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I can help anyone that needs help with some things in there life that they need answers for. Ive been through a lot so just leave me a question. :)
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i think im gay. i think i have been for a long time and i havent told anyone yet and im so incredibly afraid to. i would lose most of my friends, my parents would hate me and the rest of my school would shun me and question me all the time. it would ruin my life to tell anyone. i make friends with guys all the time and i dont typicially have anything for them but i met this one guy recently. and i cant stop thinking about him. everywhere i go i always see something that reminds me of him and i feel so outcasted but thinkin bout him and bein around him makes me happy. but i cant tell him because he would ruin it and i dont know how he would take it. i dont know why im confiding this in you, but i need advice about this and have needed it for a while. and the thing is i dont think about him all sexually i think about his personality and how he makes me smile. i think this is the best way to get advice since its random and mabye you wont laugh at this. i just need help.
first of all have you ever found yourself around very attractive women and not be happy? answer this question and ill answer yours. dont even rank this answer
hey i feel really awkward telling you this because i don't really even know who you are, but here it goes... i went through a "stage of depression" i guess you might call it, a while ago and it got really bad. i became bulimic and i cut my wrists, i would cry every night and i d myself. the worst part was, my parents had no idea. they were oblivious to everything because everyone considers me a "good" kid and nobody would even think i would be like that. i knew then that i needed help before it got worse, but i didn't have anyone to turn to. one time i even took a knife to school and i went into the bathroom and dug it into my leg (sorry if you don't want to read this :-/) but now i have all these scars and i really regret what i did. And now my family is moving and i have to leave all my friends and sports teams and transfer schools. i'm getting really scared because it's making me worry about too much, and i'm getting depressed again. i stopped myself the other night from cutting myself again, i don't know why i do it though. i can tell i'm getting all depressed again because i always want to be alone and i pushed away the people that mean the most to me. i don't want to cut myself again but when i'm alone it's all i think about. i don't know who i should tell or what i should do, my parents think i'm excited about moving because it's like their "dream house"... any advice? :-/ thanks? -*jeanine
there is a lot of people who have cut thereselves from being depressed and all. its really sad and it hurts. maybe you should find something else to do like another activity and try and stop from being alone. and you should talk to someone secretely like a doctor or psychologist. telling your parents would only hurt them. my aim is tha fallen16 we can talk :). Hope i helped
I am going to a competion tomarrow i am so scard what do i do to calm my self?
yeah its easy to get nervous but if you try your best and if people are watching you and you feel like your on the spot just like bring one of your friends and do a good job for them. :)
Hey! You give really good advice.. haha and you're cute too.. :) I'm gonna add you to my fave's list if you don't mind?
~Lana
(xpianogirl89x)
thanks lana :). no problem you can add me
ok well my mom just went away. she goes away every january andlast year she almost drowned twice!!! so i had this dream a month ago and i woke up crying because i thought she was dead, and it took me a while, and i really mean a while, to figure out it was a dream cause i thought it really happened. and i keep having these day dreams of her dying. idk whats wrong. please help me cause i don't want to be like going up to my mom saying "can i see a psychiotrist,i keep having day dreams of u dieing." so psychiotrist is out of the question. please help!!
sry bout the length!
i see. well its all in your head if you stop thinking about it the dreams will go away and there will be no more worries my friend :) HoPe I HelpEd buddy
ok, my parents are divorced, i think all my friends talk about me and hate me, and i think my moms going to die!! whats wrong with me? sometimes i feel like cutting myself but i don't. i just think thats not how u solve things but i feel like doing it so mucch. my life is soooo screwed. canyou help??
im sorry. some of my friends have divorces families to and its really hard handling it. my grandmom died and i know its hard to see someone about to die. i hope you will just try to make the best of how your mom is and if you have people talking behind your back just ditch them and choose new friends and earn trust :) HoPe I HelPed
well theres this guy and me were not going out, but we always talk and we always make plans to do stuff and go places and he always talks to me and even flirts alot and he does alot of thing he does with me that he doesnt do with other people so i know he likes me and he knows i like him but today i found out that he has a girlfriend and im just really crushed like just miserable cause i liek this guy alot hes like greatest guy ive met, but what should i do, just stay strong or spill out my feelings to him? any suggestions? ill rate high
and sorry so long!
i think you should show him you really love him, it looks like he REALLY likes you so i think he will like you too! and its ok that you wrote a lot! it helps! I HoPe I heLped :)
i have sorta olive/ tan skin... what casual nailpolish colors look good with that?
i rate high
tan skin is very nice. i would go with a bright kind of red color! hope i helped :)
There is this boy at skool who is really hot, and he has a twin brother, and his brother is going out w/ my friend. I think that he is going out w/ my other friend, but I don't know. I also think that he may like me. He is always smiling at me and when he walks by me he slows down and at luch he is always looking at me, and i know that I don't have food on my face. Do you think he likes me? What happens if he does will my friend be mad at me? I'll rate high.
