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how to stay angry
I am sure in your minds you are thinking why I want to stay angry at someone well I will tell u why
I like this boys in my class everyone now knows I like him because a couple of friends and I went to the movies and they made us sit together because some of them said he liked me I didn't believe them thought while others told him I liked him anyway we were siting together and we started cuddling up and my friends started taking pics I begged them not to tell anyone but one of the posted the pic on there statue so now everyone knows about us.
Anyway well a couple of days ago a friend of mine told me he liked me. since I liked someone else I told him I didn't like him that way but he still didn't give up he told me he was going to kiss me I told him not to but he tod me he was still going to do it anyway let us pretend that my crush is boy A and my friend id boy B
A lot of my classmate say me and my crush are dating which is not true and he still hasn't told me he likes me so I am bit confused but I think he knows I like him because he always makes fun of me for blushing but I also catch him looking at me.
Anyway boy B told boy A he was going to kiss me but instead of boy A to react he told boy B that he would pay him money to kiss me which really hurt my feelings and I told boy A I was mad at him but I keep blushing and playing with him and he is so cute and I can't stay mad at him. so boy A told me I cant stay mad at him which is true even though he apologised I want to stay mad at him because he hurt my feelings and he told me I can't stay mad at him I want to prove him wrong and make him beg for my forgiveness.
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Anger is like drinking poision and bathing in it multiple times a day. It is self-destructive and will only physically and mentally harm the person who is angry and worse holding on to it. It can even destroy a person depending what they're holding on to and for how long. You can be angry all you want at someone but it's always YOU not your target that suffers. Let it go because it's not worth it.
What happened wasn't right but it's typical of adolescent boys. You can't let it bother you and in fact it may be good you found out what he was saying about money and not really liking you. This way you don't get involved with him or his friend. You won't have your feelings hurt further. You know what the deal is with them both. You shouldn't have a part of them really.
Instead of being angry you should calmly tell them that what they did to you or said about you and money etc was disgusting which it is and that you don't want anything more to do with either one of them. Then just drop the issue and go on about your life and don't look back.
Like I said there's ZERO point other than harming yourself by taking that figurative drink of posion or bathing in it over and over by wanting someone else to beg for forgiveness etc. It will do a real number on you and not so much him. I know what he did hurt you but you must hold your head high and know that that's who they are and you don't need the drama. There's no point holding on to this stuff at all. The sooner you let it go the happier you're going to become.
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