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I don’t think she thinks it’s cool to be in prison but it’s cool to see the inside of one and thinks some parts of it are amusing like
My daughter seems to find the idea of her mom wearing a uniform, sharing a room funny. I wonder why she would think it is funny. Interestingly they have a good relationship. It’s not her mom really. It’s the environment, people, and dress. I asked a person who works at the jail if it is if it is normal that my daughter finds it a bit funny that her mom has to take group showers and wear a uniform and follow orders. She said absolutely. Since she has a good relationship ship with her mom it makes sense she would poke some fun at her especially having to be nude in front of other people since it is embarrassing but also a bit funny. What do you think
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I am sure there is a saying about this, roughly going: It's funny until it happens to you. She's not old enough to use her imagination this way due to the frontal cortex of brain needing time to mature which is on average around 25. Before that, adults will need to paint the picture for her. So lets say if she's laughing about Mom taking group showers nude for all to see, I would say something like, its funny to you until it happens to you. I wish for you to understand this. So maybe when Mom gets out, we can arrange for you to take a shower at home with your female friends and Mom watching you shower. How would you feel? What If your friends were laughing and thought this was great fun, would you? I don't mean to actually do that, just that she hears something like this from Mom might be good. She needs that extra help to visualize this. Every person is different in how they learn, so she still may not get it. But its worth the try.
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