He probably does like you. i bet your friends will be mad but if you like him back find a way to get the word out to him! :) HoPe i HelPed!
I usually dont show my legs or clevage because i have very dark hair and even when i shave black dots remain.my clevage has very very dark hair even though it is not alot, it is visible because it is so dark.i dont know what to do.i want to dress very sexy but i feel very limited because of the dark hair on my back, stomach and clevage area. ive waxed them but they just grow back and waxing hurts alot. please help.
ok if those black dots keep appearing just take make up and put it over the spots. there are very good make ups to cover those areas then you dress SEXY!:) hope i helped!
Hey- I'm a 13/Fem. and this Q is for the men in here... I'm a VERYYYYYYY outgoing, loud, bold, independent, and unpredictable person. I dont follow and rules, and I sort of stick out for the rest of the girls at school because of this. Many of my close friends say that it would be intimadating for a guy. I have many guy friends, but I have never had a boyfriend...is my behavior intimadating? what would YOU consider intimadating??
well a person that is intimadating would be someone that is too HOT for me. If you want a bf just try and be nice :) HopE i helped!
My crush was asking me why he doesn't get any hugs! i said i didn't know and then put on a sad face! so i said u wanna hug and he was like sure! so i gave him a hug! was he just flirtig or was it nothing just a hug?!
hugs are very special. but if you really like him you should get your friend to tell him you do =D and then it will be even better!
i like a boy whose a senior and im a freshman.. ha if my mom knew we ever did anything shed kill me.. what do i do?.. continue to do what ive done the past 2 weeks behind her back.. or drop him?
continue to do what you want! its ok to like older people. it just means that your more mature. just keep it sneaky :p
ok when you see people on tv they always have like glowing faces... like in the movie mean girls... i was wandering... where can you get stuff that looks like that shimmery or whatever? any suggestions? thanx
--i rate high--
yeah i see those glowing faces too. they have lots of lights on them during the movie and they wear a good amount of make up
what happened when a guy gets an erection? can he get one from making out?
yes. it can always happen but just try not thinking about sex when you are making out. then you might get emberassed =D
What is the right age for a male to start getting erection and be able to burst?? I am thirteen years old but I still cant have any erection...But all of my friends (same age) say they can have erection...Some even say they have been having erection since they were 11 or 12?? Maybe this sounds gay but I have actually seen them having erection in the mall or in the school shower...Is this bad? I am so worry about it...Is it possible that I won't be able to have any erection throughout my whole life??
you will soon. but just wait untill you go through puberty. and you will have it just dont worry man.
Okay well my boyfriend just recently moved away ((yesterday)) and we are doing a long distance relationship. and i knew lots of people hated me when he was here and lots of people hated him to but when he was here i didnt care what people thought of me and now that hes gone i just want to move away. i am sick of it. i have dealt with people being mean and talking bad about me all of my life and i am just getting so fucking sick of it. i need him here to help me back to my old self. but now i just cant handle it. i am losing friends now because they are saying i should break up with him and im like no i love him. i want to move to virginia with my boyfriend life was better with him. what should i do?
you should move to virginia with him and follow your heart. tell your friends what truely matters to you.
Hope i helped! :)
i have hair (not a lot but it's noticable it you look closley) on my stomach, arms (on my arms i have a lot and it's brown), knuckles, and back. I'm a girl, is this normal?
yes it is perfectly normal for there to hair there. ive seen plenty of girls like that but i still like them because its only very small hairs.
im out of style and have no money what should i do??
try your best to find a job then with that job you can get some money and get some nice clothes that everyone will like.
Okay, so I have this problem, im 16/f and ever since i can remember...Ive been harrassed by hispanics because of my butt. I have a ghetto booty and im white. People call me racist because I dont like talking or getting to know hispanics but its not that im racist i have NOTHING against them because i know a lot of them arent "dirty mexicans" but those who are, Im SCARED of them, I cry in public because im harrassed and the littlest things they do like wink at me, will make me cry just because i have been sexually harrassed since I can rememeber...Ive talked to my parents and they say im full of myself and that I think everyone is in love with me, so they dont help, ive talked to my sister , same thing and my friends cant do anyhthing about it. I talked to a lot of people about it, and im honestly scaared to death of them because they always make me feel uncomfortable, ive had them grab my butt and say dirty things in my ear, and I just cry...in public, please help :( I cant take it anymore. Please dont answer if your just gonna call me racist because Im not. Im scared.
lots of mexicans act this way because they like sexually harrising girls. just try to stay away from them. i think its ok to have a big butt and its very attractive. just dont let them tkae advantage of you. :)