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Helllo
Thanks for answering my question about my daughter visiting her mom in jail.
Like I said my daughter has a good relationship with her mom so her finding it amusing her mom
Will be in jail for a a while is interesting
My daughter actually wants to go and visit which is surprising since I thought it would be scary for her but she actually seems enthusiastic about visiting I also talked to my wife about it and she says bring her if she wants to. I am also surprised about that because I thought she would flat out say no but the most surprising was a corrections officer that works there I talked to, she said that since my daughter is a teenagers it is perfectly fine to take her. She also said use it as a learning experience (what does that mean do you think), ask your wife to be honest about what happened, and to simply present it as a punishment for wrong doing. What do you think about That. You could the guard probably wants to scare kids though She hasn't gone yet so we can still discuss it together
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Some prisons have a program where they scare kids on purpose so they know what reality is like if they are on a bad path and headed there. It's usually run with corrections and inmates who participate. It may be a good idea to find out from the person you spoke to if they can do something to get your daughter to see that there's nothing amusing about any of this.
While it may be fine in their eyes for her to visit her maturity level isn't there in my view. I think unless they show her what it's truly like than visiting really doesn't serve much of a purpose except to show mom that there is support from family even though she is in there. Tough call. You knoww hat she can handle better than anyone though.
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