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So 25/female
I used to think living with a guy for a roommate would be so much less drama but I was wrong.
I live with my best friend, well the guy I thought was my best guy friend. And lately he is becoming extremely rude and insulting and I don't know what to do anymore because we have another 5 months of our lease and neither of us can afford to break it.
I don't know if this started around the time I rejected his advances romantically. Well actually it was more sexual advances than romance because he doesn't do romance. And he knows I don't do casual sex so I don't know why he even tried. He knows me better than that.
But anyway there is specifically this one thing that he's doing lately that drives me absolutely insane and I've tried ignoring it, I've tried responding, I've tried just being nice and I lose every single time. What he does is everytime there's people over or even when there aren't but not as often, anytime I say something or make any sort of move or even come out of my room hell loudly joke with me asking me why I'm so angry all the time. Or I say something and he'll respond in front of everyone "don't get mad" and then him and his friends all laugh. It drives me crazy because I'm not mad not even a little bit but if I say that he'll respond "it's ok you don't have to be mad" or they'll just laugh more. If I ignore it they'll take it as "see she's pissed now you got her mad" and laugh if I smile and say something nice they'll still take it as I'm mad. I don't have an out.
I tried speaking to him about it in private and his response is the typical "I'm just messing with you Ashley relax, don't be so sensitive"
And I even tried not to care. I'm learning about Buddhism, meditation, psychology, how to not let things get to you. But when every move you make they Call you the angry girl and laugh it really ruins my day no matter how happy I am that day.
It's so stupid and immature. So I guess my question is what can I do or say to get him to shut up. Like a really good comeback or action I can take to get him to leave me alone until I can move out. It's really stressing me out.
Thanks in advance.
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I know exactly where you're coming from I hate when people accuse me of being mad when I'm not mad, that actually makes me mad. I think you should play a little prank on him. Tell him you're moving out and he has to pay for the place himself. Tell him you talked to your landlord about the problems you have with him and they decided to take you off the lease. If he is at all affected by this let him know it was a prank or not and let him know you have decided to stay but if you really have to you will leave. See if that shuts him up! Good luck!
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Ok my iphone 3g fell out of my pocket into a bucket of water! it was in there for all of three seconds. I stuck it in rice about five hours later cuz i was at school. Now about 12 hours later its turning on and the brightness is screwed. How bad of damage could i have. Everything seems to work fine. I just cant get it to turn off with out automaticly turning back on. Also I dont want my parents to know they will flip! (link)
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u have to put rice in a zip lock bag &nd keep the phone closed in there for a day or two without messing with it &nd it shuld be fine
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Well, I'm 14 and I'm not really sure how to go about this so please bear with me. My mom is thinking about getting an abortion. For awhile she was really sick so we went to the hospital and found out that she's pregnant with twin. I was SHOCKED but happy nonetheless. I already love those two as much as I love my little brother (he's one). I honestly thought my mom was happy too but I guess not because she dropped the bomb today that she was thinking about abortion. Now, my mom has A LOT of medical issues going on, most of which I don't even really know. However I do know that she has fibromyalgia (a type of arthiritis) and she had to have surgery on her stomach more than once :\ Both of her pregnancies (mine and my brother's) were high risk, but we came out pretty healthy (despite our asthma). She's no longer with the man that gave birth to my brother. But she's got me, and the rest of our family for emotional support. So, I guess what I'm trying to ask is: how can I get her to say no to abortion? Thanks :) (link)
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Tell your mom that you would really like her to have the babies and that you will give her all the help that you can. Tell her she will never know what she can get from the twins when they get older one or both might become famous and turn out really good. Just try to convince your mom with good things and if it doesn't work if your mom has a soft side you should cry alot to tell her you really want them but if she can't keep them because of her health and financial support tell her to consider adoption instead of abortion and ask her to see if someone you all know can adopt them.
Hope everything works well. Goodluck sweetie.!
