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Thanks
You were very helpful
Just to say, we've already said love you to each other and text each other every day.
We are now in a different high school to each other and may never see the other half again
How can I tell if I'm still his spouse or he's in love with another girl??
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A spouse means you are legally married. So my guess is you meant girl friend. The sad truth of a long distance relationship (LDR) is that even keeping in touch via the internet or phone calls/texting is not the same as being there for real. You will never feel the hand holding, hugs and kisses of whomever you talk to on line. If you both drive perhaps you can visit each other on weekends once in a while. But whatever you both do or how you feel for each other if he has feelings will pale in comparison to any live attention from another guy for you and another girl for him. There is too much that can easily be hidden from you on line so whatever he says, you can't really know if he is seeing some one else besides keeping up on line with you. It is too easy for a person to say what the other wants to hear knowing they can't be there in person to watch you and see if you are consistent. High school is usually a first love and can be real. Although love at that age can become marriage partners and last life long, it is the exception rather than the rule meaning it does not happen very often. There is a lot of maturing I did from High school through my twenties and I suppose the same would go for both of you. Often what captured our attention as teens will not be the same as young adults. So just enjoy what you can of the friendship long distance and don't worry where it is going right now.
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