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Threesome
I want to do a threesome and it's this Saturday but I feel guilty keeping it behind my mom's back because shes sees me as her daughter and all that and because she is my best friend but i really want to do a threesome but I feel guilty and I have been debating whether I should do it or not and I want to but I'm scared and nervous and I don't know what to do.
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By the time I read this and answered you, your Saturday plans will have already taken place. But here are some thoughts to share with you,nevertheless:
You are clearly young and inexperienced. I wish you had included your age. I have to assume you are still a minor and living in your parent's home, or you wouldn't have said what you did.
Given that, you shouldn't be doing anything that you couldn't share with your mother, threesome or anything else. She is responsible for you and you are still a minor! She has your best interests at heart and you are still so young that you cannot foresee all the consequences of your actions.
You said nothing about using birth control. You said nothing about the sex partners you would be with. In my opinion, you shouldn't be having sex at all at your tender young age, much less a twosome, threesome, or any-some.
You are not considering the possibilities of pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, (some of which can be permanent or even fatal!), or how it would affect you emotionally. This is what I mean about not seeing around the corners at your age.
Honey, don't do this. Don't do anything that you feel you have to hide or cannot discuss with a caring and informed adult, preferably your parent, or if not, at least someone who is in a position to help you think through things: a school counselor, your doctor, your religious leader, even Planned Parenthood.
The time has come and gone. But its not too late to make a new plan of action for now and the foreseeable future. Good luck and good wishes, Dr. Stephanie
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DON'T. If you are scared, doubting and don't want to do anything much less a sexual practice you aren't wanting to do take that voice in your head and listen to it.
Know from that voice that's constantly in your head that it's not the right thing for you.
If you have any guilt or doubt don't do this because it sounds as though people are pressuring you etc. If you feel your parents wouldn't approve that's just another sign and reason not to. You need to communicate with your partner that this is just one thing you're not interested in. If he doesn't get that you need to find someone who does.
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