I am just confused and will like some help on gender identity. Here we go….
I have been assigned the gender of a girl, but I don't always feel that way. Before you start to think "Transgender?", let me get to a point.
For example, one day I feel feminine. I look in the mirror and I absolutely love my body. But the next day I look in the mirror and I hate it so much. (Wait, I'm not done yet.) Then the day after that, I look in the mirror and I don't really care. As in, I don't feel feminine or even masculine. That was just an example. Each feeling could last a few days at the most.
Sometimes, and this just makes it more confusing, I want to wear makeup while wearing a tomboy outfit. Or even the other way around. I want to wear a dress, but no makeup.
This might seem like normal, but I am just very confused on my gender. I think I have one, but sometimes I feel like I don't. But I know that I'm not agender. Please help me.
Thank you so very much.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Doesn't Fit Any Of These Categories? laynemayhem answered Saturday August 15 2020, 12:21 am: I’ve heard of something called “gender fluidity”, meaning you don’t feel totally like a girl, but not totally like a boy. You can probably go to Tumblr to learn more about it and meet people like yourself, because you’re definitely not alone. And yes, it’s definitely different from being transgender. In this day and age, you can be WHATEVER you want and you’ll meet plenty of people JUST LIKE YOU, you just have to know where to find them. Like I said, there’s a lot of people like that on Tumblr, and you can probably get a lot better advice from someone who has your actual perspective. :) [ laynemayhem's advice column | Ask laynemayhem A Question ]
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