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im 15 years old and last year on thanksgiving my family got together and my 56 year old aunt brought her bf who is 26 and every family thing he is always there with my aunt and i hang around with them because i think they are really cool. Anyways I know that he's been in jail a lot of times and he has tattoos all over his body and I know he smokes weed. He txts me and he recently told me he broke up with my aunt and that he really likes me. I really like him but it kinda scares me. He said he wants to have sex with me but i told him im only 15 and he says he will wait until i turn 18 to do anything...He knows where i live but I don't wanna stop talking to him cuz i like him. (My mom and dad have told me to stay away from him but I can't help it...They know he has txted me before but I told them we stopped txting) Everytime he txts me i get this nervous feeling in my stomach...i just dont know what to do cuz i dont wanna stop talking to him...I can't say goodbye to him... (link)
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Well there are two problems that I see in this situation. First of all he's your aunt's ex and second of all he's 26. If your aunt knew about this don't you think this will crush her and don't you care about her feelings? This is family you're talking about. And right now he's a grown man and he needs to find someone his age because he can go to jail for messing with a minor which is you. If you want to date I suggest you go with someone your own age and not with someone whose dated someone closed to you. You have to ask yourself how would u feel if you was in her shoes and she was in yours. Would you want your 15 year old niece to mess with a man who is 26 and who is also your ex boyfriend. Think about what you're doing and I think the best thing to do is let go because family is forever but relationships aren't you can always find someone else. I hope you do what's right and let him go. Goodluck sweetie. And if you ever need more advice feel free to ask me.
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I have really big dimples when I smile. Girls tell me that they are jealous that I have dimples, but do guys actually like them? Please put your opinion on dimples
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14 year old girl :) (link)
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Some guys do and some guys don't.
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i am a 15 year old female wondering if you could get pregnate from jacking off your boyfriend then fingering yourself? (link)
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If his semen or sperm got on your fingers and then you fingered yourself with his semen on your fingers you can be or get pregnant.
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Every single time I'm in a relationship, I never know what to do. I get so nervous that I barely even talk to whoever I'm going out with. When I break up with them, it's really hard for me to do. My first boyfriend was 2 years older than me and went out with my best friend. We became really good friends, and a month after their break up, we started going out. Before we talked on the phone EVERY SINGLE NIGHT, but then it was like I was completely speechless. And when he would try to get close to me or kiss me I would always turn away, really nervous. I ended up breaking up with him with that as one of the reasons. When I was going out with my second boyfriend, I felt torn because I thought I was still in love with my ex. I think it's hard for me to be in a relationship because of my nervousness because I feel really insecure about myself. It's not like I'm like that with my friends (that are girls). What should I do??? (link)
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Just explain to your boyfriend that for some reason you get nervous alot and you might not move as fast as he wants to in the relationship but tell him to give you a little time and you'll try to open up. Also you need to try to break out of your shell because no boy likes to be in a relationship if he can't get close or even touch his own girlfriend. Also maybe you're not ready to be in a relationship so I think you should break up with him before he does it to you or before he sneaks around on you because if he doesn't get anything from you he'll get it someone else (not all guys or like this) but it could happen and when you're sure you're ready to be in a relationship try being in one again.
If you need more advice feel free to ask me :)
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i had a password on my ipod and i forgot it now it wont let my go in what do i do ? (link)
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It seems like you will have to restore it which i have researched and seems to be the only way, this will sadly erase all content so if you are willing to put back your music/videos etc.. back, then go for it you do this by
1) Connect the iPod Touch
2) Press and hold sleep+home until the device reboots.
3) Keep holding until that "please connect me to iTunes"-screen appears
4) iTunes says something about having detected a touch in recovery mode. Allow it to do its thing.
If you get the -18 error, proceed:
5) Disconnect the iPod Touch
6) Close iTunes
7) Reconnect the iPod Touch
8) iTunes launches and shows message as in step 4, but this time, the recovery will work
**PS THE "HOME BUTTON" IS the that button on the bottom of the ipod touch screen which is pretty easy to find since there is no button on the ipod touch but that one and the sleep awake button is offcourse the one you use to turn it off or put it to sleep
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I'm detail how do I give a guy head? (link)
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Start by lubricating your mouth, you have to ensure that you are well hydrated so that you salivate enough to give him the right warm, wet feel.
Now there are two ways to start, you can directly get down to business and get on your knees or you could take things slow, start by kissing him passionately and trace your way down to his crotch. If you are new to this, the second way would be perfect for you.
Now, remember that to feel the part you need to dress up for it. So don't try to give your man head while you have donned your grandma's drawers. Get something sexy , nothing bespeaks a great blowjob like sexy lingerie, don't worry too much about your body because it is the attitude that makes you hot and sexy and a few extra pounds here and there will have n bearing at all on your sex appeal. Get some sexy lingerie for the occasion, put on some makeup, and try to dress up like a porn star if you don't know how to do so simply check out free porn online and try to imitate the look.
When your man walks in, surprise him with your look, add to the effect by preparing the room in advance with some candles, now trace your mouth to his crotch, kiss him through his boxers, caressing his penis. Then make him sit in his favorite chair and take of his boxers. kiss his penis softly from top to bottom use one hand to hold his shaft as you kiss it give it soft licks intermittently, look him in the eyes and moan as you lick your lips right before you start giving his shaft long yearning licks.
