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What about my gender?
Thank you for reading my question.
I am just confused and will like some help on gender identity. Here we go….
I have been assigned the gender of a girl, but I don't always feel that way. Before you start to think "Transgender?", let me get to a point.
For example, one day I feel feminine. I look in the mirror and I absolutely love my body. But the next day I look in the mirror and I hate it so much. (Wait, I'm not done yet.) Then the day after that, I look in the mirror and I don't really care. As in, I don't feel feminine or even masculine. That was just an example. Each feeling could last a few days at the most.
Sometimes, and this just makes it more confusing, I want to wear makeup while wearing a tomboy outfit. Or even the other way around. I want to wear a dress, but no makeup.
This might seem like normal, but I am just very confused on my gender. I think I have one, but sometimes I feel like I don't. But I know that I'm not agender. Please help me.
Thank you so very much.
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You could be non-binary if you don’t identity being strictly one gender or if you are leaning towards androgynous. It’s completely fine to have the feelings you do. You can be whoever you want and dress up however you want depending on the day. The most important thing is you do whatever you want and you do not need to label yourself a gender. You can choose your preferred pronouns and still not need a label for yourself. You don’t owe anyone any explanations on how you feel, what kind of clothes you wear, etc. Start thinking about if having a gender is important to you, whether non-binary is an option or if you’re good with just picking pronouns. It’s a good starting point. Nothing is set in stone and you can change how you feel on things whenever.
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