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What about my gender?
Thank you for reading my question.
I am just confused and will like some help on gender identity. Here we go….
I have been assigned the gender of a girl, but I don't always feel that way. Before you start to think "Transgender?", let me get to a point.
For example, one day I feel feminine. I look in the mirror and I absolutely love my body. But the next day I look in the mirror and I hate it so much. (Wait, I'm not done yet.) Then the day after that, I look in the mirror and I don't really care. As in, I don't feel feminine or even masculine. That was just an example. Each feeling could last a few days at the most.
Sometimes, and this just makes it more confusing, I want to wear makeup while wearing a tomboy outfit. Or even the other way around. I want to wear a dress, but no makeup.
This might seem like normal, but I am just very confused on my gender. I think I have one, but sometimes I feel like I don't. But I know that I'm not agender. Please help me.
Thank you so very much.
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It sounds like you're trying to figure out who you are. I am a bit of a tomboy myself where I like to wear comfortable clothing and when I get in the mood I like to dress up with some makeup.
I recommend looking up groups in your area- I'm sure there are lots of people out there like you trying to figure who they truly are. Try googling "gender identity groups-include your zip code or area that you're in." That way you can get the proper love and support you need in figuring out who you are.
ALSO- Facebook probably has LOTS of pages out there like- "Discussing gender critical & gender identity" <--- that's onr page AND
"You and Your Gender Identity: A Guide to Discovery Support Group."
Those sound like great groups to join via facebook and get involved- read people's stories, struggles, love and support for one another. Those pages are out there to help you and everyone else out there. They're like you trying to find their identity but need that extra boost or advice in the community.
I feel like the groups in person or on an online community might be your best bet on figuring out your gender identity.
I appreciate your question and I hope that was of some help. Good luck, do what makes you feel comfortable and remember there are other people out there in the same boat as you- especially in those groups! : )
Also becoming more aware of yourself comes with age- I'm always working on myself.
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