Get him nice and wet. Now take him in your mouth as you grip the base of his shaft tightly with our hand, take just the head in your mouth and swirl your tongue all over it. By now your man should be very, very hard. This is the right time to take him in your mouth and start sucking and moving your hands p and down his shaft stroking him while you suck. With your other hand massage his balls gently as you continue sucking his penis. Increase your pace as you go along sucking him harder and faster till he climaxes and that is all there is to an amazing blow job.
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My sister wanted me to take a picture with her and she wanted me to get behind her sofa. So on my way behind, I got a slight cut either from the wooden part of her sofa (she has the sofa where it can pull out into a bed) or it was possibly a carpet burn. I put medicine on it when I got home, but it just became a brown line across my leg. Is there a way to get rid of it or to even heal? It's been a week, and I haven't seen any improvement. Help? (link)
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Get this stuff called Mederma Scar Gel and it should work good on that scar. Good luck
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my bf and i were together for about 2 years but only had sex the last year we were together. we broke up about 5 months ago and i haven't been sexually active with anyone else. i just got with a new guy and he told me that he is a virgin. i didn't want him to think i'm easy because we are both only 17, so i told him a was a virgin too. will he be able to tell if im not a virgin if we end up having sex? (link)
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It really depends on the guy and how much he knows about sex. Most likely if he's still a virgin he shouldn't be able to tell if you're a virgin or not because he's never been inside any one else to know the difference between how a virgin feels and how someone who is not a virgin feels. But if he knows a good bit about sex he will probably wonder when he goes inside you why your hymen or "cherry" didn't pop or why you're not that tight but if you still want him to think you're a virgin use a tampon as a excuse because they can pop your "cherry" but i think you should be honest with him because if he doesn't find out from you he probably will from someone else and trust me i know from experience. Good luck with your situation and feel free to ask me for more advice :)
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I am from Kentucky. I used to date this guy named Braiden three years ago. We broke up because we couldn't get along and we were both too immature for a relationship at that point. However now he is in Afghanistan and we have both matured considerably since then. So we reconnected and decided that we still liked each other. I thought we were back on track and maybe going to talk about getting back together. The next thing I know he is in a relationship with another woman. When I asked him about it he said that he does not know what he wants. Then I decided to move on and see other people. He found out about it and got really angry. He said that if I loved him I would not be with anyone else yet he is still with another woman. He keeps saying he is going to leave her but he never does. Am I a fool to wait around? Why is he doing this? (link)
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I think he knows what he wants and obviously it's her because if he really wanted you he would be with you and not her and if he really didn't know what he wanted he wouldn't be with anyone until he knew which one of you he really wanted to be with. I think he just getting mad because he can't stand the fact of you being with someone else but it's not right for him to be able to do it and not you. You should do whatever you want like he is and if he comes around handle the situation but if he still sees other people then sweetie you should definitely move on and not waist your time on this guy because you never know if you could find someone better.
I hope this helped and feel free to ask for more advice. :)
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I used to have this best friend, and we were really close. We used to do everything together. After one year of being friends, she started to get mad at me over little things that weren't even my fault. When she was mad at me, she would trash talk me to my face so much that it made me cry and it still hurts to think about it. I would always have to apologize to her. When she ditched me for other people, I was upset to think that all of our friendship went to waste, but somewhat glad because I had never completely forgiven her. Now she acts like we are strangers and never gives me a second look. When I'm with my other friends, I talk about the good memories I had with her. Then, when I'm about to call her up and try to talk it out, I think about the bad in our friendship. Besides the trash talking to my face, it hurt me the way she treated me like a stranger. Also, it seemed like she would use me. She would always take my math hw without asking and even forced me to give her the answers to a math test (because she knows that I usually get above average grades in math). After all that, I know I shouldn't talk to her anymore especially because she encouraged me to do some bad stuff, but I miss our fun memories together. Is it worth it to let her go? (link)
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I think you should do what feels right to you and i know exactly what you're going through because i basically was going through the same thing not to long ago with someone that I thought was my "best friend" but i decided to let her go because i didn't think it was right for her to treat me the way she did that's just something friends don't do to each other constantly putting each other down and fighting over stupid things that's just not what so called "friends" should always do. Since I've let her go my life has been better and I haven't been mad and sad like I used to be just do what you think is best for you but if you don't think it's going to workout then let her go because you shouldn't waste your time on someone that doesn't appreciate you.
Good luck with your decision and by the way if you do get rid of her she will realize what she had when you're gone but it'll be too late. That's what happened with me and me now ex best friend.
