I'm a freshman and I'm on the swim team for my high school.
This past weekend we went to State swim meet that was about 3 hours away.
Friday night we had so much fun. We played a game for like 3 hours with the whole team.
Well, the whole time this guy named Aaron kept flirting with me.
In the game, people have to kill someone and he kept saying, you can't kill my baby! I'll kill you! .. and joking we were the married couple and all.
Then Saturday he was sick all day, but when we got back to the hotel, he felt fine, and we all had to go into these two rooms for 3 hours before we could go back to the meet.
So we were all playing video games and he was playing around my waist and everything, and being a stupid and joking.
So when we got back on the bus, he asked me to Winter Formal.
Which would be amazing, right?
No, because did I mentoin he's a senior? Hah, he is.
He's only 17, but he's a senior.
And why would a senior ask a freshman to Winter Formal?
But I mean, he's the sweetest guy ever.
I went to sleep on the bus last night with nothing, and I woke up with his pillow and blanket, because he said I looked cold.
I just don't know what to do!
Sorry that this is so long!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kathleenx answered Monday November 19 2007, 5:24 pm: Hey. Omg, that's adorable.
I personally don't think he's just looking for action.
If he was, he wouldn't have put a pillow and blanket on you, he'd probably try to like take advantage of you or something, or just let you sleep the way you were. Also, instead of putting his hand or your waist, it would have been on your ass or something. It seems to me like he really likes you.
I would go to the Winter Formal with him, if I were you.
Fatcat07 answered Monday November 19 2007, 2:45 pm: well i think that the guy might really like you and is not just after sex. Some guys are akward and gentle and just because he is older dosen't mean he only likes older girls. if you like him you should go out with him, but if he lives three hours away from you that might be a problem. if you feel you can handle the relationship. you should go for it. [ Fatcat07's advice column | Ask Fatcat07 A Question ]
*Kate* answered Monday November 19 2007, 1:54 pm: It is possible that he really does like you, but then again it is possible for him to just be a total jerk and want to use you. I say you should go with him to the winter formal and give him a chance. Just see how it goes, but if he doesn't respect you don't continue to see him. Not all guys are like that, and he may just like dating younger girls because they are more fun and cause less drama. He sounds really sweet, so I think you should give him a chance.
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