and pale skin. What should I do?! (NO haircut..something different) (link)
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you should try layering it and getting some dark brown low lites. The layers will keep your length, but add some fullness and volume to your hair, and you will be able to wear many different styles, the low lites will coplement your complextion and your eye color. just a suggestion.
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i got in touch with my dad last year after 8 years. one of my aunts (she's 28 i'm 18) use to call me all the time and w'e talk. she made me feel special i couldn't wait for the phone to ring! now the other day i called her and she said to call her the next day. i asked her y and she said i'm going to forget. i was bothered by this because she told me that whenever she wnats to tlk to ppl she makes time for them. she took me back and i don't think she should have told me that. i feel that since a year has passed she's acting different. when i first got my cell phone the first few days before it got messed up she never called. she would only say i'm going to call u tomorrow then i'd end up calling her instead and she'd always call her bf on the other line or they'd be talking already and she'd make it a three way. now i got my phone again and she never called she only returned my calls. i think it's unfair for her to expect me to call and she can't remember to call me anymore. i called her a few days after she told me that and she never called back. i think she's messed up to call at first and now she can't even remember no more
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I agree with pink fox. Stop calling her. No matter how much you want to talk to her, if she cant make time for you, then dont keep putting yourself through all this mental anguish. Its just driving you up the wall and im sure you can find other things to do. I had the exact same situation with one of my friends. She never called me, only returned, and never came to my house, i always had to come to hers, and she was always hanging out with her boyfriend and other people, but never had time to hang out with me. So one day i said to hell with it and stopped calling her and going to her house and now she asks why dont you call anymore, or why dont you come to my house. I just tell her i dont have time , and make plans to hang with other people. Now i am a helluva lot happier and we get along much better too. Try that and see what happens.
Hope i helped.
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well for the past year i have been seeing this guy over the net the thing is we both love other more than life i go onto his myspace or bebo and they will have commets from other girl and him replying to them in the same way he replys to my txts messagers i have confronted him about this he said someone else was useing he's account i really dont belive him guys all he mates says he users it when i see the commmets hes let for some other girls it makes me cry when i hang up the fone i cry when im on the phone to him he always says stuff like i would never play you i love you i wanna marry you he says that he has never said anything like that to anyone but i dunno im lost but in love help me ?? (link)
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you should ask him to put a comment on myspace saying that he has not said anything to any of these girls and he loves you and you only. If he says some kind of half ass excuse to not do it, then you need to let his ass go.
I see girls at my school who go through the same thing all the time, and people walk around calling them stupid and they dont even know it. Dont put yourself through that, just go ahead and take care of business, and go on with your life.
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alot of my friends are going farthur and farhtur with thier bf's lately, and i want to with mine, i'm just worried about it, being self concious i mean. I shave, but how do i know if thats what he likes? will it be awkward, whatever we do? what if i'm bad at it? what if i'm wierd "down there" or something? (link)
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first you should make sure that you want to go farther for you and him and not to keep up with your friends. Second, if you do, then just relax and go with the flow, if let him take a peek at your layout, and judge for himself. If he likes it thats great, if he doesn't, thats ok too. just talk about it and find a compremise., but if he is a normal guy, then unless you have a wierd smell down there, you wont have anything to worry about.
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