Need more advice? Don't be afraid to ask me :)
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my ex and i are friends. Alot of people say he likes me although he denies it. we text hug ect and he always takes my stuff just so he can get my attention. just today i was rubbing my hand together caus they were cold so he grabbed them and placed them in his.... im not sure if this is friendship flirting or just him not knowing his boundries.
i like him but the last time we dated it was long distance and didnt last but now were at the same school.
to day i over heard his mate say "just ask her out" ROFL im not sure what to do i like him but dont want to be hurt again.
he asked me to his house this saturday to watch movies.... were still just friends.. does that mean anything
HELP thanks xoxoxox (link)
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I think maybe he's willing to go out with you again especially since it won't be long distance this time...maybe you should give it a try this time and I understand u don't want to get hurt but that's just part of life and you need to take chances...I hope I helped...good luck. :)
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alright my friends are way to over protective.
i like to hang with guys thats just me. even with my bf its hard to even hug.
like seriously they need to learn its my choices and who i hang with
what should i do (link)
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They are probably jealous because they might not have that special connection with the guys like you do...I think you should try to hook each of them up with someone to get to know or just introduce them to the guys to make them feel comfortable around them...good luck hope I helped.
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My wife of 24 years has just left me and moved back to her parents citing my unreasonable behaviour but I am suffering depression and on medication ,I have changed the way I react to people and sent all my phone contacts a text stating I was going to become a changed person ,given up smoking ,been going to a counsellor with my wife and now she says that she has not loved me for a couple of years.I have 2 boys 1 is 21 and in the army the other is 15 and she has left him here with me.she wants her freedom not a mothers commitment but I have no choice in the matter and i am left to pick up the shattered remains of our lives while she goes out all the time now with friends.should I give up on her and walk away or still try to save our marriage ,my boys want me to try and save the marriage and thats what I want to do but how long is trying to save a reasonable length of time.I am 56 and my wife is 44. (link)
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Ok well I think maybe you two should take a break...she said she did't love you and if yall don't have the same connection it really won't work out...maybe you should just be her friend for now and slowly work your way back up...in the mean time maybe you should have your fun too...try getting to know other women because if she's not the one you'll just be one step closer finding someone you're supposed to be with...don't give up...best of luck.
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so last week my boyfriend was fingering me and afterwards i realized i was bleeding. this was not the first time he had fingered me and im not a virgin either. however this is the first time i bled during it. this past weekend though, we had sex and everything was fine i didnt bleed or anything. later in the night though he fingered me, and i did start to bleed, kind of alot. is this normal?? someone please help me im not sure if something is wrong or not.. (link)
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This can happen if he's being rough with it he might be scratching the the walls of your vagina which might cause you to be just take it slow the next time if you're not
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I'm a fifteen, female.
I dated this guy for a few months and he broke up with me because there were rumors going around saying I cheated on him. I would never cheat on him. We lost contact for a while but there's not a day that goes by when I don't think about him. It's been five months since we broke up and a few days ago I ran in to him and we were hanging out for a couple of hours. He has a new girlfriend but he told me he's still in love with me? I still love him but I hardly get to see him since we go to different schools. I don't know what's going on. (link)
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Maybe he has realized that he made a mistake and he just wanted to let you know that by telling you his feelings maybe in a couple of months maybe even days you two may be at it again..you never know but for now maybe every time you two get in contact just get caught up with each other because there may be changes in you and him that each of you should know about each other.
Hope this helps and if you need anymore advice feel free to ask me.
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Every time I make friends with a guy, they treat me like a kid sister. I am teased so much! It's nothing offensive, just playful, but I don't know what to think.
Like if they look at my homework assignments, they pick on me for being too neat, or the way I write my 6's, or the way I talk. They have to say something about everything, I try to laugh it off, but it gets really old! I think we are friends, am I wrong?
Am I dealing with jerks, or am I just being too touchy? To be fair, this happens when we talk about anything, it drives me crazy! (link)
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Well you know how some guys are, if they like you they tease you or they just tease you just to show off in front of their friends or to so called "fit in" and I know what you're going through because I been through it before. What I think you should do is not pay attention to the jokes anymore and maybe tell you're "friends" that their jokes are getting tired and they should find new ones...and maybe you should add a joke about them but make sure its funny (thats what I used to do) and they should chill after awhile. I hope this helps you.
If you have anymore questions feel free to ask me :).
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what are some excuses to say when someone asks you were you bought something and you don't want to tell them? (link)
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Just tell them it was a gift or tell them that you went to a few stores and forgot which one you bought it from but make sure you lie with a straight face and it should work out fine x) and I know where you coming from too i dont want people jacking my swagg either :)
If you have any other questions feel free to ask me.
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