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i don't want to be just a hook-up..
okay so ive been "talking" to this guy for over a year now. i met him the first time a year ago and he asked for all my info and we talked ALOT and still do. i saw him 4 more times this past two weeks. i cant see him much b/c he goes to college two hours away but i mean its not too much of a problem bc i love talking to him. hes who i go to whenever stuff comes up. bad thing is.. i think he likes me but i dont think he looks at me as a girlfriend like i want him to. we hooked up the past four times we've been hanging (as bad as that sounds..) but its always after we're done hanging out and right before we're about to sleep. im scared that its hard for him to look at me as a girlfriend material bc we've hooked up everytime weve hung out besides the first time and i dont really act the way i would w/ a boyfriend. what should i do to help him see that im girlfriend material and not just a hook up? or not just a friend? i mean i can kind of tell he likes me and hes said it before..
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okay well he must have some feeligns for u otherwise ii doubt he would hook up with u. But just ask him over the phone or something.Just be like what kind of relationship do we have or something to tht affect. Just tell him you like him && see were it goes from there. Cause if he doesnt like you && he just wants you for hook ups.. then kick him to the curb ! every girl ddeserves much better then tht !
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Me bein a Guy, I hate snich'n on how we act ....maybe he likes you, maybe hes usin you, but that long distance relationship most of the time, and I'm sorry to say that, dont work out...Just remember where he's at, and he needs stories to tell his friendz too....that release is just enough to be excepted, and who knows if a another person "girl" finds out, or sees that he's there for you they might find that attractive and want some of that...fuck buddies are sorta in, but the bad thing is sometimes, one person, gets the boot....it sux to hurt...
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well here is a thought... stop hooking up. especially if YOU think you are moving to fast. next time, around the time when you two would usually start to do your thing, tell him you want to talk and then ask him what you just asked all these columnists. Afterwards , or before if he just wants to have sex and not talk, im afraid that you are and forever will be "friends with benefits. But if he really cares about you then he should be down with whatever makes you happy. I hope that doesn't sound mean, because it isn't ment to be.
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