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Family fued
Im in love with my mother and she is in love with me. We have had a relationship for 4 months now but i keep having doubt. What do you think?
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The relationship you have is out of the norm so many will automatically consider it wrong. Or people are scared of anything they haven't come across before or they misunderstand any current day perceptions based on facts from past that may not be valid today.
I am assuming your mother is a single mother or now widowed. If she is still married to your father, then it is not right to carry on such a relationship, like a couples relationship, while he is still married to her. If this is the case, it depends on whether she wants to fix the marrieage or get a divorce before she is clear to date or commit to someone.
My second husband is much into fantasizing about me being his mom sometimes in sex. You know how everyone usually have some situation which they like to think on during sex. However you are talking about more than a sexual thing, at least f rom what I can tell. YOu said relationship. If you are not yet of the age of consent, even if you are not sexual, the chance it could be so, gets people riled up if they see you both act anything other than mother and son.
What you propose to do here, even if Mom is legally single now, is going to be hard to hide. As long as you live in the same neighborhood and can be seen by neighbors, school, work collegues and other family and friends, you won't be able to hide it well. It make take relocating to somewhere people don't know you and keep yourselfs very private. Then you might be able to carry it off as a female who's a cougar and the young man who is into her. Just know that if it gets too much attention you may be in a same boat as those harrassed by racists and the LGBTQ community by the fearful and uneducated.
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