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should I listen to her not to work
I was a working student for 3 yrs under the roof of my uncle, 2 months ago i decided to go home to my family to work and help them pay the bills,that was the main reason why u decided to go home. While looking for a job my neighbor next door,she is a widow invited me over to their house,she is living with her future daughter in law,because her kids live abroad. In short i have job interview,after my interview she told me if you're going to accept that work i can no longer help you because i just want you here. I was shook why i had to chose where in the first place making money is my priority why i came home,and now i had to chose and i am now so confused. What should i do?
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Is she offering you a job through her rather than you working elsewhere? I am guessing she said what you say she said but it didn't make sense and you did not ask for clarification. If she is simply lonely and wants you to hang around often to keep her company for free, without paying for your time, you will have to consider if there is anything that would be better to you, to accomplish what you want to do. So far, it sounds like an obligation you feel you have to help provide for family. So you need to earn money, that is clear. Could you earn the same or more with her? If so, its up to you if you want to do that or not rather than the job you interview for. I don't know the answers, but I bet if you started asking her questions, very direct to the point questions, then you will have your answer and be able to know how to decide. As far as being just company, you might be able to work a job, have time with family and also stop by to visit her from time to time if you are so inclined and like her.
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