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What about my gender?
Thank you for reading my question.
I am just confused and will like some help on gender identity. Here we go….
I have been assigned the gender of a girl, but I don't always feel that way. Before you start to think "Transgender?", let me get to a point.
For example, one day I feel feminine. I look in the mirror and I absolutely love my body. But the next day I look in the mirror and I hate it so much. (Wait, I'm not done yet.) Then the day after that, I look in the mirror and I don't really care. As in, I don't feel feminine or even masculine. That was just an example. Each feeling could last a few days at the most.
Sometimes, and this just makes it more confusing, I want to wear makeup while wearing a tomboy outfit. Or even the other way around. I want to wear a dress, but no makeup.
This might seem like normal, but I am just very confused on my gender. I think I have one, but sometimes I feel like I don't. But I know that I'm not agender. Please help me.
Thank you so very much.
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Mind you, this is coming from a cishet man, but I believe you would fall under "gender fluid," which is technically under the blanket of transgender. I have transgender friends who don't even always present as their gender. One who is a transman will just put on makeup and pretty up like a "woman would," but he still goes by he/him and male name.
So I don't think it's even that uncommon to kinda flow along the gender spectrum. There are also people who present as masculine feminine, which I've seen as women who dress very masculine and formal, but also still very much keep feminine features, so not like tomboy.
At the end of the day, you're you. How you want to present is valid. What gender you feel like, even if it changes day to day, is valid.
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