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What about my gender?
Thank you for reading my question.
I am just confused and will like some help on gender identity. Here we go….
I have been assigned the gender of a girl, but I don't always feel that way. Before you start to think "Transgender?", let me get to a point.
For example, one day I feel feminine. I look in the mirror and I absolutely love my body. But the next day I look in the mirror and I hate it so much. (Wait, I'm not done yet.) Then the day after that, I look in the mirror and I don't really care. As in, I don't feel feminine or even masculine. That was just an example. Each feeling could last a few days at the most.
Sometimes, and this just makes it more confusing, I want to wear makeup while wearing a tomboy outfit. Or even the other way around. I want to wear a dress, but no makeup.
This might seem like normal, but I am just very confused on my gender. I think I have one, but sometimes I feel like I don't. But I know that I'm not agender. Please help me.
Thank you so very much.
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Dear Confused,
Sometimes it can seem confusing to one's place in the world because of how people will perceive you. It's not that you are figuring what you are but more of who you are. If you are born a girl, then you are a girl. If you were born a boy, then you are a boy. What you feel doesn't resonate on what or who you are. People in the world will judge and assume that they know how you have to be, feel or act if you are a boy or a girl. Don't cater to those opinions. Now reading what you wrote you seem as if you are a girl who has different feelings in different situations. What you wear is up to you and how comfortable you feel in it. Wearing makeup or not wearing makeup doesn't make you any less of who you are. You just have to feel comfortable with you. Once you do that you can figure the rest out.
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