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Did he genuinly like me or did he just want sex?


Question Posted Monday June 27 2022, 10:55 pm

There's this guy from school who suddenly texted me out of nowhere saying hey! Big fan here. We started texting more late nights and I got attached. In the beginning he was very sweet to me and all. We would send heart emoticons to each other. After few days he confessed to me he likes me. But sometimes he would flirt with me saying I feel like giving you a hug from behind. In between we had a fight but then I sorted it out. After that he started telling me he is busy again and again but whenever we would text about about wwe or football because I like it. He tells me you are so awesome, Let's marry. Then tells me he is kidding. Then he asked me should he propose I told him I dont feel the same way. Recently he asked me If I am a virgin. I got mad at him confronted saying this was disrespectful he told me sorry and deleted the text and I blocked him on instagram. He whatsapped me saying thought you were mature enough and blocked me there.Now I've rekindled things with him. Few days he texted me but now he is ignoring me. Should I block him again?

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DrStephanie answered Monday June 27 2022, 11:45 pm:
Having read your description twice, I got the impression that the two of you have never met in person. Am I right? It reads just as you described it, "flirting". It seems he is on again / off again, and that he's leading up to the possibility of having sex with you, despite not having much of a relationship, if any.

There is a huge difference between an on-line relationship and one in person. I wouldn't even call this a "relationship", to tell the truth.

Its more like on-line flirting.

I think you should do whatever you like, about blocking him, or not. And yes, I do agree that he was being disrespectful by intruding on your privacy, (asking about the status of your virginity). The suggestion is that he is perhaps leading up to whether he can have sex with you, rather than developing any kind of relationship first.

Personally, I don't think he's worth your time.

Good wishes, Dr. Stephanie

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