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Question Posted Thursday April 9 2020, 7:22 pm

I’m 15 and I was born with nub toes on my right foot.They are literally tiny, and barely have toenails that I could probably peel completely off. I have the crushing hatred and insecurity of them(which I should), and for the last few years with the development of shows like Botched By Nature On E!, I have hope that there is a possibility of a operation when I am older that will put bones in my toes to make them normal and want to know if that is even possible, and if not how to manage beyond that?

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Danicus answered Thursday April 23 2020, 2:46 pm:
I had a girlfriend once that had the same thing you do. She was really insecure about it. But I really didn't give a damn. I wasn't dating her for her toes. I loved her just fine. I literally couldn't care less. Nobody is perfect. If someone doesn't want you because of your toes, then you don't want them either.

I've known people that have had plastic surgery and it didn't make them as happy as they thought. They said it would have been better to just accept what is.

You can also just play it off as that something happened when you were a baby and it left them like that. In the case of my ex gf, she said she hit her toe really hard or something fell on it when she was a baby and it killed the nerve or something and it stopped growing. Was it true? I don't know. Did it matter to me? No. And it won't matter if the other person loves you. And if they don't, they're shallow and superficial and you don't want to be with them anyway.

You gotta stop watching those shows that only make u feel bad. Its like a poor person watching lifestyles of the rich and famous, where they wipe their butt with $100 bills, just to feel bad. Don't fill your head with things that make u feel bad.

You're fine, you don't need surgery. Just accept yourself how you are. Nobody that you want to be with is gonna care about your toes. Stop telling yourself that its such a big deal, cause its really not. If you start feeling bad about it, tell yourself "Meh, nobody is perfect." If someone gives you crap about them, say "meh, nobody is perfect." Hard to argue with that.

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karenR answered Saturday April 11 2020, 1:21 pm:
I think toe surgery to make toes shorter is actually pretty popular. That being said, I am sure they can do plastic surgery on your toes! You will probably have to wait until you stop growing first, but after that, you can have it